Marriage & Divorce - 2 June 2007

I am in love with a married man, his marriage is not what it used to be, and i am sure he loves me, he even wanted to end that marriage because of me.. I tried not to fall in love, and sometimes i feel like a b.tch because he is cheating on his wife with me... He has no sexual life with her, they hardly ever talk, and they're avoiding each other.. What should i do? They have no kids. I cant just stop loving him!!!

2007-06-02 07:24:03 · 37 answers · asked by WhatAnIdiotIam 1

I have been married for 3 months, but I admit that I love and miss my ex-boyfriend TOO MUCH. We were together for 4 years, but my ex stalled so much and always changed his mind to get married, that it was hard to assume we would ever get married. He hurt me alot when he always changed his mind.
I moved back to my country because of Visa issues, and starting hanging out with an old boyfriend. After 5 months of dating, he asked me to marry him, i wasnt sure but said yes. I didnt want to waste anymore of my life being single and "waiting" for my boyfriend to marry me.

I know my ex is devastated (we never officially brokeup, and I feel guilty) and loves me so much. He tried to stop the wedding and came to my country but I was too confused to change my mind. I love him too and miss him. I am SOOO confused. I THINK I am happy, but deep down I know I should have waited for my ex, but the reality is that I am married.
What should I do? Will my feelings change?This is terrible.

2007-06-02 07:07:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

And look younger than her age, and have many men in a tow, and had several STDs and is still a "poor, wronged woman", and managed to get several men at once to pay for her treatments and persuaded them that they were to "blame". And if you say something against her, you are "mad and jealous of her", and she was a "victim"? And she wiggles and giggles, and make all men pay: asked at least five of them to give her money to buy a "computer", and collected about 8 thousands US already this way.

2007-06-02 06:09:21 · 46 answers · asked by e 2

2007-06-02 06:02:28 · 24 answers · asked by Dee Cakes 2

Been seperated from hubby 1.5 yrs apparently during the seperaion he got himself into major debt .He went through all of his saving,maxed out his credit card,he took 85%percent of our furniture,and emptied our joint account few months back.He has no job at present claiming he needed a break to find himself and so i cant get any money from him in the divorce?Is this leagal?

2007-06-02 05:40:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-02 05:23:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been living in Maryland for a little over 2 years now. After 5 years of marriage I found out my spouse's been cheating on me and I have plenty of proves for it. we don't have any financial issues except for one thing, my spouse has a $45k school loans and my name is not on these loans, it's only the spouse's name. Only $20k of this debt was acquired during the 5 years of marriage. So, if I go to court to file for divorce based on committing adultry, and it will be easily proven, will I still have to pay half of these school debt? we don't own any houses nor have any kids, so there is nothing else really to fight over excepts for these school loans. I just asked this questions but I didn't include the state where the divorce will happen, and I was hoping may be if I include that I can get more specific answers.

2007-06-02 05:06:23 · 5 answers · asked by anoia 1

Hi All ,
I Like This Guy. Who I've Known since last Year September But I've never had the courage to ask him out. Now Ive seen hin go through two relatioships with him being dumped. And Realise how stupid I was not to take a chance. Now I've plucked up some courage But as he is not one of my closest friends , how do I bring it up? I've tried asking him to the cinema and kept an open relationship But He's always busy!
How do I get his attention or (I feel as if he doesn't make an effort to see me) Make an effort sometimes?
If You have any helpful advice , please say!
Thanks.

2007-06-02 05:04:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Married 14 years, 2 kids, been through counseling before. Says he loves me. We don't have sex. Haven't for years...couple of times a year doesn't count as sex for me. I put on 30 lbs. during the 14 years. Sex stopped before the weight gain. He just doesn't seem sexual to me and yet he goes on line and flirts with women??? When I mention divorce, he gets very upset. Says he doesn't want it. Says that it's not just him, that I'm the problem too. I've just never met a guy who holds out when it comes to sex. I used to love sex, but now feel resigned to the fact that it won't happen, so I won't initiate that much anymore. It's hard to get blown off all the time. The big picture is that he's provided for us. I've been able to stay home all these years and take care of the kids and home. If there's anything I need, it's never been a problem to get it, he just doesn't seem to get that it's depressing being married to a man who won't show me attention.

2007-06-02 04:50:13 · 21 answers · asked by Mary A 1

2007-06-02 04:40:31 · 9 answers · asked by missy 1

On a very general note ....
if given a chance to start afresh ... what would u feel is being better ???

2007-06-02 04:32:56 · 17 answers · asked by shukan i 2

Basically can his ex- girl friend seek chilsupport from me even though she reicieves support from him

2007-06-02 04:14:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Honestly, how many times should you let it go when somebody you love so much continues to do things that cause you so much pain? My husband and I have been argueing a lot lately and I express to him how he hurts my heart when he says mean things to me like "I don't want to be with you anymore," or "I want a divorce" and then leaves the house mad. Then a little while later he's calling me saying that he is sorry for what he said and he did not mean it he was just angry. Seriously, I should not have to worry about that just because we have a disagreement about something. It's as though he wants me to keep doing what I do as his wife and just shut up about the wrong things he does.
Only serious advice please. My heart is in PAIN.

2007-06-02 03:57:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

These are a few of mine: Inconsistency, lack of trust, history of being unfaithful...

I've always believed everyone deserves at least one chance to show positive behavior changes. As a woman, I usually go with my gut feeling then press further to get more answers before making a decision to end the relationship.

Interested in hearing more from others on their "red flags" and when they decide to call it quits?

2007-06-02 03:46:16 · 13 answers · asked by OMG 1

Why is there such a negative stigma attached to being single? It is 2007; I don't really think it has anything to do with thinking that a person is not attractive or endearing enough to find a mate, yet there is still this stigma attached to those who are not married. Why?

2007-06-02 03:25:04 · 4 answers · asked by abcd098 2

i cant go to the police, my husband is a police officer, my husband is out right now , should i leave?

2007-06-02 03:08:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-02 02:45:22 · 6 answers · asked by mark o 1

Sex is completely different than love! I could love my husband completely, but not want to have sex with him at all.

2007-06-02 02:13:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have asked a question 3 times in the past couple days. I got some good answers and have chosen to trust and stay w/my bf of 5 yrs. In a nut shell, we have been faithful this whole time and he is a wonderful man. Over memorial day weekend we got super drunk, and fell asleep upstairs in my friends house. He slept walked all the way downstairs to my friend on the couch and touched her down there.she was wearing a t-shirt and boxers.she woke up to the grab and said when she saw him there she was shocked. he was out of it! she wasnt even sure if he was awake.she told him to go to bed and they told me after a couple of days.my bf cried his eyes out to me in shame and embarassment, he couldnt believe he did this, he cried in fear of losing me.b/c we have both worked so hard to get where we r now after these yrs. my question is how can i accept this and move on and not think about this every time i wake up or lay down or anything.,i love my friend & my bf & i dont want things to be awkward!

2007-06-02 01:59:08 · 25 answers · asked by Life....it blows! 3

2007-06-02 01:54:53 · 17 answers · asked by virgox 1

I am an Indian citizen, hindu by religion, living and working in London and wish to get married to a muslim female in delhi. Am i required to travel to delhi twice, both at the time of presenting the notice of intention to get married and at the time of solemnization of marriage? Can i send the signed and attested notice of marriage which may be presented by my wife to be and thereafter come down to India only for the solemnization?

2007-06-02 01:14:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-02 00:44:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

well my husband did write to his ex telling her he will alwasy love her and if she didn't go to anotehr countary they will be having family together and that was a year a go? i just found out now. And he is great dad and ahusband he never contatc her she is has baby with another man now and my husband and I do everything together and i know his life will come to end if leave i counts on me on every thing but finding this email who was sent a year a go while i was 4 mon pregnant and married for 8 months destroying my trust to him. i'm lost don't know what to do?

2007-06-02 00:29:33 · 7 answers · asked by Leyla 2