why is it that wen a black girl doesnt like u she gets mad wen u date a wite girl?

Question

now as a black guy all i see is countless sistas turnin down alot of nice brothas but then get mad wen they see him with a white girl. i myself am dating a white girl and i get these cold looks from the same black women who have been treating me like i wasnt fit to walk the earth and turning me down. not that i have anything against black girls i am infact attracted to them, but its that im just dating someone who makes me happy.

now mind u again i have alot of love for my sistas and i do my damndest to understand them but alot of them arent attracted to me so i met up with a girl who found me attractive and we are now dating and the exact same girls who didnt care about me are now saying that i am a sellout when i came to black girls for love first

Answer 1

I really don't know. Maybe because the white girls might teach you how to spell? I think most girls are simply jealous of each other, that's all.

Answer 2

Then you do what makes you happy and if it's a white girl, so be it. If they didn't take the oppurtunity to snatch you up when you were single, it is there lose. Women sometimes don't find a "nice guy" appealing, until they see him with another woman. It doesn't matter what color she is, but they fact that your new squeeze is white, probably makes them a little more salty; but maybe next time they will think twice before flat out turning a brother down. Some women are looking for this "perfect man", which they will never find because he doesn't exist, and let a lot of nice brothers slip thru their hands because he isn't paid, or dressed the "right way" or talk the "right way", and it is a shame because they miss out on some of the most amazing men. Things would be a lot simpler if people judged people from what's inside instead of the phsyical but that's not the world we live in, unfortunatley the phsical is usually what initally draws you to a person. Good for you for not judging from the outside because you found someone that makes you happy, while those women who rejected you are still trying to find that "perfect man". All the best.

Answer 3

Well with me being a black girl I really dont care what race my exes date, but I think the people like that think your a sellout are races, Me personally I think there just hating because know they cant have you and know that that see you with another girl that's White, I guess that they fell like the white woman that your dating is better than them and ,dont worry about them girl, they'll get over,cause if you think about they are pushing good guys away and dating other races too.

Answer 4

I am a sista of color and I think they (color women) do it because they think you have stepped out of your race and not trying to understand a sista...

Honesty, it doesnt bother me in the less if a brother wants to date outside his race. If I was a man who had to put up with the nasty attitudes I see SOME sista give men (reagrdless if they are white,black, purple) I would want to date out side my race. Men get tired of hearing about my struggle this my struggle that.

Answer 5

I feel the same way. I'm a girl and that's all I hear is how black girls hate it when White girls get the black women. I don't see what's wrong I'm mixed with black and white, I don't see the problem. I like any race. Any other problems Hit Me Up At [e-mail] ( My Personal E-Mail Address).

Answer 6

well i really don't understand y! in fact i think it's stupid becuz if u look in most Black peoples families the color range goes from the lightest of the light( passin 4 White) 2 the darkest of the da dark (like straight from some tribes of Africa) anyways with that mixture of color in our own families & all the colors r beautiful then i guess maybe it's a problem the girls have within themselves! i mean if their greatgrandma was white & their greatgranpa was black do they hate her? if u found some 1 that makes U happy then don't care what those other girls think- do u!

Answer 7

First of all don't generalize. Not all black women get angry I don't. Many black women get angry not because they are dating white women but that many black men make statements like this-" I don't date black women because they are(fill in your own insult here)" or they say things like (" White women know how to treat a man black women don't"). Remember that especially in this country black women are made to feel that if they don't look and "act" white then we are ghetto whores. It's not true but it is a stereotype that persists. Now on the flip side those of us who date white men get the same dirty looks from black men who accuse us of wanting to be white or wanting to have light skinned babies. I say date who ever you want as long as the two of you are happy.

Answer 8

It's called racism. Black, white, yellow, or plaid, what's the difference what's on the outside? Do you like your girlfriend? If so, stop wasting your time on some stuck-up, puckered-up old bimbos who are ticked off because they don't have you to turn down anymore to jack up their own pitiful self-esteem.

The best revenge is living well, so be proud of who you are and who you choose to date. Let those other girls eat their hearts out.

Answer 9

I'm not speaking on behalf of all black women, but can i honestly say in the nicest way that i don't care who you guys date. happiness is all that matters. my only concern is that it seems as though you're generalizing, because you suggested that you're getting cold looks from the same black women that have treated you like you weren't fit to walk the earth. the black women that you happen to see on a regular basis, don't know you. they don't have anything to do with your previous relationships.

Answer 10

Here are three possible reasons to consider:
1. Feeling betrayed, racially
2. Narrow view of the world
3. Immaturity

Could be red, yellow, black or white, but the purpose of dating is to find someone you love who truly loves and cares about you, has your best interest at heart. To deny yourself the chance to do that would be stupid. Its a big world out there.

Answer 11

I have been wondering about that for a LONG time.

Its the same way with Mexican men dating white chicks...the Mexican chicks get really pissed off...

Maybe there is a little thing in the back of thier heads telling them that maybe black men dig white girls more than in thier own race...

Its weird. Good question though.