I think thats a totally disgusting thing to do in a marriage..Your vows say "forsake all others" not "f**k all others..I think wives that agree to this are afraid of saying no cause they fear he will go behind her back and cheat..I dont think these men are truly in love or committed to their wife and marriage if they want to do this.
2007-07-21 05:44:47 · 19 answers · asked by debra x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This has nothing to do with me im not even married but i see a lot of questions on here about this and i find it sad.
2007-07-21 05:49:51 · update #1
Well just i understand a couple wanting to spice up their sex life but with another person thats just weird and wrong.
2007-07-21 05:55:32 · update #2
This is just a fantasy almost all men have, mine has joked around before and asked about it and i was like heck no...and he was like ya, i wouldn't do it anyway but didn't hurt to ask and i had him explain and basically you already know men like sex, but with two woman he has two sets of everything and they like that idea for some reason, i think it is gross and once married you are not suposed to share you spouse with anyone so no way with that ever happen here.
2007-07-21 05:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by Nita and Michael 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Eh...I can kinda see your point that a marriage should be two people joined as one, but to each their own. Not all wives that agree to this are afraid of their man having an affair if she doesn't. Some people just desire different things. It doesn't make them wicked or disgusting, just different. Variety is the spice of life, and some people take that to mean their marriage too.
I've had a threesome, but it was in college, and I wasn't heavily involved with the women. I really don't think I could do something like that if I were married, though.
2007-07-21 12:55:21 · answer #2 · answered by Pedro the lawnboy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so quick to judge! Sometimes it's just about spicing up the relationship. Your'e right that the marriage vows say to forsake all others. Would you prefer, however, that your husband invovled you in a threesome or that he cheated on you?
I think some relationships can handle it and others can't. Though I think it sounds like an exciting idea, I don't think I could take it emotionally to see my husband with another woman.
2007-07-21 12:47:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are right on and I once had to deal with my ex wanting that and it ended our relationship which was a great thing to end and now I'm married to my dream man who has no desire for that kind of thing and he thinks it's wrong to even think it and he's no dud in the sack either so I don't even want to hear how that 3some thing spices up a relationship when in all actuality it kills it.
2007-07-21 13:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by jacquie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't view sex the way women do. Women view sex as an emotional act, men view it as a physical act. Guys can have sex with a woman besides their wife and not become attached.
Most guys are turned on when they can have two woman at the same time. It is an ego boost when one woman is willing to have sex with a man; it means he must be attractive (at least to that one woman). It is a real power trip if two women want to have sex with a guy at the same time (he must really be attractive).
Don't knock it until you try it. I have been in several MFM and FMF threesomes, and it has been alot of fun, just don't get emotionally attached.
2007-07-21 12:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I agree with you.
I am married and my husband would never be interested in this.
1st of all he only wants to be with me.
2nd of all it shows no loyalty, respect, love, or commitment to the one you are "supposed" to love.
And that goes for the other way too, when women want a 3some with 2 guys.
Totally disrespectful !!!
2007-07-21 12:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you 100%
2007-07-21 13:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you are correct. but i also think men want it with their wives because they trust them enough to confide in them their fantasies.
dint give him the 3 but you can watch a porn with him about it OR when your having sex the next time just talk dirty about it. Tell him how bad you want too and yada yada. he'll get that your not going to and your just saying it.
2007-07-21 12:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by princessfionafantasy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well your right .. it can mess things up a bit.. but mostly it is just a fantasy that a lot of guys want to live out... having 2 girls attend to there needs.. that is all it is... some girls also feel the need to have 2 guys also.. just a fantasy
2007-07-21 12:49:32 · answer #9 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We don't all want that. I'd be satisfied just to connect emotionally (mixed with physically) with just my wife.
2007-07-21 12:51:37 · answer #10 · answered by ready4sea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋