Are we really done?
i've been with my boyfriend for almost two years, our anniversary is on June 11th and when we spend time together in person we're great have a amazing time.. we have incredible intimacy, my family loves him n i am basically another daughter to his mom n sister to his sisters..i get along really well with his friends and i love him to death and hoped to marry him one day (i'm 23)BUT for the past month we both have been busy n not spending much time together soo we hav been arguing alot on the phone or i should say "I" have been arguing and complaining alot and yesterday he told me that he wants some space bcuz all this is getting to him and he doesn't know what he should do..so we basically broke up n i am heartbroken. we have a trip at a resort in Miami in July that we already paid for and i was so excited about that now i don't know wat to do/ think...are we really done?
2007-05-17 03:46:36 · 7 answers · asked by ELLE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All the stuff about his family doesn't mean anything if he doesn't want you. It sounds to me as if this has been brewing for awhile which makes me think it's over.
You can make plans to try to get him back, but do you really want someone who doesn't want you anymore? That never works.
Close this book and go check out a new one.
2007-05-17 03:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, perhaps he just really needs a break and doesn't want things to go bad. You are more then likely suffocating each other and both need some time to cool. If by the time of the trip things don't cool then that would be your answer. Besides honey, you are very young still. I am thirty and i have yet to find the person that woo's me, and believe me I have broken a leart of mothers hearts!!!!
2007-05-17 03:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by pattiof 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is both your faults,
its yours for arguing and picking fights which end up piling up and getting him stressed out,
but its his for not keeping you satisfied.
A girl who is truly in love does not want to or start an argument.
You might want to check yourself.
Do you still love him, or love whats he done..?
2007-05-17 03:52:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are done if you think you are --- you both need to sit down and tell each other what you want from the relationship --- to me i dont want to be apart from my lady --- no matter what has happened --- talk and resolve any problems i think is the best way ---- best wishes
2007-05-17 03:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk it over with him. It's obvious that you still care. Maybe he was just scared because of how much you guys were fighting.
Good luck, dear.
2007-05-17 03:50:02 · answer #5 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bf should see each other when they can if they r real busy...but relationship is first the job is second... and the key is communication
2007-05-17 03:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wtf i just answer one of yours
2007-05-17 03:54:12 · answer #7 · answered by Bajangles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋