Marriage & Divorce - 11 July 2007

Do you like the idea of having a "nooner" - ya know... the kind when your hubby comes for lunch and the menu includes you in bed ???

Have you ever had one ???

2007-07-11 05:59:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-11 05:58:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was in a relationship for eighteen years, one day she ended it by having me thrown out. She never talked to me again and now we are divorced. I do not know know what to do with myself, I miss her and the kids. I heard she she was having an affair and has since moved on with the guy. She does anything she can to keep me from seeing the kids. They would rather be with the other guy as well. I think I am going to move out of state and disappear....

2007-07-11 05:57:58 · 20 answers · asked by AzNative89 2

I am 30 years old, single and not in any serious relationship and haven't had one in over 5 years. I would like to get married but how will i know who is right for me because no one is perfect or exactly what i want. I am use to breaking up with men when things are not going good. I heard that you have to be in a relationship for a few years before you can make a decision to marry.

2007-07-11 05:54:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like Ive been married about a year now. [in september] and I love it. currently I am an army wife. couldnt be more happy. but like when we drive past like cemetarys and stuff all i can think about is i dont want to leave.. ya know im scared. sorry Its just i duno it just 'erks' me about leaving and being seprated. plus ya know i have a 3 year old lil girl. is it now that im finally settled.. that im thinking about this.. if anyone can help thank you.

2007-07-11 05:54:01 · 6 answers · asked by jbairswifey9706 1

Im always thinking something going to happen to my children, sister, brother, and grandchild. This happens daily to the point I had to go to the doctor. I thought i was having a heart attack. I always have this feeling something gonna happen. I have been this way for months. Whats going on with me?

2007-07-11 05:42:42 · 21 answers · asked by twisty 1

im not competing with his wife nor kids, im not even forcing him to leave his family, all i want is a few time with him, thats all, i know that he loves me, hes just sticking up with his wife because of the kids.. am i a homewrecker???

2007-07-11 05:42:15 · 42 answers · asked by confused chick 1

Every so often, I have dreams at night, about the first guy I had a crush on when I was a teenager.

I had a beautiful dream about him last night. I haven't thought about him for quite awhile now, but then I go to bed last night and dream about him. Now can't get him out of of my mind.

I would never ever pursue a relationship. Believe it or not, I am happily married, but I can't help what I dream at night.

Does anyone else still have dreams of their past crushes/loves? Is it normal?

2007-07-11 05:39:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I shave "down there" (if ya know what I mean). My wife enjoys it, and she is the reason I do it. I leave about a 2 inch patch right above my p**is. That means that there is no hair on each side of the patch. About another 2 inches on each side. What I have been thinking about is tattooing that area on each side. I am not sure what a good tattoo would be. It would have to be something that could go on each side and fit right. What would think if your man wanted to do this, and what suggestions do you have for me?

2007-07-11 05:33:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

This issue is really causing problems in my marriage. We have been married for three years, but we are both fet up with the marriage. Read some of my previous posts to see why. In a nutshell, my husband has cheated on me, twice technically, he has a history of lying and he is addicted to porn. Why I still stick around is beyond me, but I can say that I actually love this man. However, he is very stubborn, manipulative and rebellious for an almost 29 year old. If I say I don't like something then he is going to make sure he does it anyway. One of our biggest problems is that when he goes out with his single friends (majority are single), he USUALLY stays out late, like until after 2 a.m. and one time he came home at almost 4 a.m. No, he doesn't do it all the time but when he goes out he usually does not come home until after 1 a.m. almost 2 a.m. His excuse, the single guys weren't ready to come home or they don't leave to go out until 10:30 or 11:00 p.m. I have told him ...

2007-07-11 05:32:19 · 24 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

My wife and I have 2 couples we spend a lot of time with, we have all discussed swinging in a joking manner but never serious. I would like to try it, but don't know how to get past the joking stage, I am sure none of us have ever swung before.

We can call the couples A/B and C/D.

From the joking it seems my wife would go with the flow, she has said she is most likely to do something with A. A would be quite willing to do something with my wife or with D. D seems to be open to the idea. B is completely against it. And it is hard to tell with C but I think he would want to do something with my wife.

So basically 5 out of 6 seem interested, any suggestions on going further? Preferably answers from people with experience, not interested in peoples opinion on the merits of swinging.

2007-07-11 05:20:07 · 32 answers · asked by tommyguard3 3

I love him, but have no trust and respect for him. Its been 9 months and I thought it would get better, but I still have days where I resent him, and everyday is filled with ZERO trust and respect. I fear that I cannot go on like this. I thought it would work, but I am second guessing my choice to stay married to him. I'm tired of "babysitting" my phone bill, and bank statements, I'm tired of wondering what he's 'really' doing, or where he's "really" at, when for all I know, he is true to his word, but in my head, I doubt it.

For the most part, he has been wonderful since. There are alot of days when life is good and it seems like we are newly weds. But all of what I said earlier haunts the back of my mind and I am sick and tired of being sick and tired.

Am I giving it enough time? Especially when he has tried so hard? I'm really confused and I just dont think love is enough anymore. Should I wait a little longer to see if it comes back, or walk away now?

2007-07-11 04:59:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my husband are having a disagreement I always use foilwrap on my windows to keep the heat out in the summer and I think it works but my husband thinks not. Is there anybody out there who has tried this and finds that it works?

2007-07-11 04:58:21 · 9 answers · asked by jayiron00 1

This baord is filled with baby mommas that got knocked up by some scum bag that doesn't want to marry them and complaining that they need more money and support? How can they afford computers on welfare?

2007-07-11 04:57:19 · 25 answers · asked by Just_the_facts 1

9 times out of 10, it's because the man cannot deal with the woman. These women usually act like bitches. Some woman use the child as leverage towards the man. ("if you don't get back with me, you cant see your child"). Some women put conditions as to how the man can see the child and the man doesnt want to deal with it. I know a woman that would not let the dad see the child unless she was there to supervise. This was for no reason. Just to be spiteful. Although there are some men that don't want to have anything to do with their child for no reason at all, there are also dads that do want to be a part of their childs life but the mom makes it difficult.

2007-07-11 04:34:51 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm from NY moved to Atl. One of my coworker (22) did everything from going on a radio show (to win a ring) to planned her own a romantic trip just so her bf can propose. Her bf every told her why would he propose when she was the one who planned the trip and something he loves her and sometime he can't stand her. She hads tantrums when one of her friends are engaged. Went on sites where you can dress your wedding party, picks out dresses & ring. Hangs pics of herself holding a friends baby while sitting next to her BF in her cube and on mysapce. She always saying all her friends are married. Her bf finnnnnally proposed this pass Sat 7/07& the wedding date is (get this) oct/07. Girl has every plan out already. The older women are encouraging this.
She's just one example of this behavior I've encountered living down here so I just wondered if thats is how some are conditioned to be. I know every little girl dreams of their wedding but this is a little much.

2007-07-11 04:33:38 · 15 answers · asked by Akasha 3

2007-07-11 04:25:36 · 24 answers · asked by Jen-Jen 6

My boyfriend recently moved to a different city from me for reasons unrelated to our relationship. We discussed the move in detail and both agreed there was more opportunity for him in a larger metro area. He moved in with a woman, I know her and approve of her, until he is on his feet again. It bothers me a little but I trust him and I trust her. Still, though I know it is a wise economical solution, I get that little jealous feeling because, well, she becomes an important person in his life.

He came to visit me last weekend before starting his new job this Monday. We had a great time together and he called me Sunday night to tell me he made it home safely. I've not heard from him since. My feelings are badly hurt, that he didn't call to tell me how his new job was going, or just to say hello. He has had a lot on him recently and I don't want to be negative, but I'm sued to hearing from him, either my phone or via YM everyday. I'm jealous and hurt. Please help me.

2007-07-11 04:25:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok look i am not stereotyping, and it is not just my grandma, i have three good sisters....lets be honest, "our", all of our grandmas lived differently back in the day, putting family first, sacrificing to take care of their husbands and children, now some still do that today but statistically speaking it has decreased quite a bit..i am wondering why? i am not sexiest.. i actually am a physical therapist and work in a nursing home so i know the history of my patients and their lives...i can compare, not being shallow or mad...this is general

2007-07-11 04:24:04 · 14 answers · asked by amayseng 3

My wife and I have a great marriage and really open communication. About a month ago she confessed a fantasy about being with another woman. We have talked a lot about it, watched some girl on girl movies and had fun with the whole fantasy. Last night she asked me if it would be okay for the two of us to chat online with another woman and see how things go...her way of taking the fantasy to the next level. I still feel okay with the whole thing. I'm just wondering what everyone else advice would be in my situation?

2007-07-11 04:22:40 · 36 answers · asked by Jeff S 1

yes we had sex. a few weeks later i kept asking the nature of our relationship..he said "i'll call u tonite" he never called. that was 3 weeks ago. i emailed him recently to see what happened..he didnt answer. should i call him? why/why not?

2007-07-11 04:14:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Selfish? not being mean, but honestly, why are women so self absorbed and why does everything revolve around them? what happened, think back to our grandmothers who used to raise 6 kids, take care of the home and cooking and be there to take care of her husband and family? honestly look back and think now how things have changed. now we girls dancing on tables, flashing boobs and getting genital piercings..How do you think God feels about this?

2007-07-11 04:12:08 · 31 answers · asked by amayseng 3

fake their emotions if they don't have to?it is just strange to be able to fake an emotions?it is something natural..from within...and why would people expect us to please them if we just don't fake?i guess those people are called fakers......they aren't true tp themselves i find them pitiful........

2007-07-11 04:06:30 · 9 answers · asked by truth set free 1

My husband and i had a huge fight last week about how we both were not happy in our marriage. He was not happy with my attitude towards him. And was not happy with him being too busy to give me any attention. For a whole year we held these feelings in hopeing that things on their own would change. But it came out a last week during an argument. We were upset and crying. And were talking about divorce. But since we both still love each other, we decided to work it out. My husband said that he feels releaved and happy now that he has let that out into the open. Things are different now. We dont argue anymore, we are much nicer to each other. But now, we hardly speak to each other. We still tell each other that we love each other when we say bye and good night. Last night he gave me a quick kiss good night. And this morning a quick peck bye. Last night he came up to me and held my face to kiss me. It was nice. We laughed and were playful after that. Will things get better?

2007-07-11 04:02:17 · 22 answers · asked by DDee 1

2007-07-11 03:53:56 · 8 answers · asked by hockeymum_22 1

Everyone knows that trust can make or break a relationship. I'm just curious how other people got past the trust issues. Please share your story. Thank you all.

2007-07-11 03:49:20 · 21 answers · asked by Neica 3

I'm not trying to be funny or hateful towards women. And not all women are like this but why do SOME women feel that it's the mans sole responsibility to provide for the children. Shouldnt it be 50/50 since both parents had the child? Also, why do women refer to the child as "your child" (the mans child) or "his child" when they are refering to support? 9 times ot of 10, you'll hear a woman say "he needs to support his child". You should always refer to a child as "OUR CHILD" never his or my child.

2007-07-11 03:45:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had thought for a while that he was lying to me, but couldn't confirm it, and if I made a comment about it, he'd change the subject or just avoid it altogether. I asked him upfront if he was married, and he said no. He had given me something of his when we first met that after I thought he was married I wanted to give back to him, he said he didn't expect it back. This is something that you wouldn't just toss or give away. It is personal and I do not want the reminder. I told him that I would mail it, or he could come get it. He said he would come and get it, but never showed. I have his home address, phone number, I know his wife's name, and his son's name. If you were a woman who's husband was doing this, would you want to know? They have a wedding anniversay coming up the end of July. 19 years. Would you want to know after all that time? I dont want to destroy his marriage, but it seriously bothers me that he did this. Should I just wait for Karma? Seriously answers only please!!

2007-07-11 03:34:31 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband is very short tempered &get upset for silly reasons,when quarrels with me he always threatens to eat sweets(he is diabitic). he is very careless about his health.we are trying for child.how to deal with him?i love him so much.
PLEASE GIVE YOUR ADVICE

2007-07-11 03:33:34 · 26 answers · asked by ms 1

I was recently out of town, and discovered that less than 30 minutes after I left, my husband was on Myspace emailing another woman. He told her I had just left, so he was trying to get into trouble. She of course, emailed him back. He then said, "Yeah, some people can't handle freedom, so they get in trouble instead." What do you think I should do? He has not emailed her since I returned home, although she continues to post comments to his account. He is acting strangely loving towards me, being very attentive, etc... In the past, sometimes he was very distant. I haven't said a word, I'm just monitoring the situation. Any advice is helpful.

2007-07-11 03:28:03 · 14 answers · asked by wondering 3