Singles & Dating - 13 May 2007

There is this married woman at work who is having an affair with a married man. I speak to him sometimes and we are friends,he told me she is very jealous and possessive. Anyway,this one day he called me and i didnt know but she was listening outside the room,she then folowed me outside and started threatening me and getting angry,i told her i already have a bf-which i have. I just dont need the hassle at work,i had to leave the last building i worked at over a man,if she gets me in trouble i could get the sack but i havent done anything wrong I also dont like the atmosphere between me and her,she is very moody.

2007-05-13 20:02:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, my bf is the sweetest but sometimes, when he gets playful, he now likes to jump on my back for fun after I proved to him that I'm fit. I may be a cheerleader but it can get tiring on the thighs on a bad day. Since it's in the spirit of fun, I'll still oblige but isn't this supposed to be the other way around (well he gives me rides too but I thought it was exclusively the guy's role)?

And oh yeah, has anyone else experienced this or am I ... hmm ... the only one who is odd and peculiar?

2007-05-13 20:00:07 · 5 answers · asked by Stacy J 1

he will never, never, tell you he misses you, or that he likes you ~~~ someone said this...
Any truth to it.....

2007-05-13 19:51:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, story:
I've known this guy since when i was 14 and he was 19(cause Our family are good friends), but he moved out of Hawaii and i hadn't seen him in 10 years. So we had an early summer bbq and he was there. Maybe cause i grew boobs and am now 24, that we just hit it off. It was wierd, but nice and I like him and he likes me. Well, he was only visiting and went back to S. Carolina. I just found out I'm pregnant and it's his (haven't had sex in 6 moths before).

Here's the problem: I found out he's had 3 miscarriages and 1 abortion with other girls throughout the 10 years. He must have supersperm or something. He doesn't want kids right now, and neither do I, but now I know I with child, and I wanna keep it.

HOW DO I TELL HIM? I have a feeling the reaction is gonna destroy that chemistry we have.

(Sorry so long)

2007-05-13 19:50:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

she stoped responding mails, coz i except ed her as a friend and not a girl friend.

2007-05-13 19:49:07 · 15 answers · asked by Shana 2

we have been together for 5 and a half yrs and he still hasnt popped the q. can you help?

2007-05-13 19:47:20 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

do guys think your "doing to much" when you call them or text them alot. Do you like attention or a little space?lemme know = ]..
do you think if a girl acts flirty all the time (just with u) that she's being to flirty?
do you like when she callz u names like "baby"or"sexxi"or "handsome" u know the usual stuff..
do you like em to be all touchy..
and last but SURELY not least..where do ya like to be kissed&touched the most
lemme in..i needa know..!!!!

2007-05-13 19:47:03 · 6 answers · asked by Shy 2

In awkward position rt now. I'm married & had been involved with this married woman for 3 mos. We had a great time together. We were intimate, we were friends. I wasn't talking to her as much as in the beginning. I still talked to her every day or so but she felt we were growing apart. I made mistake of posting on a board a fantasy I had. She did a search for me & found it. Turned her off. She said it changed everything. It was awkward 4 me 2 have 2 explain 2 her. Now she doesn't want to have anything to do w/ me despite the fact that she said she would remain friends with me. I am hurt & bitter. I actually fell for this one. I like her & not just because of the sex. I know so many things about her & I know she wants divorced from her husband. She wants it on her terms. I'm contemplating telling him everything. I run the risk of her finding my wife & telling on me or coming to my job & making a scene. This would ruin her. Should I tell her husband or let this one go?

2007-05-13 19:45:17 · 9 answers · asked by Big Mike 1

ok sooo this is going to sound wierd but have you ever heard of that quote '16 and never been kisses'? That would be me!
I have never been kissed before and all my friends have..the school disco is coming up and all my friends think i should 'hook up' with one of the guys..they don't know that i have never kissed a guy before and I dont want them to know eiether! Its really embarassing..What do I do? How do you kiss someone? ..oh im so embarassed even asking this question..

2007-05-13 19:43:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

150 million women in the U.S., and not one of them will have anything to do with me. I have no one to confide in, no one to laugh and be merry with; just a dead end temp job which I'll probably lose because of jury duty. Don't give me that religion BS, that schit just makes me sucidal. I need a decent woman to go out with--to make my life a litte more worthwhile, perhaps?

2007-05-13 19:37:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been seeing a guy for just over 1 month now...he asked me to marry him the other day. which i only met him 1 month ago. we've only had sex two times. He is a nice guy but, i havent even no where near fallin in love with him. In a way it seems a little weird to me he'd even think i'd be ready.he lives 1 hour from me and we've only spent 2 weekends together. Is this normal? should it be a red flag to me? please tell me what u think.

2007-05-13 19:32:28 · 23 answers · asked by littlebit 2

Ok gang I am leaving the US in a couple of weeks and will probably be headed back to Iraq for 6/7 months with the UK Army.I have been with my girl for nearly 3 months and have never had things so good in a relationship.We were talking last night and she said "I really like you but am holding back because of my past, I know it's cheesy but it's not you it's me". Is she playing for time so she can finish things when I get back to the UK or is she scared she will get hurt again and just needing a bit more time to come to terms with her feelings ? Any ideas on what my next move should be will be appreciated.

2007-05-13 19:31:48 · 11 answers · asked by Shy Brit guy 1

i have made women *** ova 15 times til they couldnt no more what do that mean

2007-05-13 19:30:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's the short story. Me and my ex broke up about 2 months ago. We had been together for a year and a half. I do not want to get back with him whatsoever! But we were friends before we got together. Now me and his cousin are best friends and they are very close. This summer me and my friend will be going to the lake, alot. Well, my ex will be going as well. He has a new girlfriend and she will probably be with him most of the time. If it were up to me I would do everything I could not to be around him. I do not want to pass up any chances to have fun, just to avoid being around my ex. My friends have already talked to him about being around me this summer. He says everything is cool, and it will be fine. I think I will be fine if I just have to be around him. But if I have to be around his new girlfriend, I do not know how comfortable I will be with the situation. I know I can deal with it, but I just need some advice about the issue!

2007-05-13 19:27:33 · 9 answers · asked by michelle 23 1

what dou u think about this match.. ?

2007-05-13 19:21:59 · 19 answers · asked by rochi_2006 2

when a guy keeps callin you and texting you all day and all night do you like the attention?

if you didn't like him doing so would you tell him?

and if you did like him doing so would you ignore him from time to time to keep the calls coming??

2007-05-13 19:13:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am good in cooking class of mine but my father want to to take nursing please help me what course i will take in college

2007-05-13 19:11:13 · 7 answers · asked by chin 1

OMG..... Kellie my friend found out yesterday she was pregnant she just turned 14 last week!!!! She's been dating my ex Alec & I dunno he may be that dad but he's 14 too!!! She's kinda round on the stomach! She hasn't told her parents that she took the pregnancy test & got the news!!! I need help!!!!! I dunno if she can do abortion but I can't stand the thought of killing a baby it can't help it was made!!!! What advie should I give her?????

2007-05-13 19:09:35 · 20 answers · asked by NeeNee 1

im 13 but most peole think im like 18 or 16 and i have a big butt and boobys but im a lil chubby just a little is that bad?

2007-05-13 19:09:17 · 15 answers · asked by chelsea d 1

And If you tell me, "Yes" how do I go about it doing the dating scene?

2007-05-13 19:07:57 · 11 answers · asked by ACME 4

My girlfriend always talks to guys, most of her friends are guys. She says she'd never do anything with any other guy and that she is just friends with them, nothing more. I tried to tell her how guys think and that to guys, there is no such thing as just friends but she doesn't believe me. I told her that all they wanna do is get her pants if they actually want to be her friend...and she said she can't help that. I told her that if thats what they want from her then she shouldn't want to be around them but she just said "But they are cool". I think its messed up that she talks to guys. I purposely avoid all girls and try to talk to them as least as possible because I figured she felt the same way. She said she loves me more than anything and that she wants to marry me but sometimes I feel like I can't trust her. She's 15 and I'm 16 (and by getting married, she doesnt mean right now, but in the future)

2007-05-13 19:04:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend has been asking me to marry him lately. We're both seniors, and I'm really considering it. I really love him, and I know he loves me back. I'm guessing that he may want to get married just so he can sleep with me, cuz I told him I wanna get married before I have sex and that I want my first time to be special. But I'm afraid if I turn him down, he'll just ditch me. He's not the kind that would cuz I know he loves me back, but I'm just scared I'll lose him..

The thing is, even though he says he loves me and I know I love him, there's this girl who just found out she's pregnant with his child. He really doesn't like her anymore, but I told him he has to stay with her. He still wants to marry me though. I'm confused!! Please give me some advice, thank you...

He slept with the girl when we were dating, at a party. He was drunk, and when he came to his senses, he confessed to me. I was super mad with at first, then I realized that he confessed because...

2007-05-13 19:00:35 · 21 answers · asked by Jayden 3

we are working in the same company,.. he was just a collegue then, and before he got married, we were just friends. anyhow, the marriage was an arranged one, she is his cousin,.. they belong to the Muslim community, (from Jordan exactly) and it is a tradition to them. we keep on hanging together because we are working in the same environment, and eventually fall in love with each other. i know for sure that he loves me. the problem is his wife just give birth, and now he is in jordan,.. i thought i could accept it wholeheartedly but i am hurting. he already proposed marriage to me, since he can marry 4x, but my family can't accpet the fact that i'll be just the second wife, and as a catholic, they don't want me to embrace the Muslim faith. we love each other so much, but i am torn. help me please.

2007-05-13 18:56:06 · 7 answers · asked by kish-kish 2

Is it wrong to be turned off by a possible relationship because the other has more sexual experience than you? My friend whom I like has had about 10 partners, I have had 2. Granted hers were more one-nighters and mine were 2 relationships of 1 year and 3 years. Anyways, shallow of me?

2007-05-13 18:55:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Initially I was all stupid,in love but even then,I had doubts that he isn't really into me as I am into him.He tells me the sweetest things on email or when he calls (talk is cheap anyways)but whenever he comes back to town, he would always make it a point to see me first but that's it.(one day with him is all I get)Then he wouldn't want to make time for me. He has many friends to catch up with and sometimes would rather hit the gym than meet up.Bottomline, he is full of excuses on not seeing me.I've had enough and decided to come clear with him.I don't want to continue and be taken for a fool. He is nice to me still but I'd rather remain platonic buds. But thing is,I don't like to break up (over emails / text) and wanted to set things clear by talking.He called and gave excuses again.I got fed up and told him we just talk another day but he called immediately and wants to talk but only late at night when he's free. I'm thinking of calling it quits just like that. Cold turkey. Would u?

2007-05-13 18:47:26 · 23 answers · asked by BunnyBunz 2

I am with a girl for nearly 2 months now and we connected from day one. We can kiss and hug all day long and we spend hours with each other. However, we recently had sex for the first time but we mutually did not feel anything. We actually felt as thought we lost feelings ... why is that ? We still love to kiss and hug and talk but why didn't we connect when we had sex ? Isn't there suppose to be this big attraction between us now ? I really like her but now we are both confused as what to do next. We both expected something special when we had sex.

2007-05-13 18:46:08 · 1 answers · asked by Curious Resident 1

This girl and I have been dating for like 4 months now,and she seems 2 think that she can take off whenever she wants to and do whatever she want because it's her life.Now I'm not smothering you want to go out with friends you want to get away with the girls just let me know so i don't worry,I mean am I wrong to think that when your in a relationship you should tell your partner what's going on in your lfe.

2007-05-13 18:42:36 · 6 answers · asked by C R 1

Hes my age an we have alot in common! Hes in college an will be home soon for the summer! I checked the college an there was a picture of him with hes name so i no hes no fake person! I like him alot. But scared to meet him. What should I do so I dont have butterflies?

2007-05-13 18:37:21 · 28 answers · asked by blkma87 1

i ve liked this guy for like ever and i asked him out and he said "I like you but i don't want a girlfriend right now."

Is that an insult or should i wait for him?

2007-05-13 18:18:35 · 8 answers · asked by coolbeans1611 2

Ok so I used to be shy. But now I've come out of my shell and am talkative, friendly, etc... Not to sound arrogant but I'm a good looking guy, definitely above average. But I have trouble with girls.

I really don't know why that is. I don't go up and ask if they want to hang out sometime, maybe I'm not sending clear signals when in fact I am interested?? Girls smile and act nice to me, but I don't know if they're interested so I can't really make a move because I don't want to seem like a weirdo. What am I supposed to do? Gosh I feel so helpless.

2007-05-13 18:16:16 · 18 answers · asked by RSDX 1