Now I am 19 and she is 25 and we are engaged. I never regret this relationship and she is my 1st and only girlfriend, I will love her forever. I didn't care that I was only a 13 year old boy when I first engaged in sexual activity with at the time 19 yo girlfriend. It was amazing and still is and I don't think she is mean and you might say she is a pedophile but I definitely would say no to this. This is only that term when a man has sex with underage girl, not other way around. Anyway, what do you think? Its working out great.
2007-05-19 19:28:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey if it's working out great go for it! It doesn't matter what everyone else thinks, you're happy, that's very rare. Good luck to you :-)
2007-05-19 19:31:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is who cares what people think!!! This is your life and if you love this girl thast great! Me and my boyfriend were only 14 when we 1st had sex and i dont see anything wrong with it as long as your with one person and not the whole neighborhood. Things happen for a reason and everyone comes into your life for a reason.
So congratz on your engagment and i really hope everything works out in the end, but im sure it will.
2007-05-20 02:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you know why people far far back in the day painted cupid blind?
Because love is blind, love only feels, the heart sees, not your eyes.
This is obviously love and there are so many more couple out there just like you who have a big age gap. My friend Elizabeth's parents are 15 years apart.
Hopefully you will be together long enough to see each other's grey hair!
2007-05-20 03:30:55 · answer #3 · answered by c3345 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am very happy for you, but sometimes this isn't the case. You are one of the lucky ones. Congratulations, and I wish you and your fiance' the best. There was a time when it wasn't a social taboo for the very young to be in a relationship that lead to marriage in most cultures. Even here in the U.S. when my great-grandmother was a girl, teens married at a very early age. She was only 14 years old and married my great-grandfather who was 26 years old, my grandmother was 15 years old and married my grandfather who was 30 years old, and my mom was 16 years old and married my father who was 23 years old. We do not marry as early as we once did.
2007-05-20 02:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter what anyone thinks? It's your business. If it makes you happy then that's what counts. I don't quite agree with what you said that it's okay for a woman to have sex with an underage male, but not the other way around.
2007-05-20 02:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by the Boss 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you were one lucky 13 year old.
Theres nothing wrong with what you did. Sure, it was illegal, but lets face it, morals are practical extinct in modern day world. And besides, laws are way overrated.
Anyway, good luck and congratulations on your engagement!
2007-05-20 02:35:45 · answer #6 · answered by Day Tripper 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So... what's your question? Oh wait, you don't have one. That is sick... She is a sex offender, plain and simple. She was already out of high school dating a jr. high kid. Is she fat and ugly? I suppose so... why would a normal girl want a prepubescent boy as a boyfriend? I hope you NEVER conceive a child... she might want to have sex with it.
2007-05-20 02:38:52 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok...fastforward. You're 29 and she's 35. You've got a few kids. She's looking more and more tired and out of shape every day and you're still young and hot. Your kids fight every day and life is stressful. If you can look at all that and still have a smile on your face then by all means GO TO IT..and good luck to you.
2007-05-20 02:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by jabbergirl 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
the term can flow both ways.. well, if everything is going great, then congrats on the engagement.. you got one heck of a catch
2007-05-20 02:32:53 · answer #9 · answered by SRSLY?! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all does yor mom konw dat ur wit her she probably do
2007-05-20 02:31:59 · answer #10 · answered by LeeLee 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋