i cant go to the police, my husband is a police officer, my husband is out right now , should i leave?
2007-06-02 03:08:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave and put a restraining order on him. I'm sure the other officiers will understand what he's like if he does drugs and deals them. Plus he probably doesn't have anyone who respects him anyways for the crime he has committed. Get Out as soon as possible before he commits a bigger crime!!!!!
2007-06-02 03:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by 24Special 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like said when I answered the other question Take the dog & go. You need to leave ASAP. Find some friends you know that will hide you. I'm sure he probaly knows some of your friends or family members. Find the friends he dosen't know & go thereBy the way how is he getting away with being a drug dealer and a drug addict if he is a cop? Now I work with cops on a daily basis & i know that they do ramdom drug screens on the officers. Is he a beat cop, a dective, VICE or what. Does he work as a NARC Officer
2007-06-02 03:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by sadtiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At what level;local, county, state,or federal. He eeds to be turned in as this is not a very good situation and is using his badge to abuse the system and most importantly you. You can always contact the Internal Affairs div or District Attorneys office and do it now! He needs to be taken off the streets and away from you. You can alo contact a local womans help group for help too. Get hold of an attorney too so there are many avenues to turnto to get out of this. If he is local or county contact the state police. Good luck
2007-06-02 03:23:07 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell anyone where you're going until you are totally safe. I hope you get what you need and I'm happy for you. Don't give up if you get down because you might start to get depressed. In the long run, it is the best for you and your doggy. Just keep looking at your dog and remember he or she loves you. Don't concentrate on anything but doggy and family who treat you well. Keep your eyes on friends who try to help you. By all means find a support in those people who are going to shelter you. I know you will make it if you can do these things.
2016-05-19 03:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immediatly call 911 and ask to talk to a domestic violence officer. Or call your local United Way office who can tell you where there is a safe house to go to.
If you need more time gather your things right now and get the heck out of there. Go to a friends, fire station, anywhere you feel safe and have more time to call.
The police are a band of "brothers" but they do not tolerate each other beating their wives. Domestic violence officers will not betray your trust.
What ever you do, get out of there IMMEDIATELY!
2007-06-02 03:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by Debette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave, pack only what you need, clothes, if you have kids do the same, get out of this situation honey, believe me it doesn't get any better, do not stay there for the sake of the kids, you are not doing them any favors. once he has hit you, it only gives him the power to do it again. i lived in a situation for 10 years,believe me honey it only gets worse. leave now, if you have to go to a shelter there are plenty out there that will help you. YOU are so much more worth this, then what you are going through.you can do it, and don't believe the old i am sorry it won't happen again, once he hits you, it will progress, one hit is one too many. leave as soon as you can, GOOD LUCK honey, from one who's been there.
2007-06-02 03:29:23 · answer #6 · answered by loyal-tea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can leave. There are plenty of places that can help you. If you really want to get out of the situation you can. Look in the phone book and get the number of a refuge or anything and they will help. Empower yourself and you will get away. No-one deserves to be treated badly...but it is up to you to put a stop to it and do something. So make a call, it will be answered and you will get the help you need. Good luck
2007-06-02 03:17:27 · answer #7 · answered by DyShaNic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what r u waiting for. go away don't contact your family if u got friends in other state thats your best bet. file a report about your husband before u leave send a letter to the police station not his though try and contact internal affairs.
2007-06-02 03:16:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out.
if you have kids, take them.
he is a police officer and a drug dealer? real nice.
get out. look out for your safety. if he is a police officer, he could hide killing you.
get out! now... go.
2007-06-02 03:11:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out right now, don't tell anyone where you're going. Fill up your gas tank and drive as far away as you can, until you're out of the reach of his precinct.
GO, girl. Get up off the computer and go NOW!
2007-06-02 03:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋