Women, why don't you want to have sex with your husband?

Question

Typical story before marriage you had sex every time you saw each other, once during the week and 3 times on the weekend, nothing was off limits, and the sex was wild and passionate. Then you get married, and soon after she doesn't want to give head, at all, eventually she doesn't want to even touch it, now she hardly ever wants sex, she rejects the husbands attempts more often then accept, and when she does accept it's ho-hum sex with out much effort put in on her part. Based on her limitations (things she'll no longer do) the husband dosnt have many options so its the same thing most of the time.

She uses excuses like head ache, on the rag when she's not, too tired, not in mood, wait until tomorrow then dosn't follow thru.

If I described you please explain the real reasons you don't want to have sex with your husband, if you only knew to what extent that the rejection is hurting your man and the relationship would you'd rethink it

Answer 1

DO WHAT?
Where is this woman? Man, she must be just horrible!
I mean, after doing all that she does during the day....Laundry, dishes, cleaning house, going to work, taking care of the kids, fixing your meals....
She DOES NOT want to have sex?
What planet did she step off of?
I mean come on...I do ALL of those things...I am 40, just had a baby, have a 10 yr old and have 3 pets.
AND I STILL WANT SEX!
I mean, to me...it is a stress reliever AND I helps me to go to sleep at night!
I might add that the big boom, gives me a release that just makes the WRONGS of the day GO AWAY!
MAN, I feel for you....
Even if I have to attack my husband I STILL GET WHAT I WANT!
And I want it more than he does sometimes!
PERIOD!

Blessings

Answer 2

After 18 years of marriage, we still have good sex. I wasn't aware I was suppose to stop after getting married LOL.

Ok, honestly, from a womans' point of view....

When you get married, you have children, you have to work, come home, do housework, laundry etc...help the kids with their homework, make dinner, make sure all the kids get their baths and settled down into bed. That is ALOT on their plate so to speak....Most women are exhausted by the time 8 o'clock rolls around and can only think of getting a little sleep before the alarm clock goes off the next morning and having to do the same thing the very next day.

Try to give your wives a little break.. Help more around the house and with the kids instead of coming home and kicking off your shoes and asking her whats' for dinner as you settle into your easy chair with the remote control :)

Answer 3

This may not be alot of help for you, but husbands reject their wives too. I've been married for soon to be 29 years and I'd bet that 90 years olds probably have more and better sex than us! Believe you me it aint my fault from lack of trying or talking about how important it is to me. I'm 46 and he's 51 by the way.

Answer 4

He sits around watching TV, and surfing the net , while I work, clean, etc. telling me to hurry up because he's waiting to 'nap', doesn't help, criticizes me, yells at me, calls me a (w)itch regularly, ... I dunno, just not in the mood.

And then I wonder, what is wrong with me? Why don't I want it?

Mom says marriage isn't all wine and roses. OK.

But is a little affection, a little respect, too much to expect?

I'm not sure there is something wrong with me because he can't get me in the mood.

Answer 5

the explanation why women human beings cant deny intercourse from her husband is by using the fact if she says no he might flow else the place and which could bring about sinning. comparable for adult adult males it rather is sinful for a guy to constantly refuse his spouse. it rather works the two procedures.

Answer 6

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