Marriage & Divorce - 27 May 2007

For the past month, my man and I haven't gotten to spend any time together "just us" between work, family, school, or being sick...I really really miss him.

Any suggestions on how to get his attention and make "us" a priority?

2007-05-27 07:30:56 · 3 answers · asked by hny_rstd 3

my husband is in boot camp when he gets out will the army pay to move us and our things

2007-05-27 07:24:08 · 7 answers · asked by BOBBIEANN 2

2007-05-27 07:10:15 · 9 answers · asked by HITME 1

My husband's parents dislike me and are always butting in, he can't accept that I'm an introvert, we are just about as opposite as two people can be. I don't know if I can deal with it anymore. I love him but why must I change everything I am to fit him?

2007-05-27 07:01:33 · 12 answers · asked by Stacye S 3

I answered a question a lady had about her husband's "sexist" behaviour(Don't anyone condemn me for the way I spell this; in Australia we spell it b-e-h-a-v-i-o-u-r) and my answer was at great variance with everyone else's. My stance is that I appreciate the differences between men and women and appreciate the fact that men and women are differently-abled. Women have the allotment of domestic life because that is where their inborn talents lie; I'm not saying every woman, but most. Also, I believe that serene domestic life is what most women long for. As much as the past is harangued for its treatment of women, it is also looked back upon with wistful nostalgia. Inversely, I believe each sex has its weaknesses; in particular I believe that men are weak when it comes to being faithful, that it is natural for men to have affairs, and that it is made out to be more of an issue than it needs to be. I have yet to be faithful and doubt I ever will; I accept it. Any thoughts?

2007-05-27 06:53:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you didn't end up with the person, no need to answer.

2007-05-27 06:25:10 · 4 answers · asked by franj 2

Why doesn't he doesn't accept the idea of me getting a vibrator?

2007-05-27 06:17:16 · 8 answers · asked by OOkie 1

... that a married friend of yours was having an affair with your (unmarried) crush?

2007-05-27 06:00:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband likes to bring up stuff about my past. Things that happened before we even started dating. He sometimes calls me out of my name because of the fact that I had a life before he came along. But he was also in a relationship with someone when we met. He also loves to down talk me in front of others, especially his mother. He makes me look like the bad guy and likes to tell all of our business to other people, whether it's his family or mine. When I asked him about this, he says its because he needs a "jury" around so that he can get other peoples opinion about our personal problems. And he has to be right about everything or a small discussion will turn into a huge argument until he has been proven right about something. It doesn't matter what it is just as long as hes right. He thinks that women have a place and we have been getting away with too much! He can stay out as long as he pleases, but the one time I go out for 2 hours, he's pissed. What is this about?

2007-05-27 05:47:49 · 28 answers · asked by anea 3

I recently separated from my partner. She now lives with the baby in the Czech Republic, I live in Germany (8 hrs car ride away). She maintains that it is not good for our baby to be 2 weeks (in the summer) away from her in a different environment/country. Any advice whether this is correct?

2007-05-27 05:34:42 · 11 answers · asked by annina_888 1

I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years now. We have a 4 year old together and both love her very much. I am just not in love anymore, I don't know if I ever truly was. I met him when I was 14, way too young to be in love or not, had a baby at 16 still way too young, and now that I'm 21, still young I know, but old enough to know this isn't the man I want to be with forever, He is a great man, loving father and nothing is wrong with him. I just know I don't truly love him and couldn't spend the rest of my life with him. I also feel that I maybe should stay becuase of the child. If I moved it would be about 1 1/2 hours away, back to my home town, and I want to do whats best for our daughter, but I don't want to stay in a loveless relationship. Any advise would truly be appreciated. Thanks.

2007-05-27 05:23:14 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

if your boyfriend had another girls name on his body should he get it taken of?

2007-05-27 05:22:12 · 15 answers · asked by holla 2

when they are not or never have been married? i dont think its right! i think its kind of insulting to compare the two things.i know i am old fashioned but if he didnt marry you -you are not a wife and dont deserve the title.what is it that makes people feel they can say that when its just not true.childbirth makes you a mother not a wife! living together makes you a room mate but not a wife - there are big differences.

2007-05-27 05:01:57 · 9 answers · asked by dixie58 7

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2007-05-27 04:31:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-27 04:24:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-27 04:23:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Whenever I have caught a glimpse inside the trunk I've noticed several gift bags from expensive stores. (He is wealthy and not a shoplifter!)
He also will not allow a valet to have his key.
When I ask, he says he has money and important papers inside. . .

2007-05-27 04:12:01 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband of two years and I split up about 6 months ago. Over family issues with my daughter ( his dislike for her) anyway I have had no contact with him the entire time he has been gone. But for the last couple of weeks I have passed him on my route to work in the mornings. Not everyday but at least a couple of times a week. My route is very early and is in a rual area. In other words out of the way for him . It appears to me that he is making an effort to be on my route when he knows I will be there. I know this sounds petty but, I am just wanting other peoples opinions on why he may be doing this.

2007-05-27 03:11:36 · 22 answers · asked by Christie C 2

2007-05-27 02:40:27 · 1 answers · asked by randa467952000 1

{ in a nutshell }
My wife and i have been together 6 years married for 4... our son is 4 years old.. I found out at the first of the year ( Jan 2007 ) that she had been having an affair with my best friend for 8 month.. WOW. DAMN... WTF.... I think the fact that HURT the most was i had been friends with this dude since 1st grade... {KEY WORD : HAD}.. I have washed my hands of him and all his friends..
Now back to my wife .. I have forgivin both of them for the mistake that they made but how do i move on! Forgive and Forget , to me , are two different things. This first half of the year has been like an emotional rollorcoaster that flew off the tracks. I love my wife very deeply and i feel that she knows she made a misstake because she came to me asking forgivness and for us to continue our relationship. ?! Okay.... so..................... wtf.... now what...... I just dont know how to move on from this.....
Any one out there going through the same problem , or have any advise

2007-05-27 02:11:46 · 25 answers · asked by Skip 1

this is the question from ex wife solicitor.
weare dealingwith the acknowledgement of service for mrs & mr bloggs.in the meantime we are writing to you for your client proposals to resolve financial issues.is your client in a position to acquire our clients interest in the former matrimonial home or should the property be placed on the market for sale ?

2007-05-27 01:57:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

... and still prefers to talk to her ex in private, i.e. she goes into the next room. Should I be worried?

2007-05-27 01:55:52 · 10 answers · asked by nitro 2

went on a cruise...what are the chances THEY messed around together??? What are the chances they messed around with guys they met on the cruise??

2007-05-27 01:44:27 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-27 01:38:22 · 27 answers · asked by jinxed 1

My wife has a medical conditon that has made sex virtuallyimpossible for about 3 years. While she is taking steps to resolve this, I have recently come to the realization it will be years before this condition is resolved to the point where she is healthy enough to have sex. Unfortunatley most contact hurts her, so she can't even really cuddle or otherwise be intimate. I am a young (31) year old man, and while I do still love her this extended time without sex or intimacy is really wearing on our relationship. Yes I read the other issues that are posted, but most seemed to approach the problem from a standpoint of finding out what is wrong and fixing it.

We have a very good idea what is wrong, and it will eventually be fixed (I hope) by a surgery we are waiting for the insurance to approve. If this does not happen I really don't know what to do to support her and still feel like we have a relationship. Any Suggestions?

2007-05-27 01:34:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-27 01:32:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband is a right nasty piece of work,he drinks constantly today he went to work came home at 11 went straight to bed was suppose to go do my shopping instead got & said f you & your shopping & went to the pub,he doesnt bother the 2 kids.pinned me against a wall toddler went crazy he then just walked out & drove to the pub should i put lock on door & leave him out,the flat belongs to me

2007-05-27 01:17:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i found messages the other day to an ex "sex buddy" b4 we even got together 4 years ago in his phone. some varying to have a good day, to hey beautful. i dont know what to do. he says they are just friends. the only time im not with him is when im at work so i dont know wtf to do. any advice? Oh and i wasnt "checking " up on him he had gotten a new phone a few weeks ago and i had never seen it b4. (hes in military and was here for leave)

2007-05-27 01:03:57 · 14 answers · asked by Cassie K 2

dumps you so he can move on easily and not even care ? He is kind of like a Walkaway Joe and has done this to many many women. Its like a part of him is shut down to their cries or shuts down to their crying.

2007-05-27 00:33:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just to clarify on my earlier question. I started falling out of love with him before the financial issues and no I did not help him get into debt. The debts are from his overspending on a failing business, evern after getting advice from professionals and friends. I did try to stick with him until he could get himself on his feet, but he's not changing.

2007-05-27 00:27:51 · 15 answers · asked by dolphin123_22408 1