Anyone agree with me that a guy who looks for prostitutes is desperate for anything that looks like a woman?

Question

I'm single. My friend keeps on telling me to go do a prostitute for the hell of it. I don't quite know why he would pursuade me to do a prostitue, there's nothing in it for him. I keep on telling him that it will affect my self esteem but he doens't seem to understand that. Does anyone else understand me?

Answer 1

Self esteem does not enter into it at all. You do have to consider whether or not it will affect your wallet....

Answer 2

The truth is that some men go to prostitutes because they don't have to fulfill any expectations therefore they feel more at ease sexually..They are not being "graded" on their performance.. But the question really is why is your friend pushing you to go with a prostitute? If by chance you are still a virgin and remember I don't know your age then just give yourself time and you will find the one that will make your first time worth waiting for.. If that is the case explain to your friend how you feel about finding someone to share that experience with, you don't want to have that experience be cheapened.. Just relax and tell your friend to go get a prostitute if he wants as for you, you will find someone that who wants you but not for money.. ;) Good luck and God bless..

Answer 3

No, I wouldn't say desperate. I would maybe say crazy, but not desperate. On the upside, a prostitute's job is sex. They may have some good *** skills or something. But on the other hand so do other women, you just have to look harder. On the downside, their job is sex also. There are too many diseases out here you can get even with a condom. They **** for money and there is no telling how many they have ****** without protection. Some of them may be walking diseases. Think about that. Me personally, I would tell your friend to **** off if you don't want to do that.

Answer 4

I'm not sure that I understand how that would effect your self-esteem. You want to have a good time? it's a one time cash transaction, without further obligation. Or, you could wait and find a potential girl, take her out, spend the same amount of money you would on a hooker (maybe more) and there is no guarantee she'll even kiss you goodnight, let alone spend the night.

I think your bud is just tryin' to look out for ya. If you just want to date, fine. You might get lucky. But remember: There's a price for everything.

Answer 5

No, I dont agree.

It would be interesting to know how many potential rape victims have been spared because the guy shelled out for a prostitute (hypothetically speaking, not your mate).

Also, a good prostitute can teach/show you how to really please a woman which can only be a benefit for later on in life. You dont have to tell your future wife where you learnt it the same as she doesnt have to tell you how she got so good at blowing. Just appreciate what you have.

At the end of the day if you dont want to see one then that is your choice and your friend should respect that.

Answer 6

Yes, I understand you. I have a lot of male friends that would never go to a prostitute because 1) it grosses them out and 2) they think if you go to a prostitute you aren't man enough to get a real woman.

Answer 7

I guess it's just such a different experience, he wants you to enjoy it while you still can. You might regret not doing it later in life. But I do understand you. If you try it once, don't let it affect your self esteem. Just do it for laughs. I just asked my husband, and he said when he was a teenager there was a fat lady that did it all day for $2 a pop (wrong word, maybe.) He said it lasted about 30 seconds (he was young, his first), but he still remembers it and it made me laugh.

Answer 8

Let's face it, the oldest profession has been around so long not just because of the sex aspect.

Men go for all kinds of reasons but few of them are good. If you're single and not hurting anyone, do what you want if you're truly curious. NEVER ever do anything just because others encourage you....that's one of the top rules of life. You seem smart enough to decide since you were smart enough to ask for advice. Stay true to yourself above all!

Answer 9

Your friend is not very mature. He wants you to do it to prove you are "manly". Also, in so doing you will be acting as his alter ego, dong something he would want to be doing. If you have any personality at all you can easily find a female that you can feel proud to be with. Tell him you can do better and if he thinks it is so great he can find his own prostitute.

Answer 10

I do, however I do not believe all guys are just out to get anything that looks like a lady. I think some people are just very very lonely, and if it helps them to bust a nut with a stranger for one paid night of attention, so be it.

I don't think you should do it unless you are really in need of the attention, or care. If not, just meet with your hand. Trust me there will be someone out there that will want to bone you, it happens every day/

Answer 11

I agree with u any guy who would go to a hooker is a sicko anyway.

Ur friend is not a good friend I mean for him to even suggest u go to a hooker saids that he's a dummy. Those kinds of dirty nasty women are not worth the money.

So the nest time ur so called friend says to go to a hooker tell him that your above going to hookers for pleasure or anything else and if thats what he into then u feel sorry for him.