me and my fiance used to have sex all the time but now that im pregant we stopped its been about 2 months since we have had sex and he was always so easy to get hard and he would stay that way.but last night i was tring to get him hard and it took me awhile and then i did and he got up to turn off the light and he was limp again.but last week i was tryn to get him hard and it was easy.we did not have sex though.is this normal? could he be cheating on me idk i have no clue?
2007-09-09 19:21:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i cant go into detail, because of the yahoo police, so email if you need more detail.
first, a sign of cheating is wanting more , not less. so rule that out.
many things cause this, like stress and meds. but i would guess, he is afraid of hurting the baby. many men believe the poor baby has to duck during sex. funny, i know, but we guys are really stupid about somethings.
viagra is a great fix. just tell him the girls at work were telling you how great it is and you want to try it. you know he doesnt need it, you just want to see if it really does last three hours (it does).
2007-09-09 19:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably not cheating on you. You said you're pregnant? That is probably what his problem is. He is under a lot of pressure right now worrying about the baby and responsibility he's taking on. Not to mention... having sex with a pregnant woman would be a new experience for most guys... it might be a bit weird for him? Just relax and talk about it with him. Maybe give him a good BJ instead? I'm sure he'd appreciate it. :-p
2007-09-09 19:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by binaryloop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys are afraid to have sex with a woman when they are pregnant. Just reassure him that he can not hurt the baby, and if that does not work, talk to him about why he thinks it is happening. He may just be under a lot of stress with the baby coming and all.
2007-09-09 19:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-14 20:04:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of men just don't like "riding-the-hump" !!
2007-09-09 20:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is more likely that you being pregnant has made him lose his sexual desire... many men (me included) go off sex once their partner becomes pregnant... maybe it is a genetic thing, to protect the mother of you child and not want to harm her or the baby with sex... who knows... all i know is, desire subsides significantly...
don't worry...
2007-09-09 19:35:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it something in nature. your prego no need to breed. just a thought, never done a preggie b4
i'm sure he still loves you!!
2007-09-09 19:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be having like "off-days" or something like that.
2007-09-09 19:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by Dario Phantom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋