It's been at least three years since the last time I was that close to a girl. All relationships I had ended pretty bad, she either turned lesbian or prefered pot over me, things of that trashy nature.
It's funny and weird that while feeling a bit lonely, I just don't get the impulse to go after any girl. Close girl-friends (the kind of friend you wont date cause you are just close friends) tell me I am a waste cause supposedly I am not that bad looking.
Any suggestions, because I feel like this thing is building some bad repression or I don't know what to call it inside my head.
And I am definetly not attracted to males at all so it's not like I am switching.
2007-05-13 17:08:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont want to be mean, but the sport suggestion wont do much. I am active already but still, dumbells don't fill that space.
2007-05-13 17:22:06 · update #1
I can relate. I don't know what to tell you. Just do what you want to do.
2007-05-13 17:12:20 · answer #1 · answered by the Boss 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So there's no drive to chase women, why not use your energy on other things? Take up some cool sport or hobby, like SCUBA or mountain biking. Maybe you just need a break - sort of an extended break.
When you meet the right girl, it'll come.
2007-05-14 00:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by Sci Fi Insomniac 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get out of the slump by going out with the ones who say you are not bad looking. Don't approach them as future girlfriends, just go out with them and start kicking it sort of speak. I know it is not the final solution to the problem but it is a good and realistic first step.
2007-05-14 00:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by Felix The Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you had a pretty rough run with your previous gfs so its totally understandable that your not jumping to start a relationship. as long as your still going out and having fun don't worry about it. when a girl you actually like comes around you'll want to date.
2007-05-14 00:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by stephanie l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are looking for the right girl in the wrong places, go to different places meet girls that are not into drugs and well other girls. try and find a girl that is low key as you seem to be and i bet you will find someone
2007-05-14 00:15:03 · answer #5 · answered by jentn2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you've just had bad experiences and your brain is unconsciously waiting for a girl you like.
2007-05-14 00:13:19 · answer #6 · answered by Distraction 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trashy? like lesbian? You need to grow up my friend
2007-05-14 00:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by somebody cares 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋