What does he think? Does he get freaked out by it? Esp. if the mom is very very good to her and seems like she likes the girl alot....
2007-09-11 17:29:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do i get major points with the guy? (i know guys will hide it but deep down inside, it's a good thing, right?)
even if he's not a mama's boy?
2007-09-11 17:29:25 · update #1
yes they do.
if the girl gets along well with the mom, it means she can get along with him. the mom and dad is an alter ego for the man...
the attitudes and preferences of the man came from the parents because they were the first teachers for him and if the girl doesn't have any problem with the parents, everything is in the right place...by the way this applies the other way around too.
2007-09-11 17:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by shekinah seven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its a good thing. I mean a mother is the first woman in any man or woman's life. A mother that is decent and kind and good will be like the queen of his universe. Heck even some women feel that way. So if the mom can get along with a guy or girl that their kid brings home its a very positive sign. Heck you should already know you are doing the right things if he is letting you meet his mom in the first place. As the queen the guy usually doesn't want any chick to meet her. So he will hold off or keep you from meeting her if yo aren't the right type of girl that he knows she wouldn't approve of. So I say you are in there for sure. Now when he meets your parents as well I'm sure you will give him brownie points for saying and doing the right things as well to impress them. Same as guys do for women they bring home to mom. See men and women aren't that different, its just the fact we play the game alot differently.
2007-09-11 17:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For both you and the guy's sake, it's better if you have a great relationship with the mom than not having one at all. All guys are momma's boys, (even if they don't want to admit it or show it.) And their mother has a significant role in their life, even in their dating/love life. By having the mom like you, she can play a helpful role in your relationship and she can either make or break it by just having a say in what she thinks is right "for her baby boy". By having her on your side, you may have more leverage in many sticky situations in your relationship. Does it freak him out? Maybe, maybe not, it depends on the guy. But for the most part, it's better to have a good relationship and have him feel a estranged "buddy-buddy" vibe between the two of you than a horrible "all out war for his heart and loyalty." vibe
2007-09-11 17:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by fobabe032 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience some of the guys I dated got worried if I got along too well with the family. It scares them sometimes because if you develop a good relationship with them, then they could put pressure on him to make it work, treat you right etc. It could be a nightmare for him if it didn't work, and could cause family problems. If you are already serious, I think its totally a plus if you get along with his mom and family. It is much easier if you actually like them then because you are all going to be around.
2007-09-11 17:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetness 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll get points if she likes you, but he might get freaked out if you develop too close of a relationship with the mom because he'll start feeling boxed in if the relationship turns south or he's not sure if where its going. If you've just started dating, make sure you get along with her but don't try to start up a separate relationship with her - i.e., hanging out, talking on the phone, etc.
2007-09-11 17:34:00 · answer #5 · answered by Needs to go to bed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that could make me much extra confotable understanding that my mom likes her. I dont think of its a foul element in any respect. it would make the excellent dating much less complicated. you be attentive to what in spite of the incontrovertible fact that, each lady i've got ever introduced over my mom likes, yet whilst it is composed of me assembly the females mothers and dads, I dont think of i've got ever been general and that sucks! It makes each little thing in straightforward terms slightly extra harder on the guy whilst the females mothers and dads dont approve.
2016-10-10 10:25:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my g/f gets along very well with my mom. i give brownie points to both of them. it makes going out with my parents easy and hanging around the house with them too! Defiantly a plus in a guys book!
2007-09-11 17:34:01 · answer #7 · answered by Greg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its okay, it depends. i wouldnt like it if i felt the girl was just being fake around my mom to win points with me. i also wouldn;t like it if i wasnt too serious with the girl and they are already close cuz it would be harder to end relationship. but if its serious and mom and girl are cool, ya its a good thing i guess.
2007-09-11 17:33:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be a good thing for me, if i ever get serious with a woman ill have her meet my mother, her approval means a lot to me.
2007-09-11 17:35:04 · answer #9 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want THE girl to get along with my mom. But if there too close. it is kinda weird.
2007-09-11 17:34:38 · answer #10 · answered by ilvvrzn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋