A former co-worker of mine used to go to lunch and hang out after work and she propositioned me to be her "friend with benefits". I am somewhat desperate because it's been 2 years since i've had sex. The only thing is I am 25 and she is nearly 50. So should I go for it?
2007-05-13 14:42:48 · 26 answers · asked by ChiTownSmarty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's kinda weird...ever ah, try to peel apart a grilled cheese sandwich?
you're 25. there have to be girls out there your own age that you can be with. and that says something about her, too, that she's 50 and is asking a younger man for sex. it's like she can't get a guy her own age--which is a big, red, flag to me, because it probably means there's some issue with her. maybe she becomes possesive or obsessive or something creepy like that. women around the menopausal age are very strange. she's probably having her midlife crisis and wants to remember what it's like to romp with someone who doesn't have to take viagra first.
so you have two options--be the young buck that rocks her world as she becomes infertile, or just stay away.
i think you should stay away.
but if you do it, you probably don't have to worry about her getting pregnant. ;)
but just because a woman is 50 doesn't mean you don't have to wear a condom. protect yourself if you do it.
2007-05-13 14:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by Laur 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Interesting that almost every girl said eeewww...no... gross....but the guys say oh yeah, go for it.
As a 30 y/o female I'm going to say that if you find her attractive....it will probably be some of the best sex you'll ever have.
Older women, don't play games, and are not drama queens.
They know what they like, they know how to please a man, they are mature and easy to talk to.
Personally I dated a man that was 20 years older than me, and trust me it wasn't out of desperation, this man really had it goin' on, and was a fantastic lover.
It's like you're free to enjoy the sex, because theres no relationship drama in the way.
I would just make sure y'all discuss the game plan, so your on the same page, set the boundaries and nobody gets hurt.
Best wishes
2007-05-13 15:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends, Will you and her be able to seperate sex from other things. The major problem with friends with benefits relationships is the tendency of one person to become emotionally attached.
If you dont concider her dating material you need to make sure both parties are fully aware of the nature of the relationship.
If she is alright with that then go for it, age isnt a real concern unless you are concerned about it.
2007-05-13 14:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Have you considered that there may be emotional implications that can arise due to the "friends with benefits" relationship? I've been there. Trust me, it's hard for women to keep the emotional aspect out of a sexual relationship. For the most part we women are hardwired that way. She may want a real relationship with you and this may be her way of getting to you. Besides, how do you keep this relationship separate from a real relationship that you may want some day? Just hold out a little longer and look for a woman who you would want to develop a real relationship with.
2007-05-13 14:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Krys 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It gets old real fast. I was in the same boat a few years ago. I did the old chick a few times. She had a nice place and bought me lots of beer and pizza. She had a nice bod for an old chick, otherwise I would not have done it.
Go ahead and add another notch to your gun handle, but don't keep reloading.
2007-05-13 14:49:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go for it, just make sure that You keep it in Your head not to fall in love with Her, because the only thing that she wants is the sex. Besides that, when You are 50, she will be 75, ooooohhh...........
2007-05-13 14:51:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stick to people your own age. You'll enjoy it more and be able to have a better relationship more cause a 25 year old has a different interest from an old lady.
2007-05-13 14:45:54 · answer #7 · answered by Jake 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um ya....what are you waiting for? Is she someone you would want to with anyway? Or are you truly that desperate...she could teach you a thing or two..not to mention she probably wants your energy
2007-05-13 14:50:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's gross! I don't care how long you haven't had sex, she's old enough to be your mother! I think you can do better than that... unless she's one of the rare "foxy grandma's" and doesn't look like she's her age, but whatever...
2007-05-13 14:53:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two like each other, what's the problem? I think the age thing is a non-issue.
2007-05-13 14:46:03 · answer #10 · answered by Atavacron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋