I just fall in love with any girl who talks to me, girls i see on road, my class mates, neighbouring girls...every one...i dont know why. wats wrong with me? please help me to overcome this bad habit..
2007-05-17 01:40:22 · 12 answers · asked by heaven_boy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be too hard on yourself....you may be feeling excited at the start but if you were to spend more time with them you probably will start to feel less attracted.....
2007-05-17 01:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One positive thing is that u consider all girls to be very good & lovable but everyone cannot be equally reliable. Even if u fall in love , never express anyone otherwise u will become a laughing stock. Concentrate more on studies with hard work . Stop watching movies, TV serials, music & song based programmes. Study religious principles of humanity slowly & think over them in depth. Try to learn new things like paintings, art, architecture, computer programming, e-business etc. Soon u will realise that unless u r expert in something to earn sufficiently , u will not be able to win the heart of any suitable girl. One sided love cannot succeed. Wise girls see financial stability too, despite your education, skill , good character, tolerance & discipline.
2007-05-17 08:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've got to realize that you dont have to love every girl that comes along, there isnt anything wrong with it i've got a friend who does this with literally any girl who smiles at him, its insanely annoying because he generally ruins everything, but I digress... there is something inside you that you've got to come to terms with, you might be looking for someone to fill the gap, but its not going to happen instantly you've got to realize this, just because a girl is pretty doesnt mean she is right for you, just try to figure out what it is you're trying to accomplish by doing this and maybe you'll find your answer...
good luck.
2007-05-17 08:45:40 · answer #3 · answered by Soap Box Preacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are unable to differentiate love and the general movement with girls. real love can't come just by seeing a girl at the first sight. you may like their apperances,way of behaviour. that doesn't mean that you love them. instead you simply like them. also you may be a child to like everything whatever you see. love at first sight is not the love but the lust
2007-05-17 08:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by kutti_barani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't panic its probably just infatuation, you'll stop being like this after you meet a girl you really like and starrt dating her. try asking some of these girls out. the worst that can happen is they say no... and if they do move on to the next one. good luck
2007-05-17 08:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem is you want a company for u. and u wanna show ur frnds tht u also have GF... u r very upset tht al of ur frnds have GF and u don't have one. so u want one very soon ASAP. and the age u r in the biggest factor for this... so don't worry... 1st talk with girls for some days.. talk wit evryone.... and with whom u feel more comfortable is the one u love.... ok.. if u wanna meet het daily and wanna chat with her continuoslyy.. then she is the one for u
2007-05-17 09:31:20 · answer #6 · answered by LOVE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing seriously wrong with you but just a minor deviation.Accept it and continue to live a normal life.with passage of time it will automatically go away.I wouldn't be surprised if in due course of time, if you turnout to be very choosy about your girlfriends.GOOD LUCK.
2007-05-17 10:13:08 · answer #7 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By controling your bad habits about indulging in sex lust.
2007-05-20 06:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by baba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt call this love. more like infatuation, obsession or lust...any or all of the above ?
its normal...just dnt let it get out of hand...
2007-05-17 08:45:32 · answer #9 · answered by ` crystal tears . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its a weird problem....try to control urself...dats it
2007-05-17 08:44:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋