Marriage & Divorce - 21 July 2007

Both myself and my wife were virgins when we married, so we are both inexperienced. Do most married men finish inside their wifes? My wife is on birth control so I understand that there is a small chance of still getting preg though. Thanks

2007-07-21 05:56:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think thats a totally disgusting thing to do in a marriage..Your vows say "forsake all others" not "f**k all others..I think wives that agree to this are afraid of saying no cause they fear he will go behind her back and cheat..I dont think these men are truly in love or committed to their wife and marriage if they want to do this.

2007-07-21 05:44:47 · 19 answers · asked by debra x 1

I'm a grown women in my 30's with a grade school age daughter. My boyfriend (never married, no kids) moved in 2 months ago. He use to help make dinner and clean up and now it seems as if all he does is play video games & play on the computer. When I ask him to help around the house (i work 40+ hours a week as well) his response is "I'm not a robot, i'm tired and I don't like people to have expectations from me". He use to help, he's great with my daughter and makes me laugh but i feel like a servant and I don't see it getting better. Should I ask him to leave?

2007-07-21 05:40:40 · 20 answers · asked by c z 2

Is this coz she's a woman?

2007-07-21 05:38:36 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

She means the world to me? She doesn't think so because I work so much, but I'm the only one working to cover all our expenses.

2007-07-21 05:27:58 · 31 answers · asked by Mr. Chocolate 2

Have any of you had your bf/fiance/husband not know what he wants and needed space come back to you and everything be ok after that? And vice versa, have any of you men done this to a woman and what was the outcome?

2007-07-21 05:06:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-21 05:01:58 · 17 answers · asked by charles b 1

This is a very personal question but I need other perspectives. This is for serious thinkers only.Here's a guy who had a 13 year relationship with a woman,has two kids with her, tried to salvage the marriage, then in the midst of getting help from a "friend"gets her pregnant, has a baby, leaves them and is now in the process of child support, then gets in between a 16 yr.marriage that is has been rocky but is trying to salvage itself slowly but begins and thinks and claim's the wife as if it's his lady to keep? When the wife and husband try to talk about their marriage he gets upset and jealous about it. Why would anyone do this and what does this say about someone that is this way? Any analytical thinkers only need to answer. With a situation like this, what do you think would be the outcome of this "whole set up?

2007-07-21 04:59:28 · 4 answers · asked by b dude 2

we have been freinds/talking etc... no problems, until he sent this email the other day ( monday) that said he is in love w / me but going to go be with his baby's mother. i got upset and sent him a whoel bunch of emails telling him how upset i was about this.. ( like over a day and half. probably around 15 emails) . i wasnt extremey crdue or rude but just getting my feelings out/ doing some venting. well he never wrote back. so i stopped calling him and have not emailed/bugged him in 2 days, and i dont plan to contact him again unless he contacts me. based on this do i seem kinda harassing/stlkaery?? or does it just look ike i was blowing off steam.

2007-07-21 04:51:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are married. He doesn't do anyplace without me but I think he cheats during his work day. He has that type of job where he is out and about. He is a lover of porn and because he has a work cell there are always numbers in the phone. He turns down sex more than I think is normal but his mouth says ALL DAY that he loves me. Our sex is awesome and exciting. He is MUCH older than I am ......... I am confused?!? help....

2007-07-21 03:59:01 · 9 answers · asked by brown_n_thick_sista 1

Okay i have been married 2.5 yrs had many problems.My husband cheated on me and we seperated for 3 months.During those 3 months i had a fling with my ex.bf who had been my first bf, kiss, and everything else...We had a number of flings on and off since highschool but generally only if we were both in non-serious relationships or single.Problem is i just found out he fathered my son who is only 1 month old and has an unknown medical problem?My son has been in/out of hospital doctors cant figure out what problem is.Top it off my husband and i got back together after our seperation so i have no clue how to tell him my sons not his?
I also found out my ex.bf’s on and off live in gf was pregnant about same time i was .But their child (daughter) died shortly after birth from unknown complications.I want to tell him he has a son but am unsure how seeing as its probably not a good time?

2007-07-21 03:52:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I woke up at 3am in the morning with a terrible stomachache. My husband knew I was sick. He worked overnight. Came home at 5am in the morning. At around 715am I asked him to go to the store to get me pepto bismol and he replied "At the store, I'm sorry I can't I just got in." I was livid, I went downstairs and saw that he went back to sleep. When he realized hoe angry I was he went to the store. I have to be at work at 9am.
Am I overreacting or does this show someone who does not lreally love me?

2007-07-21 03:40:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am headed for West Point (hopefully :-)) in July....and my boyfriend is leaving for Navy Boot Camp....is this type of marriage possible..? Army/Navy?Thanks for any help

2007-07-21 03:32:20 · 14 answers · asked by morgandyfaerie13 2

Im sorry, I'm just so tired of hearing men go on and on about it. Whats the big deal with it? Im very open minded, and by all means if anyone has anything positive that comes from it, other that a man being allowed to sleep with another woman, please do tell. Im just wondering if you all are as tired of it as I am.

2007-07-21 03:22:04 · 16 answers · asked by *never give up* 4

My boyfriend is in the states working on a visa.. I would like to know if i can marry him, before my divorce is final. We live in new England but would like to get married in California.. Will the goverment find out? and deport him, within 7 monthes.

2007-07-21 03:16:10 · 38 answers · asked by Teresa V 2

Please help..... he's confused?
My fiance & bf of 11 years says he is "confused" and doesn't know what he wants. Says he's not happy. We have some problems but what couple doesn't? I told him to leave and that I don't want him back unless he is 100% sure he wants to marry me and be with me forever. As HARD as it may be I'm promising myself I will not call him. I love him and don't want to lose him. But I only want him here if he truly wants to be. Does he just need space? Will he come back? Has this ever happened to any of you? Pls I need advice. Thanks.

Well it's the next day and I had an awful sleep. I want him to come home and be with me and be SURE about our future together. If I call him what should I say??? Pls help. I need advice from someone who's been there and knows what they're talking about. Thanks.

2007-07-21 02:59:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married a little over 2.5 yrs and have had many problems.I was unaware of his expectations before we got married to have kids instantly and also had no idea he expected me to be a house wife.I felt like i was being forced fed all of this.This all caused a never ending cycle of fights and eventually my husband started having an affair with his secratary almost 1.5 into our marriage.I found out we seperated for 3 months during that time i started having a fling with an ex.bf.I ended it when my husband called to say he wanted to work things out.I found out I was pregnant with my now 1 month old baby son but put paternity on back burner to see if my marriage could work.Well my son has been in and out of the hospital alot doctors cant figure out why.So i was forced to tell my doctor that my son might not be my husbands.
Well a rush dna test was preformed and it turns out my son is not my husbands.Can the doctor tell my husband?

2007-07-21 02:56:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-21 02:44:15 · 3 answers · asked by Elizabeth L 1

Well, since then she has remarried.He's always throwing in my face that he's doesn't have any money.Maybe because I don't have any kids but I don't understand why all the financial pressure has to be on him when the other child has a father and plus the mother is remarried.This puts a limit on things that we want to do and should do.With this relationship being so new,I don't know if I want to continue.I don't mean to sound selfish but I want to be happy without all the drama.I'm not bringing drama and I don't want it.I'm the type of women who doesn't mind footing the bill sometimes but I don't want this "I'm Broke" stuff to come up all the time.If you're not ready for a relationship, I feel you shouldn't put yourself out there like that.

2007-07-21 02:20:22 · 22 answers · asked by songtress4life1968 1

2007-07-21 02:16:00 · 23 answers · asked by Butterfly 1

My childs father getting married to someone he known for only two years and when we where together we was together eight years and was engage now since we are not together it really hurts to know that his getting married please tell me how to really move on?

2007-07-21 02:11:12 · 14 answers · asked by bunny 1

She is very imformative and I read alot of her answers for people. I often wonder how she knows so much.

2007-07-21 02:01:14 · 2 answers · asked by Donnie P 1

Dear All,

It was 2 days before me getting married to my finace when I found out that, not only he still has feelings for his ex but also he is in love with her. He has her pictures still and since I play piano he made me record a song for him that they used to listen to when they were together. eventually I called the wedding of and wanted to leave him with his memorries and go to next step of my life, but he begged me to stay and give him some time. he says that after two month all his memories will be gone and he will be ready just having me in his life. But in the other hand he says that he is PRACTICING love with me (what does it suppose to mean?!) and that he CAN NOT HAVE HIS EX BACK. He says he really likes me and we do not have any serious problems so why AM I trying to make one!
what he had just done made me hate all of our memories together all the kisses all the laughters and all is gone. BUt I surely love him still, So it is confussing. Should I leave him or should I stay and give him one other chance he is begging for. and one more thing. We know eachother from long time ago but it is just 6 month after us getting together. HELP!

2007-07-21 01:48:59 · 21 answers · asked by shervan t 1

My wife knows that she needs to lose weight but starts a diet then stops because it does not show quick enuogh results.

2007-07-21 01:38:29 · 60 answers · asked by ? 1

2007-07-21 01:32:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

No i mean have u realy, wat about the people that u leave behind? Do u think about the pain and hurt that they go thru, or the children that u leave behind? The life that they would have knowing that their parent comitted suicide, will never com home again.

2007-07-21 01:11:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i can't leave the house right now as i have nowhere to go.

I want to leave him.

He thinks I am making it up. He always thinks I will stay with him regardless.

2007-07-21 01:10:23 · 22 answers · asked by uk.housewife 2

My ex-husband and I got married at 27 and at the time he was fully aware that I never intended to have children and he told me he was ok with that. I couldn’t find a doctor who’d let me get my tubes tied in my 20’s so I took every other precaution I had available to make sure I didn’t get pregnant. After 3 years of marriage I got pregnant and was determined to abort it but everyone around me especially my husband begged me to reconsider assuring me I’d feel different once she was born. I ended up having my daughter , signing away all parental rights and divorcing him because I didn’t see how we could make it work with a baby I never wanted in our lives. I see my daughter about four times a month when dropping off the 5 dogs we share custody over. My family has virtually disowned me for not having any contact with my daughter who turned 3 last week. Why can’t they just understand that I don’t want to be part of her life? Note: At the insistence of my mother who adores children, I went to several doctors who all confirmed that I’m not suffering from any type of depression and am in perfect health. I just recently got a promotion with a significant pay increase and have a wonderful boyfriend of a year and just couldn’t be happier. Why can’t they be happy for me?

2007-07-21 00:42:36 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous

man i sure hope not she has been cutting it really close at her job and because she is the reason for her loosing her job i dont feel i need to help her any more than i do right now

2007-07-21 00:35:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-21 00:32:58 · 20 answers · asked by >D_ConTradictor< 4