you may call me a all kinds of bad names but im trying to change that so i want to wait a while before i sleep with him how long is enough ?
2007-05-19 18:56:43 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a month at least
2007-05-19 18:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You should wait until marriage. This is what God wants for us. It's not easy and it doesn't seem practical, but if doing the right thing was easy, everybody would live right.
Now you should know that I'm a hypocrite. I had multiple partners and experiences with sex prior to marrying. I'm not proud of this, I wish that I hadn't. It did not make me more "experienced" as some will tell you. On the contrary, it made me unconsciously compare anything my wife and I share to previous experiences. So, instead of our love being pure and unique, it is tainted by my previous lack of self-control.
I prayerfully hope you will consider this seriously. Once sex enters the relationship outside of the marriage covenant, it damages the relationship and there is no return from that change. Not to metion the damage it does to the relationship with the person you do eventually marry.
2007-05-19 19:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by Adam B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 dates
2007-05-19 18:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by Marmar 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Let me say this, have boyfriends and fun and get to know each other . Pretend your intimate, its only lust. True relationships start with friends, then trust, and on to spiritual beliefs and forming a union based on experiences and family and shared goals for a future. God is basic here, and sexual feelings should be strong, however waiting to act on them really helps clarify reality. These realities can cause you to not end up divorced cause you saw what was comming down the pike, and avoided it.
2007-05-19 19:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to find out whether or not a guy is interested in you just for sex, tell him you are waiting until marriage. That should sort out the good ones from the ones who just want sex.
2007-05-19 19:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by z_o_r_r_o 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you want to only have sex with him, you need only wait as long as it takes for him to get ready. If you want to have a sexual relationship with a man you have to get to spend enough time with him to get to really know him and know that he is someone you want to be in your life for more than one night.
2007-05-19 19:01:18 · answer #6 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wait until you know the guy really really likes you! If he does just metion that your conidering waiting till marriage if he pulls a face or does a runner dont sleep with him to keep him... if he says thats fine or his happy to wait then keep him for a while then do the deed when u are 100% his fallen for you...
2007-05-19 19:03:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
to me i belive in waiting till marrige i understand tho that some people dont feel this way to. so only you can really decide how long you have to wait. please tho don't rush things make sure you are perfectly ready for what is going to happen that decision could change your life drasticly
2007-05-19 19:00:50 · answer #8 · answered by X's & O's 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well if you just started datinng 3 months or 5 months if its been like 6 months then i say 2 monhts but make sure you dont look to anxoius.
2007-05-19 19:03:49 · answer #9 · answered by HeadShrink 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wait untill you're over 21!
2007-05-19 19:00:01 · answer #10 · answered by Dongfeng!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
At least 1 year, so you get to know each other more, and able to accept his or her good and bad behavior
2007-05-19 19:00:35 · answer #11 · answered by Bruce 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋