Singles & Dating - 17 May 2007

2007-05-17 21:07:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

One of my good friends overheard the guy i like saying that he woundn't be in a relationship with me that he'd just fool around with me. I was hurt and that showed me that he wasn't ready for a serious relationship. i'm not really either because i'm only 15. he's 17. i feel that maybe he doesn't really mean that. When i would be at my locker he would always stare at me when he walked past, but he didn't know i could see him through the mirror in my locker.

I think there is more to him than what he puts out. He's fine and fresh everyday and most girls like him. i want to talk to him as just friends but he's considered "popular". I am too but some people think i'm scary and that's not it. i don't want to set myself up for something that isn't there but maybe could possibly be there. I find myself mostly thinkng about him even though i know i shouldn't. it's effecting me not drastifcally but my mind is mostly on him. I wonder if i should just move on and just become friends with him.

2007-05-17 21:02:44 · 5 answers · asked by Sara 2

Big Beautiful Women... i think they are fantastic, curves, wats not to like about curves!? i have been branded a 'Pretty Boy' in the recent past and people always assume i go for the 'Barbie' type... come on guys back me up here! girls i want ur opinions too...

2007-05-17 20:48:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to know what girls think and i need a genuine answer,no crap, what does age have to do with anything ,--i dont give a damn about how old the girl is and never ask,doesnt even cross my mind, but it seems it is a big issue with a lot of people,,just a number to me

2007-05-17 20:06:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

we're not going out, but we both like eachother. im not allowed to have a bf and he knows that. he's willing to wait for me as long as it takes. many guys have said this, so till now keep their promise while others didnt at all. but there's something different about him, he is soo considerate and kind...thoughtful and sweet. easy to talk to and just fun to be with.he's outgoing =) which is something i look for b/c i am too. he's not the type to go up to any girl he thinks is "hott" and try to hook up with her, but is more or the type that wants to get to know a girl. and like her for everything she is...not just the way she looks. wow haha. still has me in awe.

2007-05-17 20:03:10 · 7 answers · asked by sharstar 2

2007-05-17 20:03:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had a best friend. i fell in love and told her about my feelings she said yes after that we had a good time but later on after 2 months we had lots of arguments n fights. so i was in doubt if she really loves me and i explain her things like i was ur best frnd and you dont want to lose me so you might said me yes but she denied all this she said i love you but now after 6 months she said to me, she never loved me she just wanted to see me happy so she said yes to me and she never wanted to let me know this. it really hurt me lotz, now im in state of dying, cant think anymore evn dont believe in frndship now but she wants me to her best frnd and wants to speak me but im ignoring her i told her "you never thought me your best friend too if you were, you wud tell me truth while i proposed you and as concern about you didnt want me to hurt or wanted me to see happy but now at this stage you just hurt me lotz lotz. plz suggest me what should i do?????

2007-05-17 20:02:12 · 8 answers · asked by Idiot 1

if u really love someone, is it badd tht u went farther than expected with him? and please no one be rude. i jss need to know if what i did was wrong.

2007-05-17 19:58:15 · 8 answers · asked by Auttum 1

i have been dating my friend about 2 months,we are not committed,now he asked me over so he could cook me b-fast, while i was there some1 knocked on the door, he peeped but never let her in i know it was a women cause i heard her call his name she knocked about 10 min, i did not address it right there cuzz he isnt my man i really didnt know if it was my place, but i really like him, but when i addressed it later on he just said it was no1 he just flat out lied and guess i was supposed to be a fool why did he lie and ladies how would you handle it would i be a fool to keep dating him or just kick him to the curb how can i continue to keep dating him without being a pushover

2007-05-17 19:51:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

And those who would not then tell me what u think about those men who give there self respect.

2007-05-17 19:37:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I left my bf...and for somereason i still love him and want him.. But he is a horrible person, and he physicaly and mentally abuses me constantly. He never really seemed to love me as much as he should have.

I went out with this guy for 3 years...I feel like that that is wasted now and i feel lost. He isolated me from all of my friends and now I lost them and have no friends. he was my only friend... I want to be w/ him..but it's a BAD idea when he has no personality and doesn't care about anyone but himself. What can i do to get through this and forget it all and stop blaming myself..he made me feel like i am mental!

2007-05-17 19:35:35 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please post thoughts i wanna read what people thought of this CSI SEASON FINALE episode thoughts theories turn outs etc.

2007-05-17 19:33:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

guyz i have a situation here, i love this girls and want to marry her,same with her, our parents are also ready to undergo with a arrange type of marriage, so no one has any objection,one day i discover my sister cell phone ringing but no one was in the room,so i picked up, it was my girlfriends mis call, so i called her back from syster cell and discovers that his brother picked it up,he didnt said anything just said i was missing you..............., and what are the plans for tonight.i didnt said anything and hung up.then i was curius about this whole thing,i am sorry guyz but i had to do something to clear the things out, i went in sms inbox and checked read the old mails,i discovered that both of them,my sister and my gf brother are in serious relationship and i think they have also crossed the limits, well now iam very much worried.well i know that guy very well.he is not a decent type of guy,he is into all sort of crappy ****, and also have felony records ........,

2007-05-17 19:32:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-17 19:29:29 · 11 answers · asked by homer 1

My boyfriend refuses to have sex with me during my period and I find it extremely frustrating because I actually want sex more during that time, I think it's hormones or something. Anyway, he thinks it's absolutely disgusting, so I'm wondering why guys think this and also what should I do? He's said he'll probably be able to get over it one day but just can't right now.

2007-05-17 19:27:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can you not be romantic if you like a girl? How can you not know how either?! How can you get a guy to be more affectionate?

2007-05-17 19:26:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a massive crush on this guy!!! We talk all the time and he calls me sexy and babe and darling, should i tell him i like him or will he get scared off???

2007-05-17 19:24:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think I love him. I like him for who he is, not based on looks, but everything he does. His crude jokes, The way he touches his hair, the little creases around his eyes when he laughs at my lame jokes. When his lips caress my neck. The way he looks into my eyes and I know that everything will be okay. That one moment when our lips touch, I know its right. I know that when we are together its perfect.

But he doesn't love me. Only a simple level of attraction.

I know he is bad for me, not relationship material. But I love him. It hurts everytime I see him now, but at the same time I have such a desire to be with him. I have been avoiding him, and it is killing me.

I have told him the extent of my feelings, he knows, hes told me that hes attracted but not on the same level as me, and that he doesn't want to hurt me, yet he still cares for me and calls occassionally to check on me. I am SO confused.

HELP! How do I get myself out of this rut? What do I do? I don't want to feel hollow

2007-05-17 19:21:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm single. My friend keeps on telling me to go do a prostitute for the hell of it. I don't quite know why he would pursuade me to do a prostitue, there's nothing in it for him. I keep on telling him that it will affect my self esteem but he doens't seem to understand that. Does anyone else understand me?

2007-05-17 19:01:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay I am about to just give up I was happy before I met this girl (my first REAL LOVE) in my head this girl was the one... smart, attractive, peoples person, etc and I mean it everyone loved to be around her guys always looked at her when I started going out w/ her I felt like the top of the world although I didn't like her at first we were friends for 2 yrs. I knew she liked me but I didn't care much so we started going out, I fell for her HEAD OVER HEALS for some reason 2 months later during our going out stage, she told me she loved me and I was the one, she never been kissed or anything I was her first everything. She was one of those innocent sheltered churchy girls, beautiful and smart. She moved to a diff town to go to a big college to be a doctor, of course I drove 400 miles every 2 weeks, 3 months later all of the sudden she just dumped me after I drove in the middle of the night cause she didn't answer her phone for 4 days straight. I came there in the morning

2007-05-17 18:57:09 · 6 answers · asked by Dispirited 2

2007-05-17 18:52:30 · 7 answers · asked by misszhavian 1

my boyfriend is in the army and so we communicate via phone and AIM. he has always had a bit of a pre-occupation with talking about himself, but now that he is in the service, he has even more to talk about and is constantly talking about himself, what he does, and just keeps going and going. i dont expect to talk all the time, either. i just wish he would be a little more interested in what i have to say as well, instead of always making me fight to get a word in. he will not take it easy if i mention it to him, so i know not to do that. (he can get pretty angry, though not physically, in case you were wondering...) i just want to know if there is a subtle way to drop hints, or to get him more interested in what i have to say or what i did that day. any suggestions?

2007-05-17 18:49:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you include sex? Would it be possible to have a sex free relationship?

2007-05-17 18:34:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-17 18:31:39 · 5 answers · asked by chilicooker_mkb 5

I met this girl at school about a month ago and we hit it off perfectly. She would call me and see if i wanted to do something with her and her mom, hangout with her and her friends (i get along with her mom and friends great), etc. the problem is that she has a bf, and not a very good one at all. I hear he boring as hell and does nothing. He also bums money and stuff off her cause shes well to do and he isn't. Apparently he is very emotionally attached after 2 months of going out. She tells me that he is also trying to change her hair. clothing, etc to what he likes (not cool at all). And i've been a good guy friend, answering the phone when she calls late, actually listening to her, we have deep conversations, etc. we talk just about every night for at least an hour. i think she talks to me more than her bf. her friends talk to me about how he sucks. Should i remain being a good guy friend hoping she'll notice that i would be a better bf then her current one, and dump him for me?

2007-05-17 18:23:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

like an "experienced" girl, or a girl that's not exactly sooo "experienced?"

cuz im a so called "goody goody" that goes to church every sunday. i love my church youth group and i enjoy spending time with them. i'm fine with not drinking and partying like everyone else at school. and i'm fine with not having a bf (b/c im not allowed to)

2007-05-17 18:21:31 · 18 answers · asked by sharstar 2

2007-05-17 18:18:27 · 8 answers · asked by cane_danao2001 1

Is it possible?
And is it possible for a guy to get over a girl that he has been with for 3 years in a month?
And how long did it take?
Why do guys totally ignore you after you break up and they act like you were never anything?
And why do they move on so fast.. or act like it.. and get a new girlfriend in .5?

2007-05-17 17:54:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I broke up with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago we had been together for 4 years and i thought we could be friends and he said we could, but he thinks there is something going on between me and another guy when there isnt, and he is getting really nasty. And hes been trying to cause trouble with me and some of my friends, and im scared that hes gunna try and bash this other guy and just keep trying to cause trouble for me. ive done nothing but be mature and pleasent to him, i just dont know how to stop him from being like this. It really scares me, and him family is getting in on the action too, he has told them all these lies about me, and now there being the same as him. What should i do?

2007-05-17 17:41:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm confused.

I few months ago I went out with a good guy friend of mine (we like each other and have told each other, but we understand that this may not be the right time to start officially dating each other). When he parted, he mumbled I love you, and then had this startled look on his face as though I heard it. I know I heard *something*,but looking back, I'm pretty sure that's what he said.

He said I had a good time, and then left kind of abruptly.

Guys, would you say I love you if you didn't mean it?

2007-05-17 17:38:57 · 14 answers · asked by mellei 1