His past job was nothing like this and he was home all the time, so it's a bit of a different change of pace for me to get used to. We live in 2 different states, and see eachother as much as possible, but I'm having a hard time getting used to him working so much and with women all day long. How do I get used to it? And I do trust him, but it's just a huge change to deal with and it's hard!
2007-05-17 03:01:50 · 7 answers · asked by fiore.grazioso 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he hasnt done anything to you to cause you to mistrust him, then dont worry about the hours he putting in working around women. Be glad he has a job and you get to use his discount on the clothes (smiling)
2007-05-17 03:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having your boyfriend work in a womens clothing store is difficult, regardless of how much you trust him! The change is going to be hard. The best advice I can offer is just to keep reminding yourself that he loves you and it's just a job. Chances are you work with a handful or two of guys and he gets a little uneasy about that as well. It'll be okay...just don't let it drive you crazy! Before it gets to that point, talk with him about it, let him know how you're feeling and that you know it's not rationale, but it's how you feel all the same. If this isn't a major career move for him, he may be willing to look into another job. Good luck!
2007-05-17 03:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by HuntersMom 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you believe he loves you, then you have to trust him. He probably took the job for the better money. I would not worry! He is just trying to make more money and try another job!
2007-05-17 03:06:44 · answer #3 · answered by fjerseyman 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He might be working there thinking of what to get you for Valentine's Day.
2007-05-17 03:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be insecure.. you two should try living in the same state.
2007-05-17 03:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by Cassandra 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
different state come on now...either u move or him or u gonna lose him.
2007-05-17 03:07:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Visit him once in a while,bring him lunch =)
2007-05-17 03:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋