my boyfriend left me for another girl but still wants to have sex w/me?

Question

i won't sleep w/ him But how do i tell him to F*CK off

I won't sleep w/ him. But how do i tell him to F*CK off ? I know he's a piece of sh*t
Thanks for the love on some of the respondes

Answer 1

What is your question?

Are you SERIOUSLY considering this arrangement?

It sounds like your EX-boyfriend wants to "have his cake and eat it too"

Have enough respect for yourself to tell him where he can "stick it" (literally and figuratively) and move on to someone that wants ALL of you!

Answer 2

Yeah of course he does, then he can have both of you and feel like a fabulous stud when in reality he is a fabulous wanker! Don't do it! He will never actually come back to you, or respect you. Plus who knows what STD's he or this other girl may have that will spread to you. Plus if he's willing to do two girls at the same time, how do you know there aren't others out there that he's slutting around with. Plus, what if you get pregnant? What a classy thing to tell your children: "Your daddy got me knocked up when he was actually another woman's boyfriend. I know you don't know him because he hasn't been around, but he was really good in bed."

Think about it, there is no future in being with such a jerk! There are plenty of unattached god-looking, nice guys out there so go find one!

Answer 3

Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free????

I hope that the next time you have a boyfriend you think twice before you get "that" involve with him. A wedding date and a big stone come before ANYTHING!!!

But foremost, knowing that person for at least one year to make sure that this is the person we want to spend the rest of our lives with.
Being Old fashion is not boring. It's actually cool and good guys will respect you for it.

Answer 4

Don't degrade yourself or womankind. Its time to stand up for yourself and not be a doormat. Men will continue to treat women badly as long as we keep going along with things like this. We teach people how to treat us, if you let him use you, he will never change and treat other women in this manner. You owe it to yourself and all other women to say no way! Have self respect and others will respect you too. It is better to be alone then to be used and abused. You also may be missing out on a great guy by letting this loser in your bed and keeping you on a string. LOVE YOURSELF ENOUGH TO TELL HIM NO!

Answer 5

Tell him no and let him no it isn't right and that he knows it !! He wants his cake and eat it too? Don't think so. What kind of man is he that he would drop you for another girl and then still want to have sex with you and probably with her, too? Wonder if she knows that and how long she would put up with him if she found out?

Have respect for yourself. If you don't, no one will. He isn't worth the time of day ~ move on.

Answer 6

Where's the question? He's an as*hole... And if you're contemplating sex w/ him or did have sex with him then you're weak, pathetic and definately should learn to respect yourself and not waste your time on losers. Don't beat yourself up, just move on and enjoy your life.

Answer 7

You could tell him you are going to swear out a protection warrant with the sherriff if he doesn't leave you alone. A better idea is to get a new boyfriend that could beat the crap out of him. That would do it! :-)


Kent in SD

Answer 8

I agree with the first poster... why are you with him?? Just by reading the question I can tell you GET OUT NOW! You dont want an abusive guy in your life. He wont change no matter what he says! Good luck...

Answer 9

he wants the best of both worlds and is a selfish pig. Turn the tables on him and say you would just love to but sorry you have someone ha ha ha

Answer 10

don't do it hun..you can't no matter how much you want to..he is using you and u must demand respect and stick up for yourself..you deserve so much better and a nice man will come along someday who will treat u like the princess you are