What does it mean when a girl says..
"I don't know you well enough"?
Well first off all, my friends heart is busted and not functioning properly now. I was there at the moment it happened.. it looked pretty brutal. Hope it never happens to me X_X;;.. But he said he liked her and she replied saying "I don't know you well enough..." Before this happened, i talked to her myself and she said she liked him???!? but then after that she said i don't know you well enough...??
2007-09-09 20:04:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"I don't know you well enough" translates to "I've been hurt before, you're another guy, I don't trust you."
2007-09-09 20:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Alright dude, check this. Females are not that complicated. Yes, she MAY in fact like your friend. BUT that does not mean she is ready to have a committed relationship with him. Watch, your friend is going to screw it up because NOW he's going to think he's going to get nowhere with her so he's going to stop talking to her. Tell him not to. Keep talking to her, give it some time, and she'll come around. 1) She's playing hard to get and wants to see if he wants to be with her that bad 2) She really may not know him good enough yet. Either way, right now is when he REALLY needs to be talking to her.
2007-09-10 03:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she's pushing off/being cold a little towards him and backing out of the relationship a little.
Though it's not a total back off because she is basically saying "We need to get to know each other more", at least it's not like "We can't persue anything"
Tell him to think that way and take it SLOWLY, that means NO pressure on the girl, go with her pace.
Otherwise he will push her away & lose her.
2007-09-10 03:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a crushing blow, that's just a cautionary one. She's just being careful and basically saying she wants to know him better before she makes a decision.
Sheesh people, "I don't know you well enough" is infinitely preferable to "I don't like you in that way". With the first one you still have a chance.
2007-09-10 03:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a woman says, "I don't know you well enough," it is a way of saying, " I am not certain if I like you or not if you give me time I might like you more." She needs time to decide which direct she wants to go with your friend. She probably does like him, but these feelings often lead into confusion. Be patient!
2007-09-10 03:12:12 · answer #5 · answered by SuziChi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are confusing. ill admit it, I'm a girl and i like my guy friends better than my girl friends. from what you said and my experience, shes just trying not to get too committed just in case she gets to know the guy more and finds out he's just not what shes into. instead of just telling him she likes him, she's probably giving it time to make sure she does so she doesn't lead him on MORE and then crush him MORE.
Thats the kind of situation that just needs a little time. she'll figure it out eventually, just don't push her.
2007-09-10 03:15:58 · answer #6 · answered by Olivia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion when a girl tells you that she doesn't know you well enough she wants to take things slower. Maybe she really doesn't know him good enough.
2007-09-10 03:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just that, I dont know you well enough. It dosent mean she dosent like him, Sounds like he was asking for sex and she wasnt ready. Tell him to back off.
2007-09-10 03:07:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was he asking her to do? be his girlfriend? usually people date and THEN they become a couple. She probably doesn't want to rush into a romantic relationship and wants to take it slow. Your friend is blowing this waaay out of proportion.
2007-09-10 03:07:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that probably means she likes you as a friend but doesnt want to get serious with your firend right now.....and tell your friend to get on with his life there are a lot of other girls out there
2007-09-10 03:12:33 · answer #10 · answered by charlie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she didn't mean like him like he liked her. thats normally the answer a girl gives when she's turning you down while trying to be nice. your firend should ahve been smooth and been like, "well lets get to know each other then" or something
2007-09-10 03:09:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋