i had a best friend. i fell in love and told her about my feelings she said yes after that we had a good time but later on after 2 months we had lots of arguments n fights. so i was in doubt if she really loves me and i explain her things like i was ur best frnd and you dont want to lose me so you might said me yes but she denied all this she said i love you but now after 6 months she said to me, she never loved me she just wanted to see me happy so she said yes to me and she never wanted to let me know this. it really hurt me lotz, now im in state of dying, cant think anymore evn dont believe in frndship now but she wants me to her best frnd and wants to speak me but im ignoring her i told her "you never thought me your best friend too if you were, you wud tell me truth while i proposed you and as concern about you didnt want me to hurt or wanted me to see happy but now at this stage you just hurt me lotz lotz. plz suggest me what should i do?????
2007-05-17 20:02:12 · 8 answers · asked by Idiot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i had sumthin happen to me like this just be her frien talk to her just b\c she said she would never love doesn't mean she would never like u as a best friend agian !
2007-05-17 20:11:39 · answer #1 · answered by janina_komar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its bad enough that your g/f betrayed you but also your best friend. You need time to heal and I would suggest if you are still keen on being her friend even if its in the future that you take some time out for youself. Let her know that you are doing so and she should just let you be until such a time you feel comfortable to talk to her without all the anger or resentment resurfacing. Good luck pal.
2007-05-18 03:11:14 · answer #2 · answered by sonic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take awhile, but you should just move on and speak to her only when you feel up to it. Don't be hateful, but don't cater to her either. When you get over it and find someone new, then maybe you can pick up the whole friendship thing again and be more sociable and talkative.
2007-05-18 03:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 100% right. What she did was really wrong. Leave her behind: you cannot be her friend because you're in love with her, and she proved she's never really cared about you as a friend. Just walk away, move on and forget her.
2007-05-18 03:07:52 · answer #4 · answered by Love_my_Cornish_Knight❤️ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Right now your head is still filled with confusion and anger, plus your heart is broken.
What she did was probably not done with malice, but I know that doesn't make you feel any better.
Tell her that you just can't be friends right now. Tell her that when your head is clear, you will reconsider.
2007-05-18 03:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she was wrong but afraid that u may take a wrong step and dont ignore her as she wants to b ur frnd and before the relationship u were her frnd so i think that u b her frnd and dont take awrong step and move ahead
2007-05-18 03:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pay any heed to her leave her and tell her to leave ur life and go **** and find another guy for this kind of timepass
2007-05-18 03:08:20 · answer #7 · answered by kats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be her friend. If you were good friends before, why not go back to that and you find a new girlfriend.
2007-05-18 03:06:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anderys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋