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Question

i have been dating my friend about 2 months,we are not committed,now he asked me over so he could cook me b-fast, while i was there some1 knocked on the door, he peeped but never let her in i know it was a women cause i heard her call his name she knocked about 10 min, i did not address it right there cuzz he isnt my man i really didnt know if it was my place, but i really like him, but when i addressed it later on he just said it was no1 he just flat out lied and guess i was supposed to be a fool why did he lie and ladies how would you handle it would i be a fool to keep dating him or just kick him to the curb how can i continue to keep dating him without being a pushover

i mean was he worried about keeping me away from her or her away from me

Answer 1

if it bothers you move before you get hurt i think the woman at the door was a sure sign if you stay with him, you will be sharing him.

Answer 2

There is no committement so really it is none of your business.

You shouldn't be having sex with anyone other than your husband if you are.

Second you don't know the circumstances she could had been an recent ex who can't take a no or he could be seeing her and she knows something isn't right.

IF she is an ex who can't take a break up then he isn't going to want you to know most men don't like that stuff to the point that it is total embrassment and they don't know what to say or how to handle it.

If it is the other way split fast.

What would concern me more than anything isn't the girl at the door but the fact he brushed you off when you asked about it that is a huge red flag that says get out while you can.

Answer 3

Well, first of all, I'd establish whether or not you guys are dating, and whether or not you're willing to let it continue to be an open relationship. It doesn't sound like you're all right with it at all. So find out if you're dating, then if he says yes, tell him, you expect to be the only girl in his life, if he wants to keep seeing you. I'd just make sure the boundaries are made clear, otherwise, you're going to feel stupid, if he said he never meant anything by dating you anyways, or something. Best of luck!

Answer 4

hey there... looks like u got a lot on ur mind. its kinda hard to answer a question like this...
its sweet that he decided to make u breakfast... it shows he duz care n he wnats to take the time to make u feel special.
On the other hand, havin another woman *** over , who he obviously didn want u 2 c, isn't a nice way of treatin u!
Perhaps u shud think of his past... is he known to be THe type that messes arnd, or duz he hav a history as that of a romeo? Its hard to tel with guys coz to put it plainly... "A PLAYER KNOW HOW TO PLAY HIS GAME".... i wud suggest not gettin emotionally involved until you are 150 % SURE that ul r gonna b involved in a serious relationship. I personally dnt agree with the "FRIENDS N FUN" idea. im not against it, i jus dnt think its 4 me... but if u wanna wait it out, n see where this relationship is gna take u in lyf, n if he starts to prive himself worth it, then stik aroun... jus dnt wait too long coz wudn want u gettin hurt..
all the best... n hey, whether its him, or MR A B OR C... ur Prince Charmin is out there!!!

Answer 5

In the long run you boyfriend will break you heart. Before I marry my husband I was dating my ex- boyfriend but he had a girlfriend on the side. He did the same thing to me. He try to keep her from me and me from her. We would make plan but at the last mintute he would cancel our plan I guess to be will her. I drew the line on my graduate day last year when he did not show up. So I leave him for my current husband. Just last month my so call best friend told me he have a baby while we was dating. So I tell you leave him and find someone to love and care for you.

Answer 6

you should have asked right then and there who was the girl he was hiding from and laughed about her.

the issue is he couldn't trust that you werent going to be a passive aggressive jealous jerk cause you pretended to hear nothing and then said nothing and then later asked. okay , what usually happens next is yuou trip out and get bitchy or leave for some stupid made up reason because you behaved passive then wanted to know later by interrogating him.

next time be assertive without an attitude immediately then he has no excuse to lie, a decent guy will be more likely to answer your questions honestly

Answer 7

He is hiding the identity of the female visitor to his home, who made her appearance while you were there. If he had shared her identity with you, he might also have been led to share the reason why she was there or the reason for their obvious break-up. If he is hiding things now, it will only get worse if you proceed, blindly without finding out the details of this obvious past relationship or the reason he wishes to keep you a secret from her or her a secret from you. Mates and close friends must not keep secrets because they destroy mutual trust. Find out on your own if he does not come clean and if it sounds nasty, do not be a party to his game of keeping secrets.

Answer 8

You are answering your own question. Read how you worded it. You don't trust him. So the real question is; do you want a relationship with someone you don't trust? Let me put it another way. Do you trust yourself? Do you trust yourself to have a relationship with this man? The answer may be yes...as long as you are aware of the potential consequences.

Answer 9

i guess you should stop dating with him. .you're not having a relationship yet with him but he is lying to you already how much more if you're into a relationship?he'll make you a fool, maybe he is dating with you cause he is after for something at your expence...as much as possible stay away from him because perhaps he has noting to do with you, he is just playing games with you and to share pleasure with you. you 're just wasting you're dating with him..try to be in yourself and be honest bout your feeling. . trust yourself, dont pretend, dont be a fool because man today's is playful..

Answer 10

Honesty is the best policy.

I think I would ditch him. That is no way to build a trusting relationship.