i know how everyone says the girls shouldn't cling to their boyfriends and give them space etc. what is the limit to giving boyfriends space? i'm sure there're no definite answers to this but i'd like to hear opinions. (:
2007-09-09 19:48:01 · 4 answers · asked by dinOgaL(: 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My relationships usually start out rather slow. I don't get in a hurry and hold out for just what I want. I never date a guy I wouldn't consider marriage to. Character is very important to me. I set boundaries early on and stay within them. For ex., no sex outside of marriage. I am a challenge to any guy, (am never taken for granted) but easy to be with. Limit myself to be on the phone with him to about 12 minutes; long enough to make plans for a date. Don't "visit" on the phone. As the relationship progresses, if he wants to date me every night, then it's time to talk "marriage." Although I didn't tell him that, that's the way it worked out. Only been married once.
That's it in a nutshell, and I have been very pleased with the results/outcome.
2007-09-09 20:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by wildflower 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriends - Lots of space
No one has made you any promises.
But don't be silly, if you're banging a guy for five years and commitment isn't on the radar, someones in denial & it aint him. You might want to rethink that free milk vrs cow purchase thing.
Husbands, they do need a weekly night out with the boys. But they don't need 'seprate vacations' and if the boys bring them home at 3am drunk with lipsitck on the collar it's time to jerk the leash.
2 books
"10 Stupid Things Women Do To Mess Up There Lives"
"The Proper Care & Feeding of Husbands"
2007-09-10 03:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenix Quill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I try very hard not to be clingy. I've heard that most people have a problem with really frequent phone calls, especially about nothing in particular, demanding contact and interest in all the slightest little thing, and not letting them do other things without you, see their friends etc.
It also depends what stage your relationship is at.
2007-09-10 03:03:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like it depends lets say he wants to play basketball with his friends or go to a sporting event, then you know the guys are going out, unless he would invite you to go. Also it depends on how long you have been together. If you have been together for a while then you might spend more time with him than if you were to only been seeing each other for like a week or a month.
2007-09-10 03:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. RiGhT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋