Ladies do you think I came on too strong on her( well actually not came up) because I did this while we chat on myspace!
Well It's been a while since I;ve known this girl we were in a class together But I graduated already she will soon graduate as well!
Anyways we chat almost daily on myspace for hours and then I asked her out (I know it was lame through myspace But I didnt know where she lived or anything that's why I asked there)
And she agreed to go out with me, so then I asked for her phone # and I told her that I didn't want to pressure her into giving it to me If she felt uncomfortable doing so! and I also told her if she wanted I could give her mine that way she would hit me up when she wanted!
Well days have passed and she didn't gave me an answer! and she won't even chat with me anymore!
WhY do you think this is? Did I came on too strong? Please tell me what you think happened! Thanks
2007-09-09 19:24:31 · 24 answers · asked by Vicz101 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
buddy , you ruined a good thing!
2007-09-09 19:27:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
It's very possible. I think almost every guy has made the mistake of coming on too strong at least once in his life.
As great as facebook & myspace are for meeting friends, they are not good at all for meeting potential love interests. If you want love from the internet, go to eharmony.
Unfortunately for us, women are conditioned to view men they don't know as potential rapists. The best thing you can do is try to appear nonchalant about getting contact information. for example, never ask a single girl where she lives (unless she's in your neighborhood or it somehow fits into the conversation).
2007-09-10 02:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by Grant G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why be a phantom to her when you could just go to the school when it gets out and say, HEY, want to get a soda and fries,etc.
Even agree to meet her at the burger joint so she does not get scared.
But she does know who you are and knows your a real person and not some pervert that is stalking her, so you really do have a valid question.
Possible she has been sick or out of town.
IM her on myspace and ask her if it would be alright to meet her after school, see if she responds and also see if she has been on myspace recently.
If she has been on and has not responded to you, BACK OFF, let her contact you first or just move on...
2007-09-10 02:35:55 · answer #3 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually u didn't come on 2 strong I think u took it pretty slow u even gave her an option 4 her 2 call u when she wuz ready & mayb she isn't at diz point also haz she been online lately she could b buzy. Juzt give it sum time don't strezz urself.
2007-09-10 02:30:48 · answer #4 · answered by mz_alwaystruthful 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you came on too strong because you only asked for her number after asking her out and her saying yes. You also gave her the option of giving her your number.
2007-09-10 02:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by Evieve 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think she was just looking for some online fun and freaked out when she realized she was talking to a real person. Give it a couple of days and if you still don't hear from her give up. She was probably just playing with you anyway.
2007-09-10 02:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by Elle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The problem is hers not yours. She became scared when you asked for her telephone number. She liked you on a friendship level, but once you crossed a line, she decided it was easier to ignore than tell you that she has no interest. Don't take the blame for you did nothing wrong.
2007-09-10 02:29:53 · answer #7 · answered by SuziChi 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I love my boyfriend but I'm searching on a dating site. I'm afraid my boyfriend would find out my secret when I'm chatting with a wealthy nice single man on Richkiss.com. So maybe you get this.
2007-09-10 02:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by prettie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you acted like a wussy by talking to her for hours online, then sheepishly asked for her phone number, what do you expect?
NEVER apologize for asking for a phone number. You also made yourself seem to available and needy by saying she could call you when SHE wanted.
2007-09-10 02:29:16 · answer #9 · answered by Style 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK there are 3 possibilities:
1st- (and worst) she do not like you(as a bf)!!!!she care about you only as a friend!!!
2nd- she is shy to call you, why don't you make the first move?
if you like her,go and find her,and tell her your feelings, maybe she feels the same.
3rd-other problems that she must face,don't allow her to be with you(family,forced at school-no time for bf...)
2007-09-10 02:37:21 · answer #10 · answered by CHEM1710 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree, it does sound like you were a bit unsure of yourself, and she probably picked up on that. You don't want to show that you aren't confident, girls pick up on weaknesses and it's usually a turn-off.
If you want to try and patch things up, I wouldn't message her again unless it's really casual and you aren't trying to push going out with her.
2007-09-10 02:30:27 · answer #11 · answered by Paige18ae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋