yes we had sex. a few weeks later i kept asking the nature of our relationship..he said "i'll call u tonite" he never called. that was 3 weeks ago. i emailed him recently to see what happened..he didnt answer. should i call him? why/why not?
2007-07-11 04:14:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The chances that that guy is dead is about one in ten billion. But, if you really want to know, why don't you just drive by? Or call from a pay phone and hang up.
He could be married, or he could just be playing the field. Either way, he's done with whatever the two of you had.
Not answering what is the 'nature of our relationship' is the same as answering the question...some questions are answered not by what people say, but by what they don't say, and I'd say he hasn't said a lot.
2007-07-11 04:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow some of you are really answer nasty hon I am sorry that he was a pig . I would not call him you sound like you are smart so leave him you will find some one better I swear . And one more thing do you really want to chase him he should be chasing you your the queen . So good luck . P.s to all the girls out there I tell my gf keep the candy shop closed for a least 3 months I know it hard .....
2016-05-19 09:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by amie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He used you, don't call, you will make a fool of yourself, the fact that he has not bothered to call you or reply shows how much he cares and respects you, put it down to experience and forget the loser. It makes you look desperate if you keep chasing. Next time maybe don't sleep with the guy til you know that your relationship has a future.
2007-07-11 04:20:02 · answer #3 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweet....where do I start? I could be wrong, but from what you've written, I'd say he had a fling and now doesn't want anything to do with you. If you emailed and he was truly dead, wouldn't it have bounced back? Either way, I'd cut my losses and move on, he's not worth it.
2007-07-11 04:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by Yankee Micmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your dignity and dont call...he's obviously not interested in anything further than the physical aspect of your relationship and when you started hinting that you would like to take it further he "disappeared"....I say take a hint.
2007-07-11 04:19:12 · answer #5 · answered by Marie Catherine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you already ask this?
The guy wants nothing to do with you. He used you for sex, then bailed. Now if the sex had been better for him, rest assured he would've called you. Get over it and move on. If he wanted to talk to you or see you again, he'd make an effort. Don't dwell on it; it will make you crazier...JESUS!
2007-07-11 04:18:29 · answer #6 · answered by ron-D 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think the answer is quite obvious. Chalk it up to you just wanting alittle sexual relief and you had fun. Apparently thats what he has done. The next time...well.....don't give yourself so freely and perhaps you won't feel so used....so dirty...so manipulted and cast aside.
We all learn from experiences...right?
No harm...no foul and you're no worse the wear for it. just alittle wiser.
2007-07-11 04:46:17 · answer #7 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No don't call.. you already emailed ..plus if you call he'll probally ignore it or has already changed his number... It will just make you feel worse..Its better not knowing if he's dead or alive..or possibly married.. He hit it and quit it..and you deserve better..
2007-07-11 04:20:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing he's alive and well, and just choosing not to answer you. It's not a coincidence that you asked him what his intentions were and then never saw him again.
2007-07-11 04:26:36 · answer #9 · answered by Magaroni 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't call, he got what he wanted from you, sex.Besides, if he died he wouldn't answer the phone anyway lol.
2007-07-11 08:59:00 · answer #10 · answered by lillulu460 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋