She means the world to me? She doesn't think so because I work so much, but I'm the only one working to cover all our expenses.
2007-07-21 05:27:58 · 31 answers · asked by Mr. Chocolate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like Mrs. Chocolate just needs a little attention from Mr. Chocolate. ;) You could do things like leaving her a love note before you go to work, make her breakfast in bed, sing her a song even if you can't carry a tune. Those are just examples of the things you can do. Use your imagination. Most women love the small stuff. You have a pc so maybe you could take a pic of you and her together and have some fun with photoshop or paint.NET to make it special and then have it framed for her. Those are little gestures that go a long way. Good luck and I hope your wife soon realizes she is the world to you. :)
2007-07-21 05:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by Cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send flowers to the house, mid day when she is at home by herself.... take her out for a nice walk and a small picnic. Do you all have text messaging. I am sure she would love to pick up her cell and see you have sent a message saying, "I Love You", "I'm thinking about you" Something simple to just let her know you are thinking about her.
Tell her baby you mean the world to me, make up some notes and cards.. leave them in the house here and there.. in her underwear drawer, in the microwave, on the top of the tv. Some place... when was the last time you had pictures taken together?
2007-07-21 12:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine_Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her. Or leave her a nice card.
It will mean a lot if you acknowledge that you wish you could be together more, but right now it's not possible.
Say, "I know I'm away a lot but it's only because I want to work hard enough so we can both be secure and have a happy life. Even if I'm not there I'm still thinking about you and how much you mean to me."
Good luck man. :)
2007-07-21 12:32:26 · answer #3 · answered by Karla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she means everything to you....and have a talk about how much you work. Let her decide, tell her that if it is important to her for you to be around then maybe she can help out with finaces and get a part-time job that way you can work less hours and put more time towards her. Let her choose what she will be more comfortable with....and you will see if she is really concerned about wanting to spend time with you so she knows she is special, or if she is just speaking and telling you things because your not around.
2007-07-21 12:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by ilih2006 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her know in little ways, Leave her a love note before work, take her out on a night off, Take a vacation if you can, even just for a couple of nights. Just let her know that you do care, but the bills have to be paid some way and you are the one doing it.
2007-07-21 12:31:59 · answer #5 · answered by princess m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can take the day off of work and do everything she wants to do. If you can't do that call her for no reason, buy her roses, cook her dinner and always tell her you love her. I c an tell my boyfriend I love him all the time and although he gets happy he just casually says it back. So instead of just telling him in person I send him little e-mails of pictures or phrases that I really like that let him know even more that I do love him. He always tries to hide his smile when he opens them and he tells me I'm a nerd. But let me tell you I can tell he loves those e-mails!
2007-07-21 12:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by sara_and_cj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cook her a dinner for just the two of you,use candles to light up the room,while your eating grab her hand and tell her that she means the world to you,maybe even bye her a present
Hope I helped: )
2007-07-21 12:32:43 · answer #7 · answered by cuteygirlash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to watch the one that you love so much work day in and day out but she needs to understand and support you...It is not like you wish to be gone all day, right? Mmmm light some candles, play soft music and give her a nice massage...I hope she does the same for you...I believe in all relationships it should be equal...
2007-07-21 12:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her notes everywhere that she might find while she's going about her day. Call her on lunch and tell her how you can't wait to come home to her. Take at least 1 day off a month and take her to the park and have a picnic....
that's what I wish my workaholic hubby would do for me.
2007-07-21 12:31:52 · answer #9 · answered by Candy517 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like you told us. Look her in the eyes and tell her she means the world to you and it would be too lonely if she wasn't in yours. Have a flower ready to give her when she starts in on how much you aren't home.
2007-07-21 12:31:24 · answer #10 · answered by harleychic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋