Apart from the obvious, what makes a woman marriage material for u??Dig deep here.... :)
2007-11-09 10:53:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Will she be a good stay-at-home mother to my kids and make money and be attractive at company functions.
2007-11-09 10:57:04 · answer #1 · answered by Level 7 is Best 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand this "REAL man" crap. Where did that expression ever come from. A lot of men out there are of sound morals, character, trustworthy, faithful...etc. But because they don't fit into a womans perspective of a "REAL man" they don't get a second thought or a second look. Like they say... "Beauty is only skin deep". For either gender I would say maybe we look for someone who is trustworthy and faithful. For myself when I meet a new woman I watch to see how they deal with and treat other people. I feel it can tell me a lot about their character.
2007-11-09 12:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me define "real man" first. A real man is someone who is mature enough to understand situations in a relationship. A person "man" enough to know and accept what are the consequences of certain things he did or will do. Physical attributes can be a plus but its more into attitude that everybody looks for...looking at a long term relationship perspective, you look for someone you know you can live with for the rest of your life meaning both of you have the same wave length, similar likes and dislikes and definitely both love each other.
2007-11-09 11:20:56 · answer #3 · answered by avagurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attraction is more than outer beauty. There's spirit, wit, personality, You should have at least five serviceable teeth, preferably in front. You gotta have a great sense of humor, and be raunchily sexy for me to consider your beauty. You don't have to be a Super Model to be beautiful but a real pulse, a great sense of humor, easy-going, intelligent woman with southern values and a little charm goes a long way.
2007-11-09 11:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by MoonDoggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real man looks for a woman that is happy in herself, her life and her heart. If he finds one, he finds a partner who can problem-solve, negotiate and be a true friend and partner. He finds a woman who can articulate her needs, express her desires and who is willing to make her relationship her priority.
A real man avoids damsels in distress. He avoids self-centerd, shallow women who lack respect in themselves or him. He avoids anyone with substance abuse or mental/emotional issues they have not resolved. He avoids the drama queens.
A real man looks for someone who shares his goals, his religion, his parenting styles and who will share his life as an asset rather than a detriment. He looks for a woman who is with him because she'd rather be nowhere else, not because she has no other choice.
A real man will find a real woman and go on to live a real happy life. Good luck.
2007-11-09 11:04:42 · answer #5 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's some options...
- A woman who is satisfied in the body/skin she has, not worried about what others are thinking.
- Confident is her current abilities, not whining about her failures or inability to do things.
- Understands the value of money and what it takes to earn it, not just take it and spend it at a whim
- Integrity and able to build a trust
- Accept the guy for things he can control and do, not try to change or humiliate him for things he can't do.
- be able to laugh and learn from your mistakes
- smile
- empathy
- clean hygiene
2007-11-10 14:54:55 · answer #6 · answered by stonehands 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman who needs not ask what do I want but more of showing me what she's all about. If that's what I'm looking for great, if not I'm happy she was not trying to be something or someone she's not.
2007-11-09 11:13:40 · answer #7 · answered by Dr Phil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question is rather uncertain. do you opt to renowned approximately "what does a real guy appear as if," "what a great guy sounds like," or if the guy you comprehend has severe issues. a real guy sounds like a male homo sapien, a great guy sounds like me, and the guy might desire to have severe issues, yet he didnt teach something extra advantageous than being insensitive to you and slightly unrealistic b/c spouses might desire to renowned whats happening with one yet another a minimum of slightly over the path of an afternoon.
2016-10-02 00:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honesty and truthfulness and yes they are different. been married 3 times, haven't found a gal who could accomplish one let alone both.
guess i set the bar too high.
2007-11-09 15:30:01 · answer #9 · answered by junkyarddogfan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Emotional and spiritual maturity.
2007-11-09 10:58:15 · answer #10 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋