I am female in my early 20'sI was at a party and drank
too much. I ended up telling a guy I work with I had a
secret crush on him and I was all over him.
Apparently the feeling is not mutual and he was just being
nice to me. I don't know wheather I should be happy or sad
with the situation.
But we work together about 2 days a week. Should this make me feel awkward?
2007-05-19 18:51:09 · 13 answers · asked by Okay Hero 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ignore it. Don't bring it up. It will be hard but if you say nothing and act like it didn't happen he won't say anything either and the awkwardness will fade. (in time)
on a bright side: Good Job on telling him you like him that took courage and now you know to move on!
2007-05-19 18:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by tljohnson6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question, do you feel awkward when working with him?
If you don't know what you are feeling then you are most likely okay with the whole thing.
From what I am picking up from you is; It happened, he does not feel the same way, move on and get on with the work at hand. rather matter of fact actually.
Keep a good sense of humour about it all, a lot of us have done this and it does not have to be earth shattering.
Keep smiling it will make everyone wonder what you know that they don't ",)
2007-05-19 19:01:43 · answer #2 · answered by sag_kat2chat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nip it in the bud. Pull him aside or email him and say "Look, I want to apologize for my behavior the other night. I had too much too drink and I crossed the line. Let's just forget about what happened and move on. Deal?" The sooner you do damage control, the better. Good Luck!
2007-05-19 19:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because if you were like intoxicated, then it should be a joking matter lolz ....just make fun of the situation, laugh it off and get over it. Trust me, it works. Like if I trip or something [embarrassing], I just laugh with everyone else to show that I'm not embarrased lolz. Good luck!
2007-05-19 18:55:24 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥ Hello Kitty ♥♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a matter of whether or not it should make you feel awkward, it's all about how you DO feel. If you are, maybe you should talk to him about it. If you don't feel comfortable with talking to him, just let it go.
2007-05-19 18:56:37 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol no. You were under the influence. Trust me i have done many things that were embarrassing we i was tipsy/drunk. Just tell him your sorry and move on.
2007-05-19 18:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by sigley89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People flirt, lie, and tell tall tales when tipsy. Smile. Don't worry.
2007-05-19 18:55:45 · answer #7 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont feel akward!! who cares! act like you dont.. flirt with guys infront of him!!! make him regret it x] self confidence goes a long way in this situation.
2007-05-19 18:54:23 · answer #8 · answered by poptheory 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont let it bug u...!!!! just keep being friends with him and he will see what he is missing out on make him feel jealous..!
2007-05-19 18:53:44 · answer #9 · answered by lil_ms_attitude122 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm pretty sure that would be awkward for most people.
2007-05-19 18:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by kagerousan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋