Ok so I know that my boyfriend uses me. He also cheats on me. And I know for a fact that if I didn't put out, he would drop me like that. I want to break up with him, but I am so in love. I just don't think he'll ever be able to love me the way that I love him. I wish this could be easy, how do I make him love me or make my love for him go away?
WHY DO I ALWAYS FALL FOR THE BAD ONES????
2007-05-13 17:39:39 · 20 answers · asked by michelle g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no love there if he is doing those things. It takes two to make a relationship work. Let him go.
2007-05-13 17:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by wscarpelli@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one deserves to feel the way you do. Sounds to me like you have low self esteem and you need to get away from that problem. If I was you break up with him, because if he's cheating on you god knows what he's bringing to your bed. First things first drop him cause he's eventually gonna drop you. Seek counseling to deal with whatever emotions you still have for him. You can't make him love you, but you can get over him. It just takes time. Do yourself a favor though go and get an STD test, cause you don't know what all those other people he's sleeping with may have and it would be good to catch something early than to late.
2007-05-14 00:49:41 · answer #2 · answered by Theresa W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds silly.. but there are more fish in the sea. I didn't want to hear that when I was in your situation, but honestly, it is better to end it now then to deal with it and get hurt worse later.
If the love isn't 50/50, run for the hills, because it will never get better. People like that are selfish and thoughtless.
You may not always fall for the bad ones, but have you ever thought that maybe you are tooooo kind to them and they take advantage of that.... I say that because I used to be that way... I was one of those women who loved too much. Take time love yourself and then look for someone else to love. I guarantee if you do that, you will find a man that will worship you for the queen you are!!
2007-05-14 00:45:04 · answer #3 · answered by Txsnow79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason you feel your in love with this boy because you don't know or haven't met what else it out there. No one deserves to be treated like a peice of meat so dump him as soon as posible. It will take about a month or so to get over him but it will be worth it. Take this relationship in stride and remember who not to fall in love with, when the next bad boy comes along you'll know the signs.
2007-05-14 00:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by Alana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have not met a person like me and any other guy that will show you the true meaning of love and respect that you deserve and were out here you just need to search! and let your boyfriend go cuz he does not respect you or love you and you can find someone who will.
2007-05-14 11:44:31 · answer #5 · answered by rgsiguana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it is worth it to go on with this kind of relationship.eventhough u love him sooo much, but it is just u and ur feeling.does he feel the same with u? so now,be strong to leave him.maybe u juz not find ur "mr rite" yet.ba patient.every cloud has its silver lining. maybe u will fall in love with someone which is far away better than him. who knows?
2007-05-14 00:47:51 · answer #6 · answered by miss nor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say that you drop him like a hot potatoe! lol...I think that any idiot stupid enough to cheat on you deserves to hit the road. There are plenty fish in the sea!
2007-05-14 00:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by WackyMackyLovesCheer&Basketball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom tried to make my dad love her for 23yrs and it didnt work! She only showed love and he didnt appreciate it. So I really beg, that you move on. Alll the pain and hurt will only get worse. Save yourself from all the heart break! PLease!!! Move on and go for the sweet guys! Who will appreciate your love!
Best Wishes!
2007-05-14 00:52:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either give in and bang him or dump him. How stupid are you? You could have figured this one out for yourself. He wants sex, as he deserves, if you aren't willing to give it to him, then he should look elsewhere. Either cut the chasity belt or stop wasting men's time.
2007-05-14 00:45:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's called infatuation and you need to grow up and move on.Stop looking for relationships and wait for the right thing to come along.Don't put yourself out there like.Leave him and don't look back.MOVE ON!!!!
2007-05-14 00:42:47 · answer #10 · answered by babyzilla7321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋