guyz i have a situation here, i love this girls and want to marry her,same with her, our parents are also ready to undergo with a arrange type of marriage, so no one has any objection,one day i discover my sister cell phone ringing but no one was in the room,so i picked up, it was my girlfriends mis call, so i called her back from syster cell and discovers that his brother picked it up,he didnt said anything just said i was missing you..............., and what are the plans for tonight.i didnt said anything and hung up.then i was curius about this whole thing,i am sorry guyz but i had to do something to clear the things out, i went in sms inbox and checked read the old mails,i discovered that both of them,my sister and my gf brother are in serious relationship and i think they have also crossed the limits, well now iam very much worried.well i know that guy very well.he is not a decent type of guy,he is into all sort of crappy ****, and also have felony records ........,
2007-05-17 19:32:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well she is 18, and iam 26, i told this thing tom my older syster which is married. she did talk to my sister but it is hard to convice her,she is still willing to said she knows everything abt that guy,and she is cool with it. but guyz if she gonna marry that guy then i think i would disolve my plan of marrying my girlfriend, the guy dont work anywhere, he is just a pimp. suppose if he got marry with my sister wht is the guarentee that he will keep her happy, he might ask me for help,may be financial as iam well settled. if i get marry with my girlfriend then i will be tied in relationship with him too,i cant do anything or fight with him cos my wife would gona mind that cos its her brother. oh lord iam stuck ,iam thinking very faar . should i tell my girlfriend about this,and guyz if my sister marry him then iam not going to marry my girlsfried at all, i know it will hurt her but i dont want to hurt her,i love her toooo.
2007-05-17 19:52:36 · update #1
Speak to your sister about the situation. Tell her that she should have more respect for herself. Explain to her what kind of future she is headed for, if she continues to see this guy. If your sister is grown, this is all that you can do. If you sister is under age, and she refused to listen to you, it is time to tell your parents. Your sister may hate you for it at first, but tell her that you did it because you love her and want the best for her.
2007-05-17 19:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do now is to share the facts that you know about your girfriend's brother's felony record and other escapades you may be aware of that her brother has committed or somehow, make your sister aware that this guy is not what she imagines him to be. Give her the facts, without jugding her, and then let your sister make the final choice. Otherwise, if he were a more decent type of guy, your sister's relationship with him would not be out of order because she is not a blood relative. She would only be related by marriage, if you marry the guy's sister. There have been instances where two sisters have married two brothers before and there was nothing incestuous about that because neither pair was a blood-relationship, if that is what you may also be concerned about.
2007-05-17 19:52:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 Brothers and 3 Sisters
2016-05-22 03:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by susanna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your worried that your sister wants to date your girlfriend's brother?
I see nothing wrong with that. They are two unrelated-by-blood individuals who have found each other and like one another just like yourself and your girlfriend. Even if the guy is not "decent" that is for your sister to decide.
In my town a brother married his girlfriend and her brother ended up marring his sister's sister-in-law.
2007-05-17 19:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by rhodecol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well explain that to your sister, but dont tell her you dont want them to see eachother, cause that may force your sister to stay with him anyway - just tell her you love her and are concerned because of his history and see how she reacts to that. dont be too forceful about not wanting them to be together, because she may rebel against you and you dont want that to affect the relationship you have with your sister.
2007-05-17 19:37:59 · answer #5 · answered by absolut_nixter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break it off bettween the two, but how old is ur sister......tell her bout the felonies....push comes to shove i guess u can kick his *** but thats just me lol... thats waht i would do for my lil sis so......yea plz more info
GoodLuck
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2007-05-17 19:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by AirsoftDude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋