Marriage & Divorce - 27 May 2007

I slept with my brother inlaw, and destroyed his family and mine!
My son refused to accept being leftover and decided to sue us and protect his inheritance wit his aunts support HE WON EVERYTHING WE EARNED IN OUR MARRIAGE!

I lost everything and my son won everything the 8 town houses, the family home the rented home most of our assets!
Now we have to continue paying mortgages because court order all property to son on judgment!
Were going bankrupt now and we can't fight it because we have no money to pay atternorys fees, so judgment stands!

Court said our happiness was second to son happiness and we needed to suck it up for him, but he tells us both to go to hell!

I would love to hate my sister but it was her husband I cheated with so I guess revenge is sweet for her!

Funny thing is My Ex. and I started to talk and see each other and yes have sex almost every night no less!

We have nothing now and we couldn't be happier whats up with that?
I need family back how?

2007-05-27 15:08:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband cheated on me when I was 5 months pregnant and then left me for the other woman.

He said he would have left me anyways because of all the 'Problems' we were having (all of them to do with me but he never said a word about having these problems so we could address them.)

Said he didn't feel bad for cheating and that he never loved me and he never felt the way for me as he does for her. So he spent a month and a half still living here and just staying with her on some nights.

I lost 20 pounds because I was so stressed out and depressed and then he would always act like there was a chance for us to get back together and work things out so I would sleep with him and then it would be back to the same thing. When I finally stopped sleeping with him he made his decision to stay with her final and then a week later she broke up with him and he came crawling back to me. Now he won't stop talking to the girl he cheated with and says I should trust him...What should I do?

2007-05-27 14:13:37 · 23 answers · asked by sanitysrequiem85 2

month, sound like a plan, anybody else have any ideals ?

2007-05-27 14:12:40 · 26 answers · asked by Kendra H 2

I'm disabled and bad heath, With a great kid, how could he walk away from us? What Kind of help can I get, I only get 600.00 to live on.

2007-05-27 14:06:19 · 23 answers · asked by PENNY M 2

She's married and I'm single, but I can't stop thinking about how pretty and how sweet she is. I won't act on my crush but is it wrong for me to keep thinking & fantasizing about her? How can I stop?

2007-05-27 13:50:50 · 81 answers · asked by Florida-Fan1 2

They have a 45 year old son and 20 year granddaughter and her boyfriend living with them. None of them work. They want me and hubby to give them money.

2007-05-27 13:48:04 · 7 answers · asked by just wondering 1

if you had a chance to extinguish your step child(ren) from you life and keep your spouse would you???? why????...am i a bad person for thinking like this?

2007-05-27 12:46:02 · 17 answers · asked by ??? 2

My friend's significant other was married (and possibly divorced) many years ago. He says they started divorce proceedings, but (according to him) he doesn't know whether or not that ever went through. How can she go about finding out for sure?

2007-05-27 12:11:49 · 3 answers · asked by look_what_this_idiot_named_me 2

2007-05-27 11:53:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do we miss good old days ? what does it make us feel like that ?

2007-05-27 11:50:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like I have a 19 year old mentally ill son who quit school and works sometimes for his cousin. But my husband always tells me I have to do something about him. I tell him all the time that he needs to go out and fill out job applications. I even bring them home for him. I told my older son that he had to move out and 3 days later my husband wanted to know if he had found anything yet and what was taking so long. I am starting to think that I will never live up to this man's expectations. That everytime I will accomplish something that he will just be demanding something else. Anyone else deal with this? What advice do you have?

2007-05-27 11:45:50 · 13 answers · asked by Damian S 2

I am in desperate need of a few words of advice, and since I have no one in this life I can turn to...maybe a few of you kind hearted people can help me through this. I am a 19 year old female muslim living in America all my life. My family comes from a quite traditionally conservative family. All my life they have expected me to be arranged to someone and get married, and although I quiety nodded, I know I cannot go through with it. I have met the most amazing guy of my life, who just makes me smile no matter what. He is simply perfect for me. Problem is, he is White. I am Pakistani. I want to marry him, he even proposed to me and I said yes. Now I do not know what to do. I dont know if I have to pick him or my family, because I know I can only have one. I tried breaking off ties with him, I cried my eyes out, he just wouldnt let go. he begged me...he said his life lay in my hands, and I just couldnt stand hearing that from him and seeing him so hurt. He is willing to convert for me

2007-05-27 11:38:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i don't know what to do about it?he says he loves me,but i don't think he does.

2007-05-27 11:38:10 · 6 answers · asked by martha g 1

He is a horrible example to my daughter. He smokes marijuana around her and watches R rated films with her. I called child protective services, but they said they couldn't do anything.

2007-05-27 11:28:46 · 10 answers · asked by Ari's Mom 1

i want to know what most married people do together on the weekends... it seems as though i spend my weekends cleaning and waiting around for when his friends aren't on the x-box live so he can spend time with me..... this is NOT how i envisioned my married life!

2007-05-27 11:06:17 · 25 answers · asked by User Name 5

I just got married 3.5 months and my hubby has filed for divorce i have no contact with him only his lawyer.My hubby is 25 yrs old works for insurance company making 50 grand year and i am 21 yrs old college student only working part time 3 days a week at doctors office receptionist making $288 a week.My hubby moved out of our home and i really cant afford the house bills?My hubby also pretty much left the house baren after he left taking 90%furniture/decorations and all the cookware even some curtains i paid for most of those things.I put in 35%percent into the homes down payment and he put in 65%.Hubbys lawyer wants me to move out to put the house up for sale hile the housing market is at a high?How can i find a cheap lawyer?

2007-05-27 11:00:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend want's her ex out of her home but he wont go his name is not on the lease three year's ago she just got over breast cancer but with all the fighting they are having it could come back they have kid's together. so any help would do please

2007-05-27 10:47:35 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok hubby and i have seprate beds he says i snore to loud but i dont think thats the reason..and when we have sex its all about him being plzed and never me.yesterday i plzed him and once he was finished he got up and told me to do myself and left the room . we hardly ever do anything and i have a high sex drive.then last night kids were gone to there nan's we were alone so i tried getting him in the mood but he pushed me away.its like this all the time. not once or twice.i also told him last night i was cutting him off from sex he said like f**k .and if i say no to him about sex he gets pissed with me.

2007-05-27 10:40:57 · 22 answers · asked by browneyez 2

even when it does not matter if he/she is around are not.even if u do it 2 or more times a day cause u stay so horny that u cant help urself.......

2007-05-27 10:37:39 · 30 answers · asked by babe 1

I am in love with a man whose 13 years older than me. Its funny cos i feel very strong sexual connection between us, but at the same time i see him as my dad and protector..someone older and wiser, and it turns me on. However this man is still married.. ive known him for 3 years, and at his time he has separated from his wife and is going through his divorce. I dont see myself as homewrecker because he was no longer in love with her and said they grew apart in their marriage. His got 3 kids and their custody. Do you think i should wait for him.. i know he secretly wishes so even when he says he cant expect that. He doesnt really want to spend quality time together yet, before his ready... does it makes sense and what should i do in this situation? I know for sure i dont want to lose him.

2007-05-27 10:30:54 · 20 answers · asked by Kittykat 2

What is the main thing that causes a relationship to fail when you are in your early 20's and just learning to be an adult?


What is the most important thing to maintain a good relationship?

2007-05-27 10:28:20 · 14 answers · asked by JessickaSucks 2

two people, one catholic and one not are living together say they can get married in catholic church and there is a Co Habitating form they filled out at Pre Cana.

2007-05-27 10:05:45 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-27 09:48:13 · 13 answers · asked by Lola 2

5 weeks ago i got a phone late at night from my partners ex telling me he had called to her house and told her he loved and missed her. we had been togther for 7yrs and have a fab 5 yr old son. we broke up for a year after he came onto my best friend one night when we were all out togther. we both met and dated someone else but realised we still loved each other. we got back together, i forgave him and we had been blissfully happy ever since and never looked back. so this phone call was like a punch in the guts. he admitted being there, said he was high on ecstasy and would have said those things to a lamp post as he was in such a state. i have been devastated ever since and am getting very depressed. he has phoned me constantly, crying and begging me not to let this mistake ruin our family. but last night i asked him to call in for a chat, but he had already made plans with a mate and didnt want to let him down! so off he went and got pissed again. am i crazy for still wanting him?

2007-05-27 09:29:10 · 13 answers · asked by j c 2

2007-05-27 09:11:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 26, but I don't dress slutty. I don't even flirt with them.

2007-05-27 08:58:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have never wanted him to leave his wife for me as the arrangement suits me as it is. If it wasn't me he was seeing it would be somebody else. My dilema is that I love this guy alot but I also know that one day it has to end, should I make the break now or carry on until one of is forced to. Either way it is going to hurt like hell...

2007-05-27 08:43:23 · 60 answers · asked by kat 1

men in most cases are carried away by their sensual passions eventhough they are reading the bible

2007-05-27 08:32:03 · 17 answers · asked by patriarch 1

my husband takes a long time to finsh when we are having sex. it's good but sometimes i wish he would finish faster. i would love to know the weak spots in a guy. or maybe a way to get him to finish faster.

2007-05-27 08:00:38 · 19 answers · asked by lost 1

2007-05-27 07:53:04 · 34 answers · asked by Humpy 3