Marriage & Divorce - 21 July 2007

2007-07-21 11:45:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

she was with the nieghbor while we were apart and he dont know I know. He's a young guy who is gonna try and hang out with me like we was all buddy buddy...

how do I best handle this situation?

Also she is kinda on the post about our future with a wait and see kind of additude... we have a son who is about to turn two and I really want this to work out.. I had a previous family and I dont want a third..

I know I still love her and she isnt sure yet how she feels about me

we've been apart for 5 months and I have been 660 miles from there

what are some ways I can ensure our success as a family on my end?

what are warning signs I should be looking for and how do I maintain my cool under this kind of pressure?

2007-07-21 11:41:10 · 5 answers · asked by breezeblanco 1

I have asked this before, but want to add details to the scenerio and question. Why would a man who gets sex anytime he wants ALSO want to sex outside of marriage? We've been together 5 years and I do a lot to spice up or sex life. We have sex all over the house; I wear all kinds of lingerie, sexy costumes and 4 inch heels. Yet he says he wishes I would be OK with him getting a little action on the side. To that I say "if I am not enough for U then why'd U marry me?" He says I am more than enough for him but it’s the excitement of being with other women from time to time. He swears that if I don't give him permission he will never cheat but I don't believe it. If he desires women now when he can have me anytime he wants then what will happen when I have an infant and am too tired to have sex when he wants?

2007-07-21 11:39:58 · 29 answers · asked by Renee C 2

He abandon me over 6 years ago, So i want a divorce but I have no idea what state he is in.

2007-07-21 11:33:11 · 11 answers · asked by Nancy 1

he hates me and hates children and it hurts me when i have sex because i am pregneant and he knows that because he forced me to have sex with hime and my doctor said if i do the i will have a really bad rest of my pregnantcy

2007-07-21 11:17:55 · 24 answers · asked by dramadiva23 1

I have not let my looks go.I wear suggestive clothing in the right places at the right times,suggested new ideas and places but he seems to have lost interest.WHY?

2007-07-21 10:55:33 · 20 answers · asked by sugartree2007 2

I wanna KNOW!! :P

2007-07-21 10:48:06 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I are having compadibility issues and need to find a sex counsler. None are listed in the phone book as a sex counsler.

2007-07-21 10:46:44 · 6 answers · asked by Sledder 1

2007-07-21 10:39:46 · 23 answers · asked by Smiley 2

I have been married for 5 months and have not had sex for the last 3, every time i ask she is too tired so on and so forth.
any ideas what to do

2007-07-21 10:22:40 · 35 answers · asked by bonodopeydog 2

She is married. And she told me she had a message to give to me and i said from who and she said from her. And i said ok what is it? And she said "Boom Chicka Wah Wah". Im married too and want to know is she flirting with me?

2007-07-21 10:04:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been seperated from my husband for almost 4 yrs and am unable to find an attorney to take my case that I can afford. I have pursued child support enforcement through the state of Fl but when my spouse found out he left his job of 18yrs because the state is taking so long to get him. He thinks he will get out of paying. I desperately need help but because I have a decent job making decent money I do not qualify for any state or gov. assistance nor do I belong to any church or social group that is willing to come to my aide in my time of need. My only option is an attorney that is going to go after this deadbeat like a bulldog. Yet as hard as I have searched I can not find one even the state wants a $600 up frt retainer I just cant fit that into my budget as it's hard enough to fit groceries. I am not looking for a hand out or a pity party just an honest ligitamate attorney that will waive the retainer and make the husband pay in all avenues available.

2007-07-21 09:56:04 · 7 answers · asked by flawolfchild 2

Ok here's the deal my husband got the cell phone bill today and I went over our minutes ALOT, like 900 minutes over. Needless to say the bill is HUGE!!! I REALLY didn't intentionally go over and run up this huge bill I guess I just wasn't paying enough attention to how much I was talking and the time of day I was using the phone. FYI we dont have a land line so this is my ONLY phone. Anyways what can I do to make him happy and get him off my back when he comes home from work. He is seriously pissed off. All he told me on the phone was that he'd talk to me about it later when he came home. Any suggestions????
P.S. - Dont just tell me to pay the bill myself. I'm a stay at home mom at HIS REQUEST untill our kids our school age.

2007-07-21 09:42:34 · 13 answers · asked by Luv_My_Baby 4

going down to TN we live in Ohio and pick up some furniture. Well they picked up the furniture and now they are at a race track. He said he didn't know they were going to go the the tracks and now they won't be home until to late to go out. This is one day, that I don't have my son. It doesn't happen very often and we actually have time together. He does this kind of stuff a lot. Do I have the right to be mad? What would u do?

2007-07-21 09:16:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a married 24 year old girl......I think im going through something...like a stage or something like someone may go through sort of like a mid life crisis or something similar....Ive been married for 3 years & it seems like now I have a hard time focusing on our marriage & I give other men atten. alot more than when I used to. Its like I crave atten. from other men & I cant be happy w/ who Im w/. I should be happy w/ him but whatever I do & however hard I try I still im interested in other men......is this normal? Am I going through something like a phase etc.?

2007-07-21 08:42:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

5 1/2 years down the drain from being betrayed by a man, i finally let it go before i lost myself!

It's been a few months and still its hard and hurts like hell!

2007-07-21 08:42:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is white and he acts as if he is ashamed of me. I am african american. We have been married for 12 years and he is yet to introduce me to his friends, nor does he wear a wedding ring. He is a truck driver and says he is afraid the ring will get caught up and he could lose a finger while hooking up the truck to the trailers. I think he is just a rotten scoundrel.

2007-07-21 08:30:38 · 23 answers · asked by Wanda 2

how many minutes do you get?

2007-07-21 08:22:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

When making love to my husband their are things that he wants to do to me. (oral, kissing certian places etc...) The problem is that some of these things do not turn me on. And Even though i tell my husband that does not turn me on he wants to do it anyway. He has told me that performing oral turns him on. I think he should want to do things that turn me on regarldess if they turn him on or not. When I stop him from doing something that I don't like he gets upset with me. I want our love making to be about him wanting to please me, but i feel that its just about HIM wanting to do whatever turns HIM on. Why does my husband want to continue performing oral sex (or any sexual act) on me if it does not turn me on?

2007-07-21 07:34:05 · 27 answers · asked by ilih2006 1

We love one another very much and she is there because she does love her husband regardless of what she has done. She wants to be with me but dont want to get a divorce, dont want to lose the home or anything there, what should we do? There has been talk about taking a break from one another to see if that helps the decision making. We are in love and have a great relationship outside of her marriage. She is about 14 yrs older than me also. We do not have sex anymore and barely see one another and yet we so badly want to be together. I dont know what to do but I am looking for advice from all. Some one please help me...

2007-07-21 07:32:49 · 18 answers · asked by terry_j1984 1

It has been said that the main reason for mothers keeping children is because of the pressure from other women.

Mothers suffer finanial distress in trying to keep kids they cannnot afford.

And mothers account for 77% of all physical abuse to children.

This is a serious question for the serious thinker.

2007-07-21 07:29:55 · 17 answers · asked by I Wanna Know 3

2007-07-21 07:22:14 · 8 answers · asked by Amina L 1

my ex was cheatin on me 3 times sleepin with other women, we were engaged and it felt so perfect then i found out of his cheatin and it totally destroyed me, he always textin me sayin how sorry he i s and how mch he loves me, thou the day after breakin up he was in bed with another woman! i feel so lonley and destroyed part of me want him back, anyone with sugestions??

2007-07-21 07:05:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

it was final on halloween how do i deal with it??

2007-07-21 07:05:36 · 5 answers · asked by melissa m 2

My a**hole husband told me that he doesn't care about my feelings last night. I told him that I want an apology and have been ignoring him since 7 pm last night. He doesn't seem to care. How can I get what I want -- an apology -- without giving in by being the first one to talk? Any suggestions?

I seriously didn't do anything to make him be such a jerk. I do EVERTHING for this ungrateful bastard!

2007-07-21 07:04:36 · 20 answers · asked by Jamie HB 1

Our sex life is not much in our relationship, but i really hate it when i go to give my husband a hug and he just gropes my *** and grabs me. Its not romantic, I tell him he'sgabbing me to hard, he tells me he's not. I tell him i don't like it, and he just replies what else am i suppose to do? I feel like that behavior is just for him and his pleasure, thats how he makes me feel, like it doesn't matter if i like it or not...i'm just suppose to let him do what he wants to do. I feel like he's so disrespectful when it comes to my body. He has told me doesn't feel like i'm attracted to him, he bases this on phycial. What I let him do to me, and what i do to him. I think this is a bunch of crap, and he bases love on the physical. AM I right?

2007-07-21 06:54:49 · 21 answers · asked by ilih2006 1

I've been married 6 years and been together for 9. We have 2 kids. From the beginning I have never had a sexual attraction and have never enjoyed sex with him. But we got along great and developed our relationship from that. I do love him because of everything we have been through, but I'm not sure that I made the right decision in the beginning. I am comfortable with him and he loves me like no man will probably ever love me, but we have our issues, and this one is becoming big for me. I have tried telling him exactly what I want in bed but it doesn't help. I have never had an orgasm with him in all this time. I feel extremely selfish for feeling this way. Should I stay in a marriage that is comfortable and forget about this?

2007-07-21 06:41:25 · 22 answers · asked by Dish29 1

My wife thinks I'm a flirt and unfaithful. I just love females, what wrong.

2007-07-21 06:29:00 · 22 answers · asked by MICHAEL C 1

Have you ever ask your wife or wanted a fmf 3-some with your wife?

2007-07-21 06:09:26 · 11 answers · asked by debra x 1

I have a friend that is planning to get married with a Catholic guy, but she is not Cathalic and is divorced.

2007-07-21 06:00:10 · 8 answers · asked by inlove 1