Singles & Dating - 17 May 2007

me and this guy met on vacation. on the 9 day cruise we only had sex twice and we acted like a couple the entire time. since the cruise, we've been keeping in contact for 8 months. we've seen eachother twice since the cruise and nothing has happened between the two of us. after the last visit he even texted me right away saying "thanks for coming cant wait to see you again" we talked about if he was using me on the cruise. he said "no i promise you i didnt." i told him how there are friends with benefits and he was like "yeah, but thats not the situation between me and you." recently, we were supposed to hang out and everything got messed up, but he called that night and said "i dont care how much it costs ill get a hotel room at your hotel and your friends can come over here because i wanna see you so badly." then 5 days later he called to apologize for everything getting messed up. he said "you never write me anymore on myspace, you can call me anytime, let's keep this long distance relationship going" but then i wrote him a message a week ago and he read it but didnt write back, although i know hes been really busy because his dad just reopened their restaurant. and i happen to be going to college by where he lives in 4 months.

is he using me? or does he want a real relationship when i get there?

2007-05-17 03:43:36 · 18 answers · asked by lindsay m 1

i am currently having a very huge crush on this relly cute guy. the problem is, all his ex-girlfriends are really pretty and i cant be compared to them at all coz i am fat,ugly, and has loads of pimples. i have never felt so ugly in my entire life before. please, tell me what should i do. thanks.

2007-05-17 03:41:34 · 12 answers · asked by ashlee_me 1

i really like this guy, but he is older than me and we are just okay friends.

he is really cute and nice and social, and yesterday when i felt like **** (excuse my french) he came over and was like 'you okay? smile.'
it was super cute and i felt better after.

and whenever i am going to see him i feel like there are butterflies in my stomach...you know?

but i havent had the chance to tell him. i swear i almost did yesterday but one of his friends came over and started talking... grr!

please...help!

2007-05-17 03:38:41 · 3 answers · asked by borrabutts 4

beyonce, kiera nightley, amerie, nicole richie? just wanna see what your taste in women is like,

2007-05-17 03:34:45 · 14 answers · asked by sassy_bliss 3

i found this pretty cute girl online and i added her to my friends so what should i say to her i say thx for the add now what

2007-05-17 03:31:21 · 2 answers · asked by firewolf2166 1

ok..i have a friend named kristen....she is 18, her bf is 22, and i am 19...her and i were recently on the phone, and we were talking about her boyfriends bday which is in about 2 weeks. he told her he wanted a 3some..i was like OIC...and shes like so will you have one with us? im like WHAT kristen...why me? she said i am her most outgoing friend and im always up for doing somehting crazy..and mike (her bf) thinks i am hot....i said well damn...i am a big risk taker, and yes im a crazy girl, but i dont think i could do that..esp with my close friend and her bf...i would feel so wierd around them if i did that...haha what does everyone think?? did i do the right thing? does it make me a bad friend?

2007-05-17 03:27:25 · 24 answers · asked by hot_jess76 2

me and my boyfriend have been talking lately, and have kind of hinted about sex. when i mention birth control he kind of blows it off. i don't know whether he's really ready to talk about it, or if he thinks that i should do what i think feels right about the situation. my best friend thinks i should talk more, but when i try to, he doesn't seem interested. but, we've already decided we won't have sex until we're both protected and ready. do you think he's just too nervous to talk about it, or is it something i should decide for myself and not discuss it with him. how do i get him to talk or be serious about it?

2007-05-17 03:21:04 · 27 answers · asked by ashlee . 2

My boyfriend and I has been dating for almost a year now.Things are kind of rocky and I am getting very lonely just being here by myself while he's out working and doing things he needs to do.I really enjoy sex and I need it a lot so thats why I look for other male attention because he dont give it to me only once in a while!I really need answers!

2007-05-17 03:19:14 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys, would you still like a girl if she came off shy at first?

2007-05-17 03:17:06 · 13 answers · asked by steph 2

i had stoped her once talked and ask how is she doin, the girl respeond nicely we talked and make some fun later i ask her for her number she said she will not give it to me i beg her she didn't . i would like you to tell me how to get cos i like her .thanks.

2007-05-17 03:06:28 · 3 answers · asked by VALINTINE 1

He lives with the baby's mama but they broke up and he wants to be with me and he reall likes me. She can't stand me cause we always talk on the phone and he tells her that I am his new lady HELP!!!!!!!:)

2007-05-17 03:03:41 · 14 answers · asked by lexi M 1

2007-05-17 03:02:27 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

His past job was nothing like this and he was home all the time, so it's a bit of a different change of pace for me to get used to. We live in 2 different states, and see eachother as much as possible, but I'm having a hard time getting used to him working so much and with women all day long. How do I get used to it? And I do trust him, but it's just a huge change to deal with and it's hard!

2007-05-17 03:01:50 · 7 answers · asked by fiore.grazioso 1

2007-05-17 02:58:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well my girlfriend told me she may have to move to florida and I live in Virginia. She told me she may have to move in july and she told me like 2 weeks ago and i have been thinking about it.

What do I do??

Should i break up with her now so i wont get naymore attached to her?
or
Should i stay with her and pray she doesnt move


We have been together since the 4th of march and I love her very much

2007-05-17 02:33:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-17 02:31:33 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-17 02:29:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was online and i meet this boy and he is 20 and i am 16 1/2 and he won't 2 meet u. and he find hotels and he ask u 2 to pick one and he going 2 meet u at the airport. i need help, what should i do?

2007-05-17 02:29:08 · 4 answers · asked by mercedes m 1

i really need help seems like when i fall in ♥ with sumone its always just a game to them,, damn putos,, lol

2007-05-17 02:22:48 · 35 answers · asked by .BAd biTCh<;♥_ 1

2007-05-17 02:21:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-17 01:56:32 · 11 answers · asked by coreofignorance 1

I got this girl's number for the first time yesterday and i plan on calling her on friday but i have no idea of what to say should i talk about our pasts? wat kind of topics should i bring up? i know we have sports in common we talked about that for a while should i talk about it again

2007-05-17 01:55:29 · 11 answers · asked by M.M R. 2

We've been going out 5 months now and she has become my world and my everything in this time. Yesterday she told me her deepest, darkest secret... it is enormously disturbing and now she is afraid that what she did might be affecting her health... how can i help her make this pain go away? Please... help...

2007-05-17 01:45:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-17 01:41:15 · 9 answers · asked by v_for_vendetta 1

I just fall in love with any girl who talks to me, girls i see on road, my class mates, neighbouring girls...every one...i dont know why. wats wrong with me? please help me to overcome this bad habit..

2007-05-17 01:40:22 · 12 answers · asked by heaven_boy 1

Tell me the best place to go out on a date with thats not so expensive and very good. or tell me any ideas of where to go to just chill with her. Thanx

2007-05-17 01:37:57 · 3 answers · asked by puny-suka 1

i wana gift my girlfriend a gift which is more of hand made like a handmade card o a handmade rose.she likes this type of stuff.wat else do u suggest

2007-05-17 01:22:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-17 01:21:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I knew this girl liked me for quite awhile, and we were in a group. All of a sudden i noticed us alone together. I moved close to her and said youve got something in your eye. I moved closer and poked her in the eye pretending there was something there.
She thought i was going to kiss her. Was it wrong?

2007-05-17 01:14:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-17 01:06:20 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous