No i mean have u realy, wat about the people that u leave behind? Do u think about the pain and hurt that they go thru, or the children that u leave behind? The life that they would have knowing that their parent comitted suicide, will never com home again.
2007-07-21 01:11:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yeah i thought of it. i think its just a coward's way of getting out of things. becuz your not really solving them your just rejecting them.
2007-07-21 02:55:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone at one time or another has fleeting thoughts of suicide. Very few of them will actually commit the heinous act however. It's a permanent solution for a short term problem.
Other things to think about: With all of the disgusting facts of today, would you really want to leave behind one more mess for some other humans to clean up? What if you weren't found for days or weeks after? transferring of your problems to somebody else, IE: No insurance, so who pays for the burial? How about future events that you may very well enjoy, IE: watching children or grandchildren grow? Finally, the fact that it is a crime against God. Where will you end up?
2007-07-21 01:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi no I can honestly say suicide has never crossed my mind and I hope never would. You are right suicide cripples families and the loved ones left behind and I think after time they would feel anger towards the person in question. There is no spiritual guidance for people who have lost a loved one to suicide either, most of the books basically say that they will be a lost soul wondering around until its their natural time to pass anyway, which isn't much support for the loved ones. I could never leave my children and loved ones willingly and I am terrified of dying before I see my babies grow up.
2007-07-21 01:19:43 · answer #3 · answered by misstth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have many times. Suicidal thoughts can serve one purpose, at least as long as you don't go through with it: It can actually get you through some awful times, simply knowing that you can opt out and leave if the pressure gets too great. For stretches of my life, suicidal thoughts were my best friend. they were the only relief I had.
I'm past that now. But I think people are wrong to hit the panic button and start sicking the cops on people when they are having suicidal thoughts. They serve a useful purpose, or can. It's called COPING.
2007-07-21 01:16:13 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Vincent Van Jessup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I thought about it one time. It was the lowest time in my life. I thought God had given up on me as well. But as I was sitting in my misery, I saw the Bible on the table. All the worries, struggles, and sorrows seemed to escape me. I started thinking about how my family and friends would feel if I was no longer around. I also though if I committed suicide if I would go to heaven or hell and I sure didn't want to go to hell. Now, when I start to feel that strain, I just pick up the Bible and read and pray. Then I feel better. I have a lot to live for and don't want to waste any time missing out on what God blessed me with.
2007-07-21 01:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never!!!
I take good care of my mind and body, to do a stupid thing like this: Quit life!
In my opinion there is ALWAYS an option.
If things are not going the way you expect or worked for, you can always move away and start from scratch!
Believe! I did it!
I follow this rule:
If I wake up in the morning and think: My Gosh I've got to go to work! (like someone that is going to be hanged).
It is time to look for another job!!!
I do follow this rule for almost everything else in my life.
2007-07-21 01:36:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, have thought about it. At the time, it seemed like no one would miss me....I was wrong. It is a stupid thing to think about. When one is that low in their life, they only think about themselves. They feel unloved and unwanted and when it comes to their children, they feel that they would be better off without them. It's a low point.....with help, they can over come it. Suicide is not the answer......it doesn't solve anything, it only causes more hurt.
2007-07-21 01:37:54 · answer #7 · answered by Latino Heat 4ever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I suspect that many of us have thought about it at one time or another, but the thoughts of what damage suicide does to loved ones, especially children, stopped me. Work to solve the situation that has made you suicidal. It probably won't be easy, but nothing is insurmountable.
2007-07-21 01:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by BeeGee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people do, but first off, if you are contemplating it tonight, call someone, please, 911. If you are just curious, sure, I have. It has resulted in multiple stays in a psych hospital(well 2 stays), all before I was 22. I graduated college though, went on. I still struggle, its just rough, I felt, and sometimes still feel, inadequate, you just have to find something to hold on to---Mine is that I can end, at 24, with nothing leaving a mark
2016-05-19 02:14:42 · answer #9 · answered by ilana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, I've even thought of the many ways of doing it. It's the thought of my children that has prevented it. Don't do it!!
2007-07-21 01:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my stepmum commited suicide cause she had heavy depressions for many years, she did it and almost 10 years later, her mum and my dad still suffer from her ending her life. so yeah...i believe that god gave you this life for a reason and he also is the one who is supposed to end it.
2007-07-21 01:51:24 · answer #11 · answered by Nana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋