i can't leave the house right now as i have nowhere to go.
I want to leave him.
He thinks I am making it up. He always thinks I will stay with him regardless.
2007-07-21 01:10:23 · 22 answers · asked by uk.housewife 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this is how:
1. stop having sex with him
2. stop cookin/cleaning fot him or after him
3. stop calling him those per names you used to call him i.e. baby, honey, sweeti and begin calling him by his name.
4. stop sleeping in the same bed with him
5. don't make yourself available like you used to
6. dont call him as much when is out at work or with friends or dont answer his phone call alll the time
7. begin a life of your own i.e. go hang out with friends and stuff
8. stop kissing him (french or otherwise)
9. offer to pay half the rent and all other bills until you find a place of your own.
10. again stop sleeping with him
soon or later, he will ask you why you are being this way and acting different and so there is your chance to explain to him "well, buddy i been tellig you it is over and you havent been getting it. it is over. u get it now?" dont be that cruel, but u know what i mean, right? break out of the couple's habit.
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2007-07-21 01:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by mama2be 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you stay there he will think you are joking because if you really wanted to leave you would walk out of the door with a few things and go and stay with anyone. Are there any friends or family members you can stay with temporarily? They will understand and it will help you get back on your feet and give you time to make other arrangements. I would advise you to leave though, as staying is not allowing you to walk from the relationship and you will remain unhappy staying there if ts not where you want to be. The first step is the hardest one-but once you have walked out the front door and realise you can get on with the rest of your life you will feel relieved and happy. Good luck xxx
2007-07-21 08:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by peroxide.pixie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well to begin with... If this is his place, you haven't the means of moving and no where to go...Why would you tell him? Sounds a little stupid to me. What if he takes you at your word and says, "OK leave now? " There wouldn't be a thing that you could do besides leave. I would drop the entire issue until you found the way to move, then do it. Leaving behind a note that says...I told you.
2007-07-21 09:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem- i am now just getting myself money together and stuff organised to move on and make a clean break- i still love him but it will never work and we both know it- but you have to be firm- make the plans and then just go. Let him think what he wants in the meantime.
2007-07-21 11:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by Ellie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to work towards get a place to stay.
Then come to him and tell him that the things are not working out and that you want to start a new life.
So, you are moving out!
Upon finding a place to go, you will really know if you are ready to end this relationship!
2007-07-21 08:51:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to save up your money and leave him. He does not believe you, because you are still there. If you really wanted out of this relationship you would find away out of it. No one can be stuck some where they do not want to be.
2007-07-21 13:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by Cristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking and start acting.
Get a job or training to get you independent.
Don't argue, don't fight. Just get things in motion so that you can leave. Let him do what he wants. Do what you need to do and don't talk about it anymore. You can't control him and don't need to. Worry about getting your own life going the way you want it to. Then when you have the money saved, go. Do not get pregnant. Best of luck.
2007-07-21 08:14:50 · answer #7 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Give him constantly swearing, ignorance and try and block him out. Get another boyfriend in the mean time say that you are single!
Why dont you stay at your mother's or dad's?
Dont worry he will eventually get over you!
2007-07-21 09:09:54 · answer #8 · answered by DaisysMumma13 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be firm. tell him its over and that you can still be friends (if you want to be friends with him still) and explain to him why youre breaking up with. if he still thinks you're making it up..
i think this guy is a jerk and he's just using you. leave him. if he won't listen to you, stay away from him
and if you are going out, dont go alone. go in groups.
2007-07-21 10:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you move out, you haven't split up. Find somewhere else to go somehow even if its someone else's sofa or spare room.
2007-07-21 18:27:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋