He lives with the baby's mama but they broke up and he wants to be with me and he reall likes me. She can't stand me cause we always talk on the phone and he tells her that I am his new lady HELP!!!!!!!:)
2007-05-17 03:03:41 · 14 answers · asked by lexi M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LEXI LEXI....CIHCA HELLS NO! Dont get involved with him that psycho a** babys mama will come after you! She will make your life a living a hell. That psycho woman obviously has feelings for him still and she will do WHATEVER she can to keep him. HONESTLY I bet he still he has feelings for her feelings just dont go away over night it takes time to get over breaking up with someone. PLEASE Lexie find another guy who is single. You DONT need or want to go through any baby mama drama. PLESE LEXIE DONT DO IT.
2007-05-17 03:14:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhmm think about what you are saying here. He still lives with the mother of his child but they have broken-up? If he told you this ask him when is the last time he had sex with is baby's mother ( I'm sure it's been since the break-up). Trust me when you breakup is an ex and you all have a child together, you would not be capable of being in the same room together let-alone share an apartment together. This guy is not being honest with you about whats really going down between him and his girl. I bet if you and his baby's mother would talk like women instead of fighting over him. You would find out exactly what kind of game this dude is playing.
Secondly, why would you want to get involved with a guys who is trying to get with other women in front of his baby's mother. Real men handle their business (end the old relationship) before they start telling the next chick how much they want to be with her. Girl, take it from me I've been there and all your gonna get from that man is a bunch of DRAMA!!
In the end do whats best for you.
good luck!!
2007-05-17 03:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by dgillia5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much drama, stay away. I don't believe that they broke up, they are still living together. And if he says it's for the baby, that is BS. You don't have to live together to raise a baby. They will always have a bond and you will not be #1 in his life so if you can deal with the BS, then stay. Frankly, there are too many men out there to put yourself in a miserable situation.
2007-05-17 03:17:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl leave it alone and leave it alone FAST!!!! Esp. the fact that he still lives with his ex. That is a no no right there. Never mess with a man that is still living with there ex. Second, she's about to have there baby....chances are they might get back together, because of the baby. You don't need any of that baby's mama drama!!! Get away fast!!!
2007-05-17 03:11:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your going to get yourself into the Baby Mama Drama.. Are you ready?
2007-05-17 03:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by 04/12/2008 :) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Coming from experience such as the one you’re going through. It is best to keep your distance though that is hard and you may have second thoughts of doing it. You to consider that he will need to be there for her and this child. You will basically be taking a back seat to his life. Something if your willing to do then go ahead with the relationship but if want to be the one he looks to it won’t happen now. You have to give it time and what you need to do is figure out are you willing to give up a big part of yourself because that will happen. You have to think about yourself and are you willing to let go of your pride. Baby momma drama is the worst but you have to be mature about it and if she comes at you wrong let her. She is only hurting herself. If you let her get to you you will just be giving her your pride and your mind. Do you want this women to have that? I doubt you do so what you need to do is go out with your friends, go to museums and just surround yourself with your friends. Take this time to see if this guy will be there for you. At this time his focus is his child, so remember that. Many fights will be about him not being there for you so be prepared.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-05-17 03:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by Misunderstood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man who is about to have a baby...maybe. But I man who is still living with another woman? Hell no. You are just asking for it. There is probably a lot going on that he isn't telling you about if he still lives with her. I think you should run...fast...and far away.
2007-05-17 03:10:14 · answer #7 · answered by Kitten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is into you.
maybe just see what things are like after the baby is born.
its a difficult position to be in. just know that this ex of his is always going to be in his life after the baby is born, something that you need to think about.....whether you can handle that or not.
hope all works out for you in the end.
2007-05-17 03:12:38 · answer #8 · answered by Dylangirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he still lives with her, I would wait awhile,because sometimes a child brings people back together,if only for a little while wait and make sure its over and why does he still live her,anyway?
2007-05-17 03:09:09 · answer #9 · answered by shanevswife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it..If he really wants to be with you, then he would be with you and not living in his baby mommas house...I smell trouble brewing for you...
2007-05-17 03:08:58 · answer #10 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋