If your boyfriend told you he was bi-sexual would you still love him? Why or why not?
2007-05-17 03:48:18 · 41 answers · asked by cooldude 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow! When I asked this question I wasn't expecting as many answers as i've gotten. There all good answers. I'll psot some more details later this afternoon
2007-05-17 04:55:21 · update #1
I'm asking this cause I have a gf and I am bisexual. I'm wondering if I should tell her this or if I should just stop being bi- and focus all my sexual attentions on her
2007-05-17 05:37:42 · update #2
Of course!! He's still the man he was a few seconds before he told you! Listen, I've dated a bi-curious man and my boyfriend is open to try anything (and so am I) and I just find that it is a way to open up to each other and get closer. He wouldn't have told you if he didn't trust you.
2007-05-17 03:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love is never ending and continues no matter what.
However some people confuse it and will tell you that u where a low-lying son of a ***** not to figure out what you wanted prior to the relationship.
You can not have a piece of honey-cake and beefcake at the same time without both sides knowing prior to the relationship with either one or both. People tend to be okay if the rules are given in the beginning of getting to know someone.
2007-05-17 03:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by Chocolate Child 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We'd definitely have to discuss why such a revelation wasn't made earlier in the relationship...such things are not appropriate bombs to drop after you've been dating someone a while and already become emotionally involved. What other secrets might that person have?
I'd have more of an issue with him keeping something so significant from me, than about the fact he dated (or had sex with) both men and women.
2007-05-17 03:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on you and your feelings about him. Are you willing to accept that that part of him may draw him to other people of the opposite sex. Are you willing to share your love with someone else? Would you consider it cheating if he did? Is he already sexually active in that venue? Talk with him about possibilities that he might take. Then ask yourself if this is something you want to handle or not. If not, then there is your answer. If this is something that is ok with you, and there are some that it is, then accept it as part of your relationship.
It is a major decision to make depending on your feelings regarding his disclosure.
2007-05-17 03:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would still love him, but I don't know if I would still want to date him. This is only because I have never met a bi-sexual man that wasn't really gay....like calling themselves bi is their transitional period before coming completely out of the closet. Also, if he's with me, why is he thinking about someone else (whether girl or boy)?
2007-05-17 03:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by smellyfoot ™ 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Regardless of whether I could still love him, I deserve the opportunity to make an informed decision.
If my boyfriend were seeing another woman, I'd want to know that, too. I want to make the decision about whether to continue a relationship with all the facts.
2007-05-17 03:55:40 · answer #6 · answered by katecounts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would still love him. I'm not sure how I would feel when he said lets bring another guy into the bed though. I know some girls like that... just not me. As long as we could make it work and as long as I was the only one he was with then it would be fine.
2007-05-17 05:45:54 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I loved him to begin with, learning a secret like that about him wouldn't change my feelings toward him...BUT it would change the nature of our relationship because I think there would always be a part of me that would suspect him of cheating on me with a guy since a guy can offer him something I can't (ie another penis).
2007-05-17 03:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by danielletbd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ow that's a hard one.Man well honesty i wouldn't still love him cuz I'm not freaky but if you a freaky person go with it you might have some fun with it ask if you can join in but that's only if your that kinky.or you can sit him down and tell him how you feel about it
2007-05-17 03:58:38 · answer #9 · answered by Honeykiss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will depend with how long l have known him and how much l love and care for him..but then for me it would change the relationship l wouldnt be able to be intimate with someone who sleeps with different sexes it just mixes every aspect of the relationship but l would make him know that if he needs emotional support l will be there regardless...
2007-05-17 03:57:45 · answer #10 · answered by judie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋