I knew him 20+ yrs. He's 6 yrs younger than me (I'm 44). We had a relationship ages ago, I lived with him & his family b4, he cheated, we broke up, I got revenge, but we stayed tight, always had love & friendship. We're like family. We lost contact for yrs but found each other thru a mutual friend, got in touch, was excited & happy to hear from each other. He lives with a girl now, gave me his home & cell number, told his girl I'd call. When I call, she was nice about it, but now he told me to call him on his cell, not the house because he doesn't want her to get mad if I start "calling too much". He doesn't answer my text msgs or calls if she's around. He's 1 of my closest friends, he's like family, at the same time we will always have a "thing" for each other but I respect his relationship & dont want drama/trouble, I think he will cause a problem where there is none with this "hiding" biz. Maybe he still feels for me? Why is he hiding? How should I handle it? Can anyone advise?
2007-05-17
04:17:19
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Lala
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