Singles & Dating - 17 May 2007

2007-05-17 23:48:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I’m a virgin and abstaining from sex till marriage. I was wondering what happens if I fall in love with a partner who’s had lots of sex and didn’t wait? What if they have kids? Would I likely be jealous if my ideal partner didn’t wait for me and has kids?

2007-05-17 23:39:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Been seeing her since December. Her father died last July and she became a little upset on each date, was even pretty tetchy at times, at the time I did not understand her loss. On Valentines she tells me there is somebody else, she has to resolve things, see how she feels, I say bye. She met him online, he suffered bereavement and said "some heavy things". But we keep in contact. One month later and she's back, he is not what she expected. All the dates are strained as her grief seems more acute, she tells me I don't know how to react. I read up on grief to try and understand. The whole thing wears me out, our last two dates are fraught as she shows high emotion. She suggests a month break, no contact. I leave her a book on grief, a mistake probably. I email her to find out how she is, no reply. I ask if I should move on, she says we should be friends. She sends book as "Olive Branch". I email thanks and ask how she is, she says busy! But she wants to watch football with me next week!

2007-05-17 23:37:35 · 17 answers · asked by crazy fool 1

hi im not proud of myself but my man caught me me in bed with his brother what makes it worse if also been cheating on him with his brothers girlfriend for nearly a year. im so confused i love me boyfriend but i feel i need to get him back because how many times hes cheated on me what do i do he forgives me but i really cant get over him

2007-05-17 23:35:14 · 20 answers · asked by ffdream21 1

last night me and my bf went to the pub. Now i think he was drunk but he proposed to me and this morning when we got up he never mentioned anything, was it just a drunken mistake of his i mean i aint even 18 yet? help and advise i am confused.

2007-05-17 23:34:39 · 28 answers · asked by Hayley D 2

2007-05-17 23:30:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

No, I am NOT a bad person. It's just that there is this girl who ANNOYS the hell out of me SO BADLY it's all I can do to stop myself from killing her right there on the spot. She's also my friend. I tried counting to a billion, and trying to reason with her but I just get so stressed out, I don't know what to do anymore! It's complicated... I want to try and get her to see that she can't just walk all over me. I want to ruin her life JUST FOR A WHILE, just to make a point... I already decided to steal her school books (we're in year 10 and no, I'm not immature), and I just don't think it's enough. She lies to everyone but pretends to be so sweet and nice, and people are beginning to get sick of it. Any ideas on how I can "ruin" her life SECRETLY WITHOUT anybody finding out?

P.S. I'm really sorry if I'm coming off as an awful person. It's just that there's a line, and she crossed it, stepped on it, smudged it, ran over it, and now there is no line, there's just a pissed off me.

2007-05-17 23:22:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My x boyfriend sister want to see me do i go & if i should go do i have to tell my boy friend about it

2007-05-17 23:20:27 · 6 answers · asked by bamidele t 1

i have a very weird attitude when it comes to my crush. :(( i'm the type of a girl who easily fall for someone.. but then, before i realized it, were getting closer to each other, when it happens, i begin not to think about him anymore.. or in other words, i am turned off. that always happen. i think the next time it'll happen, it's the 6th time already.. what should i do to get rid off this weird attitude?

2007-05-17 23:17:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

we both are married RESPECTIVELY. but i swear , i never knew what chem is till it happened with this guy ,we are family friends so met almost daily .
il not deny having feelings for him.. but it took me so long to get over him & move on .
just wehn i "moved" on i noticed the something just clicked again ?? & there the two of us , whov fought endless battles , been rude are playing chemistry again ?

my Q>>
a. is this normal?
b.could it be love.. after all this games been on for 5 years!
c. and, is chemistry there cos of love/lust?
sorry long one!

2007-05-17 23:11:33 · 1 answers · asked by barley 2

I am shy around most girls and I really like this girl who's one of my friends.I want to go out with her except she already has a boyfriend.Should I try and break upo their relationship or not.I'm confused.
Help me out and give me some advice please!

2007-05-17 22:59:41 · 6 answers · asked by janeilhomeblack 3

a while ago my bf left me he said he was too stressed n such with school. i found he was with somone else. but a day later he called me and said he loved me and he wanted me back and he was sorry such and such.... to make a long story short were back togther he proved himself loyal and proved he was confused.. thats was about 7 moths ago. Im preg. now and were getting married but the ***** who he cheated on me with has serious mental probs and still wants him.. he has screamed at her... yelled and bitched her out... and so hav i and our other friends. two nights ago i got a message saying "hey jess call me i have a feeling mike cheated" from the girl and i flipped and left him... i should have known he didnt and such but we got back togther the next day i guess it was preg hormones. BUT. he flipped **** on her and so did i... she swears she didnt do it.. but its there on my myspace. IM going to their schoopl today so we can talk to her in peroson. I just need more advice! help me! lol

2007-05-17 22:56:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love someone he also love me but i love him deeply but he doesn't love me so deeply like me what can i do? in this situation please give me the answers soon

2007-05-17 22:55:39 · 10 answers · asked by boni k 1

Hey guys, I'm nearly 18 and i want to like experience all the things and be more INDEPENDENT. I want to learn to take my own responsibilities and care and look after myself. I've always had difficulty doing this because i don't really know where to start from. How do i start this whole process on me and how do i apply them.

2007-05-17 22:55:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-17 22:52:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

i don't! i don't like the feeling because i'm extra sensitive and my boyfriend doesn't like all the yuckiness!

2007-05-17 22:49:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i jus got dumped but now i wanna pay back ma ex make him sad or heart broken or rejected for jealous how do i do that?

2007-05-17 22:48:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Kathy stop sending me the same message to go away. You made it clear to me that you don't like taking an enema cause when you were givin an enema when you were a little girl the enema hurt your stomach and you never wanted to take an enema again.

2007-05-17 22:40:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been faithful to one girl for four years. We match on every level, except sexually. She's a once a month person and im... i prefer a lot more than that. Im in college and there are quite a few girls that like me, some very pretty. My ex just came back to the city and she is really pushing the issue for me to sleep with her. I dont want to cheat but my girlfriend's "once a month" thing isnt making it easy for me. What should i do?

2007-05-17 22:36:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a pettite little lady who is curious about lesbonics!!!

2007-05-17 22:35:39 · 11 answers · asked by MA 1

please help im pretty sure my bf is playing away, i need proof b4 i confront him, he has changed his email accounts, and his mob bill for one month was £400! so is there a clever way for me to read his text messages without him knowing? we are miles aprt so i cant read his phone Can i get his texts sent to my phone? I have to know

2007-05-17 22:32:18 · 14 answers · asked by wendy 1

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now and we are quite happy and are even living together, we have sex all the time except when its that time of the month and I cant have sex, yesterday was one of them I wasn’t feeling too well and I was tired so I couldn’t even do anything with him.. that’s when he started touching himslef and started mastubating in the same bed I was with him. I didn’t say anything as I WAS ABSOLUTELY shocked…He has never done this before and although I understand that it can be hard for guys at times but is that something I should be worried about as I have never seen this happen before. I just obviously slep off in disbeleive…Is this normal???

2007-05-17 22:10:43 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

When do you feel you are in love with someone? When and how do you feel he/she is the right one for you, Is it a specific moment? Or it is a stronger and stronger feeling that eventually leads you to think he/she is the one. I've known him since november. And we've been dating/going out exclusively for 3 months. I think he's into me because all the things he does to me. But I THINK i am not into him as much as he into me. Until tonight something happened, I had a crazy night and had to take a friend to ER. Even 2 other friends went with me but I still felt kinda scare and lonely and messed up. All i could think was I missed this guy so bad. I wanted to see him so bad and wish he was there with me. All the sudden I realize i do like him more than i thought (i was thinking about him and all these ideas popped up). It just made so much sense to me that me and him should be together (we really have a good time everytime we go out). so can this be love? should I tell him how i feel?

2007-05-17 22:05:57 · 6 answers · asked by My Dear 2

wat do u do when someone u love till the end tells u that she doesnt love u antmore ?? how are u supposed to react towaRDS THAT ??????

2007-05-17 22:05:11 · 4 answers · asked by karni_keeto 1

2007-05-17 21:57:21 · 4 answers · asked by karni_keeto 1

I think being a bit jealous is healthy as it shows you care and maybe highlights areas of yourself you need to improve. What point is too much?

2007-05-17 21:57:09 · 11 answers · asked by Chris K 1

Ok well Ive liked this guy for about a month and he liked me (his siter said) he started doing signs to me and started being affectionate to me. I told him I liked him yesterday he hugged me and said he would talk to me tomorrow. Today he came and talked to me and said "Its awkward..and i just want to be friends" can anyone tell me what this means? I saw him at my locker and he still casually talked to me for like a minute..

2007-05-17 21:54:49 · 7 answers · asked by Amanda 1

My boyfriend works as a mechanic, and he always comes to my place smelling like grease and sweat. Its kind of a turn off, and I end up being mean. I can't be all lovey when he smells like sweat, so I end up pushing him away. I dont love him, so dont say "If you love him, you wouldn't care what he smells like". I just really like him. How can I tell him to take a shower? Please be nice and serious! Thanks

2007-05-17 21:53:56 · 10 answers · asked by Just Another Cali Girl 2

I had one, and he went off with a woman, who he just met, and she went to bed with him 3 hours later and demanded sex all the time.
Then, the other one, we wanted to get married, and he went off with a married for papers immigrant, who promised to put out in the first meeting, and did on the second.
I am religious, catholic, and can't do this things. If I walk about
it, people just laugh at me, and tell me that I am old fashioned, and that everyone is doing it nowadays. They say I must talk about sex at once, the minute I meet the man, and put out immediately.
And I tried, and I can not go to bed with a man I just met; or with
many men, hoping that one of them will stay.
It means I will die single!

2007-05-17 21:52:24 · 6 answers · asked by ange 2

i was walking on the campus at around midnight and there's a group of drunk girls hanging out there after leaving the bars or whatever. one asks me to come over and talk to her (i had never met her before). she's very friendly, touches my hand and stuff (but nothing else), seems flirty. she asks if i'm in school, i say no and tell her what i do for work, and she says "that's awesome". etc. etc.

she had to leave w/ her friends, but for future reference, i'm wondering if a girl who acts like this (who is drunk but not extremely) is looking to hook-up or is just friendly. she was pretty hot. i'm decent but not super hot. we're around the same age.

2007-05-17 21:23:17 · 19 answers · asked by a b 4