Marriage & Divorce - 9 November 2007

she even posted it in her blog,trying to tell the world how smart,sexy and loved by a married man...and making fun or saying bad comments against the mrs.....

2007-11-09 13:21:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-09 13:20:20 · 7 answers · asked by sublimeannah 1

I am 25 and I would like to have kids someday.

In the next few years I plan on going to grad school. Should I settle for an okay guy or should I wait for love?

I am overweight and have not had a fair chance at the dating pool do to that. I am trying to lose weight so I can attract more men and have more options.

What do you think?

2007-11-09 13:20:18 · 10 answers · asked by Okay Hero 2

What are your pet peeves?

My husband will take food to work and not bring home the container for DAYS ITS SICK.

He won't take a shower one day out of the week im like YUK..

He falls asleep on the couch so we can't even sleep together does this ALOT..

He goes overboard with how things should be, I dont know he has just been PISSING ME OFF THIS WEEK

2007-11-09 13:18:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-09 13:07:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-09 12:54:02 · 21 answers · asked by Amber C 1

I have been married to a great guy for 4 years and our sex life is great, but sometime I find myself masturbating after he leaves for work (at night). Should I tell him? Maybe it might turn him on, I'm not sure, but I'm starting to feel bad. I'm just so horny all the time!

2007-11-09 12:49:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is not me (I swear)...so my friend has been seeing a man who is recently separated but still wants to be with his wife. He and my friend have had an inimiate relationship and he continues to try to spend time with her. He texts her, calls her and asks her to dinner all the while he does the same things with his wife. I think she should kick his butt to the curb for being Shady O'Grady. What are your opinons?

2007-11-09 12:29:22 · 18 answers · asked by grace 4

2007-11-09 12:13:12 · 13 answers · asked by urbanbutterfly 3

what type of habit will you not tolerlate from someone you are with.. i mean living with.. i should more than likely be over in the single section.. but sense your all married or divorce.. i thought i would get a better reponse.. like what habits would you not tolerate

2007-11-09 12:11:28 · 15 answers · asked by vis 7

she use to flirt with me quite a bit. I never told her i liked her now she acts if im invisible except for a few glances here and there and she flirts innocently with other guys. She did tell me i was cute a couple of weeks ago. were both 17. So do you think she likes me and is trying to make me jealous or what. I have never really showed her i like her b/c im nervous


every day i go with out her i become more and more depressed. It hurts b/c i love her. But i never tell her b/c im too ashamed she wont like our think im weird

2007-11-09 12:10:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

In my opinion it isnt. Marriage is a much bigger thing. I just wanted to know what you all think.

2007-11-09 12:08:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

have a problem where I AM to nice and sweet and understanding.
I've always had people want to be my friend but then drain me with their problems.
I do well handling the antics of my female friends but my two exBF have really messed me up this year.
they both want to stay friends.
but I have decided to CUT them out of my life FORVER.
bf 1= Long term BF for several years. last year he ended up hitting me/cheating on me and blame dme for his actions. he used guilt and threats of retaliation fo rme to keep cooking/cleaning and helping him. Finally I moved 100 miles away even though it wipe dme out financially (im 31 and now only have 155k in home equity and zero savings)
He has kept sending me email/came ot my house and wont leave me alone. I threatened the police on him and he said he would destory me.My 2nd BF lasted 5 months. Seemed great at 1st. But he lost his job, started drinking/overeating and speeding in his car. Blames eveyone else for his problems Begs me to stay friends
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they are both highly educated brilliatn but utterly selofish and effed in the head men.
My 1st BF is nearly 40 years old and the second one is 34 yrs old.
So they will never improve.
I think I need to never let them contact me again and maybe change my name and move far away ........ Best plan ?

2007-11-09 12:03:26 · 9 answers · asked by Leea 1

My man started a fight with me for no real reason. He says I don't show him that I appreciate him, but I am usually the one that initiates physical contact, I do the little romantic things, and I call him all the time. We are in a long distance relationship but we see eachother often. I don't show him when the things he says hurt me, thats just how it was in my family. Then when he really does cross a line he acts like all he has to do is stop arguing and I'll be okay. Well yesterday he crossed a line and I told him I needed time to think if this relationship was healthy or not. All couples fight and he is a good man, but I worry that he is projecting his unhappiness with himself out on me. what do you think?

2007-11-09 11:40:29 · 16 answers · asked by The thinker 4

My sister and her husband seperated several years ago but never filed for divorce and both moved on with their lives. The problem she faces is losing custody of their daughter. He plays the card that she had another mans baby(3 years after the seperation). So she is considering filing for divorce using dissertation as grounds. A few years ago he was under investigation for a felony crime so he took off to New York with his girlfriend. Since the crime was unfounded no further charges were persued for leaving the state. He now believes he is invenceable or untouchable, based on his ability to avoid being convicted for his crimes. She still resides in the city she married in and gave birth to their daughter. He is the one who chose to move away.

2007-11-09 11:39:31 · 8 answers · asked by ladyt51901 2

My husband is leaving me again. I have tried for 17 years to get him to love me. He is my heart. No one can live without a heart

2007-11-09 11:37:30 · 40 answers · asked by sissy 4

Typical story before marriage you had sex every time you saw each other, once during the week and 3 times on the weekend, nothing was off limits, and the sex was wild and passionate. Then you get married, and soon after she doesn't want to give head, at all, eventually she doesn't want to even touch it, now she hardly ever wants sex, she rejects the husbands attempts more often then accept, and when she does accept it's ho-hum sex with out much effort put in on her part. Based on her limitations (things she'll no longer do) the husband dosnt have many options so its the same thing most of the time.

She uses excuses like head ache, on the rag when she's not, too tired, not in mood, wait until tomorrow then dosn't follow thru.

If I described you please explain the real reasons you don't want to have sex with your husband, if you only knew to what extent that the rejection is hurting your man and the relationship would you'd rethink it

2007-11-09 11:34:16 · 6 answers · asked by Answerman 3

be honest!

2007-11-09 11:24:25 · 14 answers · asked by Austin C 1

My boyfriends ex-wife is trying to do this (I'm sure just to hurt my man) She is a total control freak, lies all the time, tries to scam him. She uses the child to get what she wants, with no regard to his well-being. Any stories to share? Thoughts on what to do about this?

2007-11-09 11:20:33 · 8 answers · asked by Sparxfly 4

I dont know what to do anymore. My husband thinks I can trust him after he went behind my back and saw his ex-finance like 3 times. Then when I actually tell him that I didnt put a spyware program on here (after I found out that he was chatting with his ex through email, texting, seeing her in person, and calling her) and TRYING to trust him again but how can I trust him when he purposely goes to his moms to go to his email which makes me think he is hiding something. I havent done anything to make him not trust me in the way I dont trust him! If he has nothing to hide shouldnt he be able to go online here? Does it seem like he has something to hide? And how do I get his trust back?

2007-11-09 11:14:25 · 10 answers · asked by rachael m 2

In Christianity, its a sin. So my question is... why is it so bad to marry someone who has been married once? I love her... its hard to control ones heart.

Why is it so sinful to marry someone who has been married and divorced?

Also... what happens if you fall in love with someone who is married... is it a sin to secretly have feelings for them even though they are married? what if they are in an abusive relationship?

2007-11-09 10:59:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Been married almost 20 years to the kind of man I had prayed for most of my life. He is kind, helpful, funny, smart, a wonderful dad and very good looking (added bonus). About 10 years into marriage things just went wrong. I developed a severe crush on a man who was into me. Consequently, we formed a friendship with benefits that involved a couple of kisses (no sex). Sometime in the next year while out of town I encountered 2 men who were close to our family and I proceeded to have sex with one and just kissed the other one. Why on earth would I do something like this to the man I swore in front of God and many people that I would love and cherish forever, for better or worse? A few months ago I engaged in flirty conversations with 2 guys from my work. I have made a full confession to my husband, who claims that he’s suspected my infidelity all along.

Why have I done this? I’m optimistic that we can work it out, and he will accompany me to counseling.

2007-11-09 10:57:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Apart from the obvious, what makes a woman marriage material for u??Dig deep here.... :)

2007-11-09 10:53:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got married in June, I haven't changed my last name legally mainly because of all the debt I was carrying when I came into the marriage, credit cards, accounts, etc. It seemed easier to just use my husband's name or a hyphenate socially, well now my mom is writing checks to me with the hyphenated last name, and the last time I was at the bank I was told since I didn't change my name legally they couldn't cash them with the hyphenated name. Does anyone know if the teller I spoke to just didn't know what she was talking about or if this is really going to be a problem?

2007-11-09 10:01:52 · 11 answers · asked by mjmeow13 1

I've had the most wonderful love affair with my husband for the past 12 years and counting!
About 2 years ago we decided to bring some adventure to our marriage by finding unusual things for us and WOW is all I can say!

But hears the PROBLEM, we put a bunch of suggestion in a bag and withdrew one for us to do this year we drew KNITTING so we took classes together for the past year now and both of us have had a fun at it!

Our final class was last week and doing 2 projects on our own we had to make it with all the fundamental of what we learned!

I made a a sweater and blanket and got an A for it!
My husband made a pair of panties and a bra, the instructor saw what he made she said she could not give him credit until they were shown, her idea was to put them on the BUST, his idea was to have me model them, I did soft fabric yarn too god they felt so good he got an A+, and that night we had the most increasable SEX should I be ashamed because I'd like him to knit more for me?

2007-11-09 09:54:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-09 09:33:20 · 2 answers · asked by glennaf10 1

She had really controlling parents, but after we moved to the big city she got some drama queen friends and now she hangs out late, go's to party's and, sometimes dose not even come home. Where young, and haven't been married for that long. On Top of all of this bull ****, we haven't made love for 3 mo, and i found out, that about a month ago, one of her close friends had kissed her. *accident so it's said. I could go on all day long about our situation, but i suppose this shall suffice for now.

2007-11-09 09:30:34 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I are positive we love each other and we will get married, but he has had to see his parents divorce and re-marry several times and I think is getting really scared about us. He asks questions like what if we get divorced.. like I wanna think about that. What do I tell him and what do I do to feel better about us getting married?

2007-11-09 09:09:11 · 9 answers · asked by Loo 2

Would you find it inappropriate if your wife's dentists partner...(in practice) spoke to her re: his personnel life and on another occasion (to you both) told a "story" of how a patient locked lips w/ him? Please keep in mind that he also gave her a hug. Would you feel that this man was/is feeling out your spouse? Or would you think it is nothing? Would you tell her not to be a patient...and why does this man have the notion he may do so? Any advice is great. My wife and I have been married only a couple yrs. and I am wanting to handle this right.

2007-11-09 09:05:34 · 4 answers · asked by flowerchyld38 2

Its not fair I don't understand this at all .

If men want to see nude dancers on a regular basis ,why don't they just get married to that type of woman?

2007-11-09 09:04:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous