what is the big deal about age and sex and relationships?

Question

i want to know what girls think and i need a genuine answer,no crap, what does age have to do with anything ,--i dont give a damn about how old the girl is and never ask,doesnt even cross my mind, but it seems it is a big issue with a lot of people,,just a number to me

Answer 1

to me it's all anout maturity, not to put men down, but women do tend to mature faster.So when i picked, i picked older ones. they are more experienced, know how to have fun, and know how to treat women better than younger guys. that and when i was ready to settle down i knew that my partner would be more likely to feel the same way i did.

Answer 2

in the journey that your father and mom began their courting whilst one replaced into 23 and one replaced into 36, that's no longer undesirable because of the fact the two are adults. A 12 300 and sixty 5 days old is youthful, too youthful to truly comprehend what love is. A 19 300 and sixty 5 days old is nearer to an person. The adulthood adjustments in babies are large. that's even a large distinction between a 14 300 and sixty 5 days old and a 12 300 and sixty 5 days old. Do you recognize that the 12 300 and sixty 5 days old isn't even the right age to placed up a query in this talk board? in case you think of that I and others are incorrect, take a developmental psychology course. EDIT: with your good judgment - it would be ok for a 12 300 and sixty 5 days old as much as now a 6 or 7 300 and sixty 5 days old.

Answer 3

I don't really think age is a big deal, although I've never dated any guys that were much younger than I am. Usually maybe only a year difference. I didn't plan it that way but its just happened that way.

HOWEVER, I will point out that I am 31 and being my age, I wouldn't want to date a guy who's 22. I'm sure he could be fun and exciting and probably a nice guy and all that good stuff, but at my age I want security and someone to share a future with. Let's be realistic. Do you think a 22yr old guy can provide that for me? Not likely. Don't get me wrong, I have my own career, but it's not likely at his age that he has one as well. For the 22yr old guy, I'd say it would be all about sex,,,,,but no relationship.


Don't crucify me, it's just an opinion.

You said "I don't give a damn about how old the girl is, and never ask".

Please tell me that doesn't mean that if she's a mature looking 15yr old that you're game. NOW THAT IS WRONG! That's where age DOES matter.

Answer 4

It may be a number to you but it has a lot to do with the emtional state of a person and younger girls are not always clear on things....most of the time sex in there head is the same as marriage. It can be very damaging to them even if they don't see it. Can be excuse me it is damaging to have sex at a young age especially when you are not married.

Rather they see it this way or you are able to you are prostituting them when you sleep around. One is no better than the other. It may be sex and you may not give a damn but what you are doing is as bad as the molesters and sex offenders out there. It doesn't matter if you have their consent.

Most younger girls and even some mid older girls are not in a place to making those type of decisions and so out of not knowing what to do they do it and then it hurst and scorns them for life.

Keep your pants up and you zipper zipped until you are married and can treat a women with respect and care. Your a creep.

Answer 5

Depends on the girl really. Sometimes their age is a reflection of their maturity levels.

Seeing an 18 yr old go out with a 12 yr old is pretty wrong. Hard to explain.

If their age doesn't matter to you, then don't bother thinking about what other ppl think. As long as ur happy.

Age does have to come in to it with sex tho, for all sorts of reasons...

Answer 6

age is just a number but an age difference in a relationship only matters if one of the people is under 18. but i think if a 16 or 17 year old talk to some one whos 21 or 22 thats not bad. but any1 under 16 shouldnt be talking to older men or women.

Answer 7

Numbers are good indicators on the maturity and responsibility of the girl. A 14 year old girl and an 18 year old girl are light years away in development. If you're way older than girls you're dating, that probably means you are emotionally immature so perhaps take a look into your own life and readiness for relationships and sex.

Answer 8

I think you're right. The same is true about size and ethnicity and hair and eye color and so forth. Some people place a lot of importance on different things. I suppose it sort of depends on how you live your life. If you are an independent and can sustain yourself as an independent, then the only things that really matter are what you decide really matters. If, on the other hand, you feel the need to meet the criteria of others, then you have chosen to let others direct your life...and it is a good idea to check with them before making such personal decisions.

Answer 9

Do you have a young sister or a niece? I know that these days girls are looking far more mature then they actually are. But once the begin to speak and there is no comprehend able articulation that should be a dead give away. How would you feel if a much older guy slept with your younger sister? Remember your mom was once a young girl.

Answer 10

The age of girl's to do any thing with them is 21 at this stage
they have totally mature if they agree then you do any thing and what they want but you such a funny guy i just a member of you now sexually relations does not go ahead (only sexually) this tye of relations are only for few time i want to tell you one thing more that girl's are not only for sex they have their own feelings,emotions if you want only sex then you go to a vulgar so, do not think only about sex just go ahead sex and know what they feelings about boys and if you have a girl friend then ask him what she has feelings about you ok so dont feel shy and go ahead sex by.

Answer 11

Generally speaking, girls want a relationship to develop before sex. Sex is not a sport. Sex is an expression of love between to consenting ADULTS not children. Children are not emotionally mature enough to handle sex especially when one sees sex as an act of love and the other does not. I wouldn't want my children experiencing sex. They are too emotionally immature.