well my husband did write to his ex telling her he will alwasy love her and if she didn't go to anotehr countary they will be having family together and that was a year a go? i just found out now. And he is great dad and ahusband he never contatc her she is has baby with another man now and my husband and I do everything together and i know his life will come to end if leave i counts on me on every thing but finding this email who was sent a year a go while i was 4 mon pregnant and married for 8 months destroying my trust to him. i'm lost don't know what to do?
2007-06-02 00:29:33 · 7 answers · asked by Leyla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I had talk with him and every thing he does proves that he loves me and he said he is willing to do anything to get my trust bac. Well he said he layed to her. And he will do whatever it takes to change what I think. Also, I was there one day when he told her he did move in and she needs to stop calling him.
2007-06-04 00:10:24 · update #1
Get some counseling to sort out this mess.
2007-06-02 00:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone lies to us either in a marriage or friendship it is hard to ever believe them again. We can go on with the relationship, but in the back of your mind you will always wonder if what they say are lies. Trust is hard to gain back with someone. You need to find out where your relationship stands with your husband and if you think it has a chance then by all means keep it going. Just be careful you don't get sucked into lies and deceit with anyone. You deserve better than that.
2007-06-02 03:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U will never fully recover from this it will stay with u as long as ur with this man but it is ur choice to move on and make the best of what is going on now, dont hold on to the past it will get u no where marriages are going to go through some stuff but u are a strong woman if u hang in there and make it work
2007-06-02 00:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by cutememyself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not only what he says, but what he does. I would still confront him and have to talk about it. He should want to talk about it and he should be going out of his way to change the way you think.
2007-06-02 01:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all tell him you found the "E" then ask him what he meant by it all. then ask him how he feels about it now, and you.
Maybe you both need some consoling.
2007-06-02 01:53:52 · answer #5 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he better shape up or you will ship him out!!
2007-06-02 00:32:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he "lied" to his ex-wife? Eh, eh?
2007-06-02 00:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋