Singles & Dating - 13 May 2007

Alright, so I'm 19. I'm a straight guy, and still no girlfriend. The reasons are: I don't ask girls out enough, and when I do (rarely) it doesn't work. The few girls who were into me were complete turn-offs for me for some reason. I also don't have that many friends and do not go to social events very often.

I thought about perhaps creating an online profile on a website. Why? You can be a little bit more picky and also have a higher chance of finding someone nice (searching based on interests, what they write about themselves, etc...).

I think that overall I'm okay, I'm just lacking experience. And I would like to start dating.

What's the general opinion about these matching websites? And I think that being a university student with no car and little money is also a problem :\

2007-05-13 18:14:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

in about half n hour i will see him and say goodbye, i love him to peices but i keep getting hurt.. So basically i'm ending it. What are some things i could say?? i'm abit lost at the moment.. help!

2007-05-13 18:13:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this girl at a party, got her number, I called her and we set up a tentive plan to meet up with friends later (some of mine, some of hers). However, when I called to confim the plans she never called back. I figured I would never hear from her agian...However, today she sent me a (text a week and a half later) asking me if I still wanted to go out. She said she had been sick and busy at work. What should my next move be????Ladies, help me out!

2007-05-13 18:11:36 · 15 answers · asked by coachpeddie 2

O.k. heres the thing, I am currently being offered a full-time position at a job I don't like, I won't go into very many details but I'm not happy and my attitude from it affects my relationship with my boyfriend, he thinks it's a great opportunity and that I should take it but I'm not sure, so I guess my question is...
Would you stay at a job you don't like to make more money even though your not happy with it???

2007-05-13 18:08:40 · 9 answers · asked by sweetness 3

Is it the looks?? cologne? outfit? pleaaeess help me!!

2007-05-13 18:02:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well i have just gotten over a girl who had broken my heart 3 times and i am trying to find out what kind of guy girls like. Im about 5'10", athletic build, Latino,and i am on the soccer team for my school. I jst want to kno wat girls look for in a guy looks, personality.

2007-05-13 17:56:13 · 1 answers · asked by Panda Dai 3

If they ask, how much informtaion should you give them? Should you give them details about your past sexual life?

2007-05-13 17:51:36 · 20 answers · asked by Alison 1

I jst left my cellphone around back stage and lter i noticed his name and #on my list.Obviously he added himself to my cell.

So shoulda call bck? OR txt? (see him sundays)( I really lk him)
If Ireply, WHEN? tomorror or couple days lter?
(Like how long shoulda keep him waiting is enough?)If I did this, i'll be thinkin bout his call every min.lol

Used to guy askin for#, callin first .Not used to a guy jst leavin his number, will I seem desperate or somthin if I call?
Whatever that makes him want me more and not seem desperate or stupid and NOT seems lk i'm easy to get.

2007-05-13 17:44:19 · 8 answers · asked by Jenny 2

What is the difference between snuggling & cuddling?

2007-05-13 17:42:50 · 6 answers · asked by Jay 1

I`m going to NJ for about a week with my mom and dad because my family on my dad`s side lives there.My cousin Brenda has this friend named Ethan and we text eachother every once in a while and send pictures (don`t worry,my cousin goes to school with him).My cousin told me that Ethan thought that i was hot and that she has a major feeling that he is going to like me.I dunno why she said that but she is almost always right about this kind of stuff.I think he is pretty cute.I never had these type of summer love kind of stuff.I`d at least like to experience it this summer.

I definetly need to learn how to live life to the max,have fun,and flirt and stuff.I`ve always been shy but i really want to show that i like to have fun and that i do want something amazing to happen this summer.How can i acheive that?

2007-05-13 17:40:34 · 6 answers · asked by Richelle 2

Ok so I know that my boyfriend uses me. He also cheats on me. And I know for a fact that if I didn't put out, he would drop me like that. I want to break up with him, but I am so in love. I just don't think he'll ever be able to love me the way that I love him. I wish this could be easy, how do I make him love me or make my love for him go away?

WHY DO I ALWAYS FALL FOR THE BAD ONES????

2007-05-13 17:39:39 · 20 answers · asked by michelle g 1

It's been at least three years since the last time I was that close to a girl. All relationships I had ended pretty bad, she either turned lesbian or prefered pot over me, things of that trashy nature.
It's funny and weird that while feeling a bit lonely, I just don't get the impulse to go after any girl. Close girl-friends (the kind of friend you wont date cause you are just close friends) tell me I am a waste cause supposedly I am not that bad looking.
Any suggestions, because I feel like this thing is building some bad repression or I don't know what to call it inside my head.
And I am definetly not attracted to males at all so it's not like I am switching.

2007-05-13 17:08:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you be mad if you were dancing with you women and in the middle of song, she pushes you away to dance with an other guy that she had feeling for?


btw the way they were freaking each other~

2007-05-13 16:55:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

not even just emotionally, but physically? how come you feel heartbreak physically? is it dangerous? can it be fixed?

2007-05-13 16:44:44 · 8 answers · asked by ~*~Sweet Turtle Luver~*~ 3

I'm a single mom I work I go to school so I think I'm a very hard working person but for the past couple of years I haven't had any luck with guys. Lately its my self-esteem level hit a big time low. My family moved to a new town about two years ago and being a single mom I haven't had much of a chance to make new friends! About two years ago right before I moved one of my friend's took me over to one of her guy friend's houses and him and I hit it off really well. We started talking and it was great. Then I remembered that I was moving soon and I couldn't do a long distance relationship plus I was really scared it was my first time being in a kind of relationship since I had my little girl so I kind of scared him off by pushing my daughter on him to fast. So he stopped calling and we never saw each other again. Then about 3 weeks ago he calls up my friend and ask for my number just out of the blue and he starts calling me again. I've talked to him a few times its really boosting my self-esteem. I know that the two of us have grown up a lot but I’m still kind of scared of having a long distance relationship. I just don’t know why this guy I only met once 2 yrs ago wants anything to do with me now. I didn’t even think he ever thought of me again after it ended. I want to ask him that but I’m scared to. I have my own confessions to make like how I kind of knew what I was doing when I scared him off but I’m afraid if I tell him that I kinda meant to do it he might get scared again. I don’t know why but I’m happy to just be able to talk to him when he calls me its like the 2 yrs never happened. And my friend she just keeps saying I knew there was something there. He said that he hasn’t had a real girl friend in 3 yrs and its kinda the same with me could it be that we are both just lonely. ( he’s a cute guy and very nice I know he wouldn’t have trouble finding a girl but he works a lot.) I just don’t know what to do or what to think why after 2 yrs?

2007-05-13 16:37:15 · 16 answers · asked by anglzndskyz2 2

Im turning 18 soon, and unlike most people my age i didnt date alot, i went the other route and got into a serious relationship instead, bad idea! i dated this girl for a year and a half and it ended brutally because of my drug problem. How come it seems like girls need drama? its like when things settle down they have to start something for more drama?

2007-05-13 16:25:49 · 32 answers · asked by Orion M 1

I fell in love with him when i found he loves me with all his heart. he would do anything for me even if it means leaving his house. But that would be a prob in my house 'cos i'm still in college. He's trying his best to stop his marriage but its of no use. If he tells abt me, then we would face serious consequences. I'm totally lost and helpless. I dont want to give him up though. I have one more yr to complete my engineering after which i'm free to do anything. He cannot even push his marriage for another yr. Pls suggest me a way out of this. Or atleast give ur opinions if u were in my position so that i can face the reality.

2007-05-13 16:23:41 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to ask is there any way by which we can see a persons profile ,so that he or she dosent come to know thats his profile is being seen , plz be sure

2007-05-13 16:20:59 · 8 answers · asked by jj 2

Some responses to the question here:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ajl6DcbcW1Lvfab0iLg9GzHsy6IX?qid=20070513185553AALYYar&show=7#profile-info-PxJXU5nuaa

have me a little perplexed. My feelings on the topic are in the thread, but some of the responses lead me to ask women...IF you agree she was right to slap him, can't he hit her back?

If not, EXACTLY why not? What gives you a right that he doesn't have? What gives you a pass to be violent?

If you've hit him, haven't you sent the message that if you're ticked enough it's an appropriate response? Why SHOULDN'T you expect the same treatment?

2007-05-13 16:10:47 · 8 answers · asked by Atavacron 5

i like this guy and he says he likes me. but hes starting to show a sexual interest. and hes hot so of course i would have at least a little sexual interest in him too. should i just have it with him or make him try dating first? i dont want to make the mistake of losing my virginity with an a-$-$

2007-05-13 16:10:45 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well my girlfirend has busy schedule for work and going to college. I go to college and sometimes volunteer with needy charities. We bewarely have any time to see each other and sometimes we only see each other for about 3 hours a week. I love her to death and just want to spend time with her. She said she will have more time to spend with me in the summer. Should I stay with her or break up with her?

2007-05-13 15:50:59 · 15 answers · asked by avenger 2

2007-05-13 15:49:23 · 9 answers · asked by vishnu_chooda 1

2007-05-13 15:23:07 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a HUGE crush on a guy that works at my school. he isn't a teacher, persay, but he does work at my school. i can't stop thinking about him. i have felt like this for like 3 years now. he knows so much about me and he always wants to talk to me. whenever he gets the chance, he will have a long conversation with me. sometimes, i think he likes me too. but then my friends will tell me that it's NOT gonna happen since he is a teacher and all. i am soo close to him. and i hate it that i don't know how he feels and i can't get over him. i'm only 16. and he's 27. i'm graduating in 2 years, so maybe things will change. we used to email each other but not anymore. i just don't know what to do anymore.

2007-05-13 15:21:10 · 8 answers · asked by Hanna S 2

Alright, if you are having sex like 2-3 times a week with someone for several months and you break up...what does that do to females sexually? If its been a month or two since you've had sex, do you want it even more? How uncontrolable is it? And how addictive is it in general?

2007-05-13 14:55:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-13 14:49:26 · 25 answers · asked by Cammi 3

the problem is, I wake up at 8am and meet her at 10:15am and then head to her house, there is no possible room for me to get anything or do anything, I feel this is an impossible request. Anybody have any suggestions because I can't think of anything.

2007-05-13 14:44:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

A former co-worker of mine used to go to lunch and hang out after work and she propositioned me to be her "friend with benefits". I am somewhat desperate because it's been 2 years since i've had sex. The only thing is I am 25 and she is nearly 50. So should I go for it?

2007-05-13 14:42:48 · 26 answers · asked by ChiTownSmarty 2

I desperately want to relocate, I'm bored with my current location and have nothing keeping me here. Now that being said, there is a guy that I'm "dating" that lives far away, and part of me wants to move closer to him to see if this "thing" can turn into something more substantial, but I also don't want to move half way across the country to be with a guy who may or may not be the one for me. Do I purposely relocate somewhere far away from him because what's the point, or do I move closer and take my chance. I'm going to relocate regardless, but are my emotions clouding my judgement?

2007-05-13 14:39:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need help I dont know what to do?? I really shy around people and I really like this guy but I dont think I will be able to talk to him and I can bearly stand it when he looks at me ( I get nervous) and the bad thing is that I might not see him anymore (he's moving) I I will see him in two years!!! I would like to at want him to get to know me!! What can I do!!
Please email me as soon as posible!!!

2007-05-13 14:33:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous