Singles & Dating - 19 May 2007

here's the thing, me and my ex just broke up last march...then we got back together around mid April coz he claims he was being an a** and says he still loves me and doesn't wanna lose me. but during the week after we got back together, he acts all weird and doesn't act like my boyfriend at all, so during the 7th day after we got back together, i confronted him.

i asked him if he really does love me or not and he doesn't answer...but eventually he did. he claims that he does love me and he knew how much i love him. he just can't stay with our relationship coz he might do things that might hurt me. he's the type of guys who goes to bars and parties with his guy friends and other girls (friends only as far as i knew).

anyways, after our talk, he says that he can't handle the commitment that comes with the relationship but still says that he loves me.

2007-05-19 23:24:41 · 12 answers · asked by Vyxen 3

I recently had a fall out with a girl i was seeing and since then she has been given me the cold shoulder, me feeling bad and apologetic, I have tried to make up and since I look like the bad guy. When she was plainly in the wrong

2007-05-19 23:21:57 · 11 answers · asked by Intellithug 3

2007-05-19 23:19:59 · 8 answers · asked by Ronie 1

Im seeing this girl and she has this best friend who is a guy. They have been friends for years and he bought her an expensive ipod for her birthday. Im trying not to be jealous but if it get serious between us (like long term, even weddings, kids etd) it might pose as a problem. Insecurity is a pain but maybe there is something wrong with me. MMMM any suggestions on how not to let this be a problem.

2007-05-19 23:17:56 · 12 answers · asked by kaptain_wonderman 1

2007-05-19 23:17:09 · 14 answers · asked by kwjt 1

me and my friend have been dating for about 2 months he actually hasnt done anything real heavy i just have not liked how things were going thats another story i think i may have been nagging more so, so i just had got fed up and i went to his apartment and left him a dear john letter on his door i ran into him 2days later he said he was so hurt & he was really pleading the fifth about how we cant end it like this how can i tell if he is sincere or is it b.s.

2007-05-19 23:13:17 · 8 answers · asked by latora_king 1

My best friend was cleaning house when she ran accross her boyfriends secret porn stash. She called me very upset and crying. She's heartbroken. She thinks that he is watching the porn because she is not good enough for him. I tried to explain to her that it is more of a fantasy thing, and he is not watching it because he would rather be with those women. But I started thinking about it and now I am sort of intruged. I guess I am just looking for a guys point of view on this. Am I right? Or is it possible that she is just not fufilling his needs? What is the deal with porn?

2007-05-19 23:09:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am dating a guy for 11 months. before him i liked his best friend...and i think i still like him alot...but i also love my boyfriend, what should i do??

2007-05-19 23:07:16 · 13 answers · asked by 80s princess 2

she loved you.

2007-05-19 22:54:30 · 13 answers · asked by kwjt 1

This 9th grader keeps calling me about 10 times a day and just hangs up when I answer what do you think he wants? He knows I like him but we can't be together so why does he keep calling me?

2007-05-19 22:54:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it just as bad to you guys? do you prefer marijuana over cigarettes?

2007-05-19 22:51:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-19 22:49:27 · 9 answers · asked by Maggy 1

2007-05-19 22:45:13 · 4 answers · asked by sarah_652468 2

There is a chick in my math class and she is the best. Can you tell me a cool way to ask her out?

2007-05-19 22:43:04 · 11 answers · asked by fuzzyjewfro 1

Long hair and facial hair is gross, right? That seems to be the common opinion of most women today. If they see a guy with a beard and a mane, it's ugly.

If women think that long hair and facial hair is gross, then why do so many tell me that these are some of my more attractive and distinguishable features? (Bearing in mind, I like to keep myself neatly groomed.)

This also falls into comfort-zone line of reasoning. If a man is comfortable, he is more likely to attract women who can sense the man's comfort, and feel comfortable themselves. I'm comfortable in my appearance, but no one else seems to pick up on it. :S

2007-05-19 22:37:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-19 22:36:26 · 6 answers · asked by JERRY P 1

2007-05-19 22:31:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-19 21:14:48 · 10 answers · asked by mummy-said 2

Taken from a an Asian romanceTV drama about a rich girl and a poor guy..Love Meets the Corner" they don't what will happen around the corner... Its my situation now and the guy left on his IM ID Can we really meet love in the corner...not making it a joke...do you think he was telling me he loves me..it also means Is it true we can fall in love in the next second? What do think this guy is trying to tell me?

2007-05-19 20:34:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

This would be interesting.

2007-05-19 20:12:55 · 19 answers · asked by Lala 4

Now I am 19 and she is 25 and we are engaged. I never regret this relationship and she is my 1st and only girlfriend, I will love her forever. I didn't care that I was only a 13 year old boy when I first engaged in sexual activity with at the time 19 yo girlfriend. It was amazing and still is and I don't think she is mean and you might say she is a pedophile but I definitely would say no to this. This is only that term when a man has sex with underage girl, not other way around. Anyway, what do you think? Its working out great.

2007-05-19 19:28:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

GUYS....what woman in a movie/tv show/in the public eye has a really good personality that attracts you and why?

2007-05-19 19:13:30 · 1 answers · asked by KellyKapowski 3

My boyfriend and I had sex together for the first time this week, and ever since then things have been odd. The sex was quite awkward, and was not that good on my side. I am not sure how he felt about it, and I do not know how to ask. It was my first time in a long time, and I was very nervous, so I think that he may think that I did not like it. We are still talking, but not as much. I still feel fine in the relationship, but he seems to be more standoffish then he used to be. I am just not sure what to do. I know that the first time is usually quite awkward since you really do not know what the other person likes, but I do not know how to get past it. I know that he really tried to make me happy, but I was so nervous that it was not that pleasurable for me. What should I do?

2007-05-19 19:12:12 · 22 answers · asked by Daisy 2

i am 14 the boy is 16 and we like each other a lot and we love to flirt we lay in bed together our families know each other well

2007-05-19 19:05:24 · 42 answers · asked by lexi w 1

you may call me a all kinds of bad names but im trying to change that so i want to wait a while before i sleep with him how long is enough ?

2007-05-19 18:56:43 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am female in my early 20'sI was at a party and drank
too much. I ended up telling a guy I work with I had a
secret crush on him and I was all over him.

Apparently the feeling is not mutual and he was just being
nice to me. I don't know wheather I should be happy or sad
with the situation.

But we work together about 2 days a week. Should this make me feel awkward?

2007-05-19 18:51:09 · 13 answers · asked by Okay Hero 2

If I didn't want to date or anything, but just have sex, would it work if I just went up to a random guy in the street and asked him if he wanted to have sex with me?
Or would guys find that creepy/weird?
Would this tactic only work with really hot girls?
I'm just an average young woman.

2007-05-19 18:41:29 · 26 answers · asked by sooiee115 1

2007-05-19 18:04:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-19 18:02:17 · 4 answers · asked by bReNdA=] 1

or they care the inside much more? I always see mens really like to find some sexy and hot girl, they always talk about girls' figure and is that ture, men only want find sexy girl?

2007-05-19 17:58:35 · 13 answers · asked by jinziru86 1