One of my good friends overheard the guy i like saying that he woundn't be in a relationship with me that he'd just fool around with me. I was hurt and that showed me that he wasn't ready for a serious relationship. i'm not really either because i'm only 15. he's 17. i feel that maybe he doesn't really mean that. When i would be at my locker he would always stare at me when he walked past, but he didn't know i could see him through the mirror in my locker.
I think there is more to him than what he puts out. He's fine and fresh everyday and most girls like him. i want to talk to him as just friends but he's considered "popular". I am too but some people think i'm scary and that's not it. i don't want to set myself up for something that isn't there but maybe could possibly be there. I find myself mostly thinkng about him even though i know i shouldn't. it's effecting me not drastifcally but my mind is mostly on him. I wonder if i should just move on and just become friends with him.
2007-05-17 21:02:44 · 5 answers · asked by Sara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes guys say things just to sound cool in front of their friends. Let's face it: they can't admit when they actually care for a girl, so they have to prove their manliness by acting like they just want to use her. However, even if this guy really likes you, the fact that he could say that to someone shows that he doesn't respect you. For example, what if y'all were "dating" and he really was treating you right, he still might go back and talk bad about you to people you both know just to boost his image. I think you are right, he is not mature enough to handle a relationship. You seem like an intelligent young woman, more so than most girls your age. I think you will do the best thing for you. Being friends really always turns out better anyway. Think about it, when you date someone, theres that awkwardness where you try to impress the other person. Then eventually you break up and its even harder to just be friends because of hard feelings. If you really like this guy, maybe you should try just being friends and see if he develops more respect for you. You never know: a great relationship could become of it. Good luck girl!
2007-05-17 21:14:08 · answer #1 · answered by misscourtney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frankly, if he's saying that he'd just 'fool around' it could be just about anything, but it's not looking good for you. It could be peer pressure or anything that would jeopardize anything that COULD be. Honestly, it is better to start as friends anyways and leave the hormones out of it, but remember if he's too quick with the sweet talk it could be a ploy to break your heart. Be wary, but have fun. Just don't expect the world from it.
2007-05-18 04:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by lynn_galz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what your friend over heard him saying he isn't looking for what you are unless all you want is someone to "fool around" with and I am hoping that is not the case.. At 15 there is nothing wrong with liking a boy older than you, but remember they are usually more experienced than you.. Your best bet is to find someone who really likes you and not just to fool around with.. Good luck and God bless..
2007-05-18 04:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by brunette_godiva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you WANT to feel he doesn't really mean that. But he said it, didn't he? The odds are he meant exactly what he said: that all he wants from you is sex. You can do better than that. Forget about him.
2007-05-18 04:09:29 · answer #4 · answered by Alice K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think too much...
tht guy dont love you nor he is intrested in u. any guy in love will not say such thing
besides u r not sure he actually said tht ur frnd said to u
go to him and get things cleared..
any ways personal opinion STUDY YOU ARE TOO INNOCENT.
2007-05-18 04:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by rani b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋