i am currently having a very huge crush on this relly cute guy. the problem is, all his ex-girlfriends are really pretty and i cant be compared to them at all coz i am fat,ugly, and has loads of pimples. i have never felt so ugly in my entire life before. please, tell me what should i do. thanks.
2007-05-17 03:41:34 · 12 answers · asked by ashlee_me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want to find your soul mate, and have a happy marriage for life, there is a plan that works, and most people miss it.
1. Do not get involved in romantic relationships of any kind. No "going steady" "going with", etc. That is practice for divorce. Every time you "break up with a guy" you ar practicing. Also as long as you are "going steady" you are potentially missing your soul mate.
2. Hang out and have fun with friends. This is where your soul mate will find you. Some people say that you can't marry your friends, and I say that thinking is why so many marriages end in divorce. If they are not your absolute best friend, HOW CAN YOU MARRY THEM???? You would want to spend more time with your best friend than them.
Anyway, while hanging out, (maybe in a year, maybe in 10) you will find someone who you are always wanting to be at the same event. You find yourself at the end of an event excited about the next event. You are almost there.
3. Take the opportunity to get to know them on a more personal level (still not romantically) and find out if you have similar values, morally, spiritually, politically, etc.
If you enjoy doing the same things, (discovered in 2) and have the same values (discovered in 3) you have found your soul mate. You will ALWAYS enjoy doing things together, and your conversations will always be stimulating and enjoyable...not arguments.
2007-05-17 03:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First you need to take stock of yourself. Seek the advice of your family doctor about what to do regarding your weight and pimples, these are issues that are easy to correct or change. Next, most people don't believe they are as attractive as they really are. You need to find ways to improve your self-esteem. And lastly, not all people believe that beauty is the only thing to consider when seeking a friend or boyfriend/girlfriend. Try to be a friend to this guy first and see where it goes from there. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-05-17 03:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by tersey562 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To go out with that guy you have to feel comfortable with yourself first. If you don't like the pimples on your face you should try a face produced and for your body you should try to work out more and make better food choices. But if you put your mind to it i'm sure you can get that guy.
P.S. Good luck
2007-05-17 03:49:00 · answer #3 · answered by Flychick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should never think of yourself as fat ugly and full of pimples if you want to change that then go on a diet change your hair style and get proactive not overactive. but thats not what you want to hear is it, just let him grow to love you with personality and not looks because thats what realy matters you must be beautiful to someone and you will find that special someone one day and i hope you will remember this answer and be happy for your self. i always thought that i needed to find love but realy what needs to happen is love needs to find me. and you might think that its a lode of cr@p but its not. i thought the same thing untill i found my best friend. he is soo nice to me and he tells me anything i want to hear and he does it just because thats the way he is and he is just jenualy nice to people. i think i love him and he doesnt know it yet but i want to tell him but i dont want it to be so weard. so what im trying to say is that maybe he should be your friend and get to know him first because he might end up being a real jerk and the only reason he whent out with those pretty girls is so he can have s3x with them.
2007-05-17 03:53:06 · answer #4 · answered by DA GRL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll never know until you ask him to hang out sometime. Some guys date girls for who they are, not what they look like, and if he's dating these girls just because they are pretty, you don't want a guy like that anyway. It's a sign of male weakness.
2007-05-17 03:44:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, for you own self esteem, lose weight and see a dermatologist for your skin care. Also, try not to look for guys who are so shallow they only go out with a girl for her beauty. Best of luck to you!
2007-05-17 05:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason he broke up with those airheads is because he wants someone with more class, poise, intelligence, grace, sensitivity and honesty, which is where you come in.
2007-05-17 03:45:27 · answer #7 · answered by thingfishy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
exercise.lose weight get something for the pimples men are VISUAL
2007-05-17 03:44:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what if you think they are pretty --- they are his EX girlfriends ---- truly you are beautiful in your own way and maybe you are what he is looking for --- very serious here --- so talk to him if you can and see what happens ---- best wishes
2007-05-17 03:45:44 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay, if he hates you for the way you look, he shouldn't bother even dating. But, if you just ask him to talk for a while, he might have second thoughts...
In other words, BE YOURSELF!!
2007-05-17 03:45:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋