I am 25 and I would like to have kids someday.
In the next few years I plan on going to grad school. Should I settle for an okay guy or should I wait for love?
I am overweight and have not had a fair chance at the dating pool do to that. I am trying to lose weight so I can attract more men and have more options.
What do you think?
2007-11-09 13:20:18 · 10 answers · asked by Okay Hero 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should wait. How dare you even consider screwing up some guys life, to suit your requirements.
2007-11-09 13:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for love. I was married before, and he was not the love
of my life. I settled just because I thought it could work out.
I was a very skinny woman. I was a stick and I hated how I
looked and my husband was alot bigger. It didn't last cause
I never made love to him, we just had sex and I really was
not happy ever. I divorced him, and several years later I met
a man, a co-worker of all things. We worked together for
years and we got along so well. I often wondered why I
couldn't meet someone like him. We got to talking about
what we did one weekend and he said I wanted to do that
once to. I went to the casino. He suggested we go together
once and we talked non stop. We always have something
to say to eachother. It's just so natural for us. We got
married last july and LOVE is where it is. I love this man so
much, I regreat being married before, cause I wish he was
the one I married first and forever. I gained 30lbs while
we were dating cause I was so happy. I have kept on the
weight and I feel good. Never settle. Make it a rule in life.
Cause you will never really be happy if you do.
2007-11-09 17:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by boxmaker40 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not settle for an OK guy. Go to grad school and wait for Mr. Right.
2007-11-09 13:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to settle and then be miserable for the rest of your life? You are only 25. Are you about to die? What is the rush? Don't you like yourself enough to wait for REAL love?
2007-11-09 13:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by lefttheroom222 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 18 and never dated at all. I get very discouraged about. Many of my girlfriends say I'm beautiful but that doesn't seem to matter to guys since I'm overweight. So I get dipressed about it too but I think you should wait for love. Easy to say, I know.
2007-11-09 15:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if the guy of your dreams comes along when you're already married with kids? Hold out for love.
2007-11-09 13:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by rorybuns 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should rush anything there is no problem with waiting. I don't think you really know what you want untill you are about 30 anyway. Take your time he will come your way when you least expect.
2007-11-09 13:29:51 · answer #7 · answered by Krazee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT!!!! True love will come, everything happens for a reason.
2007-11-09 13:36:01 · answer #8 · answered by baby daddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does this man love you for you , with your weight? You do what you feel and follow your heart.
2007-11-09 13:50:37 · answer #9 · answered by Thunder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say wait. If you are not mad in love, don't marry.
2007-11-09 13:34:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋