Well my girlfriend told me she may have to move to florida and I live in Virginia. She told me she may have to move in july and she told me like 2 weeks ago and i have been thinking about it.
What do I do??
Should i break up with her now so i wont get naymore attached to her?
or
Should i stay with her and pray she doesnt move
We have been together since the 4th of march and I love her very much
2007-05-17 02:33:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK so enjoy your time with this girl for as long as you can. But if she's moving - well, she's moving. And you both will have to move on with it. Remember, she's feeling the same feelings of uneasiness as you are.
I would enjoy what time you have with her - and if she doesn't move - well count yourself lucky you didn't break up with her.
If it's indeed certain that she is moving - make it as easy for her as possible. Hold her hand. Tell her you love her and that you understand that things can't always go the way we want them to. Help her and her family pack. Tell her folks how much you will miss her and them. Buy pizza for the family on moving day so they won't have to cook. Exchange emails/phones etc. so you can stay in touch. But let go on a positive note.
That said, you can keep in touch - texts, email, even old fashioned letters are good.
Yeah, this is hard to take but it's a part of life. Sometimes even the good guy doesn't get the girl in the end.
But if you part on the best of terms - who knows - you may get to go to college together.
One thing you cannot do is moon about like some goof-ball. Be strong for both of you. Be understanding. Be kind and polite to her family (you will be seen as a saint) Be supportive. Be the really nice guy you are.
2007-05-17 02:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but you will get over it, based on your question you both are apparently teenagers! If not and your adults and there are no strings attached then why not move out there. On the other hand, you only been dating 2 months, hardly love more like the honeymoon phase (not literally) you will get over it.
2007-05-17 02:38:46 · answer #2 · answered by pattiof 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, it will be hard to maintain a serious relationship that many miles apart. If she does move away, be sure to keep in touch with her via the mail, phone, internet, etc. Until then, remain with her. Go on and pray that she doesn't leave, and I will, too.
2007-05-17 02:44:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay you guys have been together since the 4th of march and today is the 17th of may. i'd say move on and stay friends with her.
2007-05-17 02:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by destiney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go..keep talking t her as a friend
2007-05-17 02:38:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋